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Enid, 35

United States, California, Lancaster

Offline, last seen Thu, 17 Sep 2026 20:30:04

About Me

I love going to Southland Christian Church on Sunday mornings. I listen to all kinds of music, but I do listen to 107.1 the Christian music station 50% of the time. Not to say I don't blast the Beastie Boys on occasion. I pray. I talk about God whenever I feel inclined. If that makes you wonder if we're compatible, then we probably aren't. Gifts from men, such as candy and stuffed animals, make me uncomfortable. Please refrain. I try to be healthy and watch what I put in my body. I'm not always successful, but I don't need your help wrecking my diet. lol. Stuffed animals? I'm grown. It's weird. I'm probably more practical than romantic. If your feelings get hurt really easily, I'm not for you. I never intentionally try to hurt anyone. I am blunt, however. I don't want you to have to guess what I'm like, if you're listening, I'm going to tell you. No crystal ball needed. I have a few really good friends, not a lot of acquaintances. I prefer quality over quantity. I like watching KY basketball. Puh-leeze don't talk to me unless it's a timeout or halftime. I will not answer you. I like going out on the town...I like it about 3 or 4 times a year. If that. I will go out after 9pm for New Year's and Halloween, maybe a bachelorette party, and a couple of birthdays. Otherwise, I'm in bed by 11 most nights. I'm not going to go "out" every weekend. Happy hour? Absolutely. 10 pm to a dance club/bar? Not if I can help it! And I can usually help it. I'm looking for a smart guy, in the sense that I need him to provide for himself financially and be independent. I don't need you to be rich, in fact, it would be great if you weren't materialistic. I prefer a jeans and t-shirt guy to a suit and tie guy.I am currently going back to school for a second degree. I am changing directions and getting my RN license. 2yr program. I just started in Aug. ***. 95% of my time is spent studying, I don't have a lot of free time between class, studying, and work. That will change eventually! Although, maybe my life as a nurse will be as time consuming? Idk. Guess I'll find out soon.It is important that you like my friends. They will very likely be in my life longer than you. I'm not giving them up. I will know what else I'm looking for when I find it. A good first date is Starbucks or Common Grounds or any other such place. I don't want to commit to more than an hour with you until I know for sure I'm interested in knowing more about you...which I can find out over coffee. :) Please don't be offended. I just don't want to waste my time or anyone else's. Please be on time (within 5 or 10 min) or have a really good reason. If you'll be later than 10min, a courtesy text would be appreciated. If this makes me sound like I don't like being kept waiting and you think it makes me uptight...please don't ask me out.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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