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Darlene, 40
United States, Washington, Olympia

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About Me

HI!! I am a 40 year old newly single woman. I am finding myself single again after 17 years I must admit that it feels weird. I'm supposed to describe myself, so here goes: I love to laugh and have a genuine love of learning- I am new to this site and not quite sure if I buy into the whole, "you can find love on a site like this", but I lost my husband to a woman he met on this site, so I guess it does work! So we shall see if it will work for me! Here's a little more about me: I love to cook and experience new things. I'm a bit of a thrill seeker. I enjoy being around people who are optimistic. The glass is half full! I have a very outgoing personality although I do find myself to be a little reserved until I get to know you. If you are looking for someone who will keep their mouth shut and not express how they feel, I am NOT for you. I am blunt and honest about how I feel. I am smart, funny, and very affectionate, so if you are that person who is not touchy / feely then I am not for you. I am passionate about what I believe in and am looking for someone who is also and appreciates it. I am an extremely sensual person and am not looking for anyone who is reserved or prudish in the bedroom. Only the adventurous need respond! I know that this is forward but I would rather be honest now opposed to wasting time and finding out later. I I am looking for as close to relationship perfection as possible. I have recently left a 17 year relationship for good after a three year separation, so, I'm really not into the game playing scene. What you see and hear is what you get. If this sounds good to you and like what you see and hear, let me know. Anything, or anywhere except the movies. You cannot get to know someone if you cannot talk to them. LOL

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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