Total users: 61,216,080 Online users: 220,103
Della, 31
United States, Louisiana, Metairie

Offline, last seen Wed, 04 Feb 2026 10:40:28

About Me

Sometimes we meet people in our lives that God may not have intended for us. We have our share of good encounters and bad ones....each tested who we are, who we've become and who we want to be. At the end of the day I think that Ive been lucky to meet both. I've had the best people enter my life and I've had the worst. I've had people who have lifted my spirit so high and made me learn so much, enriched my life in ways they will never know and made me grateful to be alive. I've had the worst people enter and leave my life who broke me down, made me question my self worth, and tested me to see how strong and how much i could really take. I've been in love and I've fallen out of it. I've had my heart opened and broken. I've given too much and gotten too little, but I've also gotten so much from both of those. Sometimes its the people in your life who hurt you who actually help your inner YOU more than you know. It's when someone pushes you to the edge....when they make you wanna jump...when they make you feel like you have no options...that you get the strength... I've been on that edge of a hopeless cliff. I've had all my emotional baggage strapped to my back....so heavy and about to tip me over...and it is at that moment...that i chose to jump..... and do you know what happened? I flew.... I let go, I was FREE. I jumped from that ledge of insecurity, of false promises, of endless tears and unbearable grief, of misery and denial, and I left that girl behind. I left everything that I thought was comfort and realized there was more beyond the horizon...just past that cliff's edge....to a place that was not known....and not secure....and away from all I thought was real.....and I soared. And I've never looked back So sometimes we meet people who push us to that limit....because God wanted us to learn that life is all about risks....and it requires you to jump. Dont be the person who always has to think "what if" ..... take a stand, a stand for yourself....for all you are and all you ever wanted to be...let go of what holds you down, what hurts you...what makes you think you cannot FLY..... AND JUST JUMP...... Can't say I've ever went out on dates it's been a while so u will have to be creative! Something comfortable please!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Caribbean Japanese Mexican Crime Documentary Martial Arts Volleyball
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Marissa from Metairie | Woman | 35 years old | Pisces
    Marissa

    Online

    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I am a free spirited, outgoing, strong, determined, giving person. I just want to enjoy life without all the drama of unnecessary bs. I am a mother, a daughter, sister, friend, lover, teacher, student, artist. I am more than just what the eyes see. Love all kinds of music from all styles... Whatever I feel in my soul at that moment I will listen to no matter if someone looks at me crazy =) Its all about smiling & being free.... I believe everyone makes mistakes it's human nature, but to keep repeating them is only a fool's move. To me the world is over flowing with liars, manipulators & cheaters. It's hard to find sum 1 who actually believes in the value of love, family & being respectful. People has lost sight of the important things & rather hold on to the negative things & make excuses for them like that will make a difference. If people realized having some one who actually loves them is worth more than any amount of money. When we reach a certain age childish ways should be deleted. U can be grown & have a good time. It's time to embrace the blessings giving not hide behind fears & allow ur ego to take over. U will miss out on ur true belonging in life.... Oh yeah.... If ur looking for a "sex partner" Im probably not the one for u..... I value my worth way more than just being a person's object... To each their own, but my way of thinking is on a whole other level at this point of life.... Just letting u know..... First dates are always heart racing... Your nerves are racing right along with your thoughts... First dates should be in a place where u both feel comfortable & at ease... Nothing loud & distracting from getting to know one another... A simple meal (not something to impress, but something real)... If its beautiful outside a nice walk just talking... First impressions are never forgotten, so be yourself always... Being comfortable within yourself will make the other more comfortable... Its all about enjoying one another's company & seeing if there is an interest....

    Chat
  • Johanna from Metairie | Woman | 31 years old | Capricorn
    Johanna

    Online

    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Hey! :-) So it's Football Season and I've waited all Year for it...And I'm so Heartbroken! My Giants suck :'(I'm 31 and I have one daughter who is 12. I'm a CNA and I'm currently working for My Patient who is 43 with ALS! I work Independently and I am My Own Boss :-) I love My Job!I'm here because I would love to meet My One! I know exactly what I want from a man and I'm not willing to Settle for Anything less than what I deserve! I'm very caring and I love to cook :-) I go to Church every Sunday. I don't drink, smoke or go out! ...

    Chat
  • Letha from Metairie | Woman | 33 years old | Libra
    Letha

    Offline

    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I love comedy & laughing! I love to camp & be outdoors. My goals include finishing my Masters, getting through this rough economy (seriously). Wish to meet a party soul and have much fun

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: