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Melody, 40

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About Me

Hi I think life is what we make of it, and I want to make the most out of mine.I like to watch a good comedy or romance show, spend time with my nephews, hang out with my friends, cheer on a sports team, and do things around my house. I have a good sense of humor, I am fun to be around. I don't like racist or offensive humor. I might not always have the right words to convey what I want to say, but I try to communicate and share what's on my mind or my heart.I work in software development, but I'm not much of a techie person. I am affectionate, and enjoy being around someone who is the same. Intimacy is important to me. I can be content spending my weekend at home watching football or curled up with my kindle. I do need some social time too...could be a game of cards, a movie, trivia downtown, or sampling some new drinks (I'm experimenting to find different craft beers and wines that I like). I like to try new cool/geeky things out. city wide scavenger hunt. murder mystery dinner... stand up comedy...etc Something simple, comfortable, enjoyable. Maybe dinner at Farren's, or Pool at Jillian's (i'm horrible, but it can be fun to play)... I've actually eanted to go to the planetarium lately - maybe that would be fun...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Colette

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

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  • Esmeralda

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

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