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Phoebe, 34
United States, Connecticut, Bridgeport

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About Me

Not sure if this is the right path for me (internet dating) but I am an adventurous soul so I guess I will try it. I love art, music, poetry and anything creative. I am a scientist, teacher, and artist professionally. Personally I love gardening and anything outside and active. I have one child, a son that's rocking 7 and a half years. I am looking for fun and joy in all moments with all people that I encounter. Ultimately want to find a long-term companion...With the risk of sounding pompous, rude and dangerously blunt I am gonna lay out what I don't want from anyone I meet on this site to save some time:Don't contact me if:*you have major addiction issues. I like to party like most people, but I am conservative about it (a time and place for everything) and I believe in doing nothing in excess...(well maybe some things :)*You have STDs - never had em, don't want em. I won't hate on you as a person for your misfortune, but I won't share it with ya :)*you are a needy or controlling person - I have limited time to share and I value it highly. I don't have time or the inclination to coddle a partner or to battle over who I am or want to be.*you are insecure about who you are - I am a loyal lover that is real. However, I am attractive, smart and funny so I am often sought after by the opposite sex. I will be approached by other men, and occasionally I can be flirty. If you have a weak constitution or major trust issues, I am not the lady for you. Other than that, I am open- a chill atmosphere that affords us the opportunity to talk...I love comedy clubs and live music, but those things come later...at first, we need talking!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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