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Imelda, 29
United States, Massachusetts, Springfield

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About Me

I need a partner. A best friend. The type of guy who can't wait to come home and reconnect. And this should all be effortless.I want to feel like I can always speak my mind and not have to hold anything back. My ideal partner would be a communicator, a feeler, and a thinker.It's so hard to find that balance between liking a person on paper and being attracted to them in person. Sometimes, this feels like an impossible task, but I'm trying to have faith in the universe. I prefer someone who is type-A, who will take charge and make decisions. It's a turn off for me when a guy can't just pick a restaurant. I have a bold personality, but I'm not loud. Emphatic, but not brash. I can be aggressive and I hate the feeling of bulldozing over a partner who won't speak his mind. I am not much of a people-pleaser, but i'll do anything for the ones I love. I don't really care if you never exercise. I don't care if you dont have a six pack. I don't care if we never go jogging or fishing or hunting. PLEASE can we never go hunting.... ?I just know that if I can find that right person then none of this stuff I'm typing will really matter....I like: - clean cut- intelligent- good drivers- decision-makers- planners- simple, classy appearanceI'm attracted to intelligence and success. I like a partner with their own interests and their own accolades. I do not need a puppy to follow me around. I'm not looking for a manchild.I hate vulgarity and low-brow humor. I cannot deal with any rhinestone studded t-shirts or fleur de lis embellished jeans. Must be happy, stable, college experienced, "normal" person with extraordinary intellect and steez. Must be on never-ending quest for knowledge. Must treat children and dogs with the utmost of care.Underneath it all, I'm just a girl who wants to be swept off her feet. A girl who has high standards and places a lot of importance on class and spelling. And a girl who expects the best and will give you her best in return.My taste in music is....fantastic.Ok, I don't believe that I have a type, but I do have an aversion to many types...if you don't get a response from me, and also happen to fall into one of these, there may be some correlation there. please don't send me nasty messages, i only respond to people that I have an interest in. It's not rude, it's efficient.- appear to be any type of flashy, inc clothing, jewelry, hairstyle- visible tattoos- biker- musician by trade-gym and/or club ratby all means, carry on, just not my style. On a first date I expect to have all arrangement made ahead of time so that I only have to show up and be impressed. If you pull that off, then we'll go from there.I do not want to go to a sushi joint.I do not like being embarrassed, or worse, feeling embarrassed about the person I'm with. *** I might even run away.I'm a girly-girl, so I'm looking for a charming, polite, respectful man. I'm turned off by childishness and dependency.Confidence is absolutely essential. And as always, faking confidence is the exact same damn thing as having confidence. I'm not all about looks, but presentation is important to me. It shows me you have taste, polish, maturity. I'm not intimidating in person, I promise. Actually, I'm quite small.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Mexican Spanish Biography Family & Kids Music Bowling Boxing
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