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Velma, 35
United States, Louisiana, Metairie

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Yes! I may look familiar! I was recently on the site but took my profile down. Looks like I pulled it a bit prematurely though as I haven't been sufficiently snatched up yet! ;) I will say this upfront. I have dated fathers before. It never works out. I'm sorry, everyone deserves love but I'm tired of wasting my time and am definitely not interesting in coming in last on the priority list...I may be a bit rusty in the dating department but I know I'm a great catch ;) I am loyal to a fault, smart, sweet, SILLY, funny, independent, but not the kind that makes you feel like I am up to no good. I'd rather have a partner in crime for that. HahaAlong with being loyal to a fault, I am also honest to a fault, and relentlessly persistent ( is that redundant??) lol I am mostly laid-back but I have some things I am particular about. If you Give me too much space, I'll know that you and I aren't gonna work; I know that guys that like a girl, show it. Also, I truly seek someone whom appreciates me as a whole person. I'm the girl-next-door type, meaning yes, there may be prettier girls out there or on this site, but they may not be complete... I have a brain too and think I'm pretty funny ;) Hey! People laugh at my jokes! ... Or uh, maybe at me! Lol Either way; life is nicer when we're having fun! Don't you agree? I'm a sincere person. I want others to feel good around me, like I want to be with them. I'm not looking for perfect, just perfect for me! So... I own my own place, have a good career, and no kids. I am attractive and affectionate. I've got a pretty figure and a delicate heart. 3 I could stand to work out more (knee injury caused me some issues) but I am back in business. I was told previously I am too nice. It was followed up that I need to date like a man. I am too nice... I know. I am just now learning what "date like a man" means. I don't know how I feel about this?? I'm 100% lady with a bit of a quirky pervy sense of humor! It may take me some time to fully shine or it may take no time at all. This is the sort of thing that depends on the people dating. No one likes talking to a wall lol Some ask how I can still be on the market? I could have been married by now; however, I want to find someone I mesh with. Someone who is smart, Trustworthy, honest, loyal, a good communicator, affectionate... That is what I deserve. Looks matter too as well as chemistry! I honestly don't find many people drop-dead attractive early on. :) I am a young 35. I know age is just a number but if you act like a stick in the mud, a toddler or appear like life has been hard on you, meaning, you are 37 but look 47 then we aren't a good match... Let's be honest if I looked 42 or even my own age, many of you would pass my profile by. No double standard here ;) Btw, I don't chat. Please don't take it personally. I am certain there are plenty of women closer who would totally be into that :) Real men don't need to play games. They don't need women to play games either. If I'm dating someone and they cross my mind, I CALL or txt. If you want me to be scarce, then tell me upfront. I will not call you or txt. I will wait for you to decide you want to see me. I'll go ahead and date other guys in the meantime as your behavior doesn't suggest you're a man yet. Just remember, I have never dated a guy who has once dissed me and DIDNT attempt to come back around. I'm incredibly stubborn as well. I've given second chances to a few times only to crunch up my face and ask myself why? You see, I'm willing to be single for the rest as my life if the alternative is a bunch of b*llsh*t:) If you are serious about meeting someone, putting in an appropriate amount of effort, and being open about expectations, feel free to *** can go from there. if you are unwilling or too lazy to do those things, do yourself a favor and save yourself the trouble of composing an *** As you can probably tell, I am a straight shooter. My job is busy, I have responsibilities at home so wasting time playing peekaboo with a grown man is just ridiculous to me. I'll let you decide if I'm your cup of tea! Please take a peek and write if you'd like. :) Let's chat over drinks or dinner!! See if we can carry a conversation and have fun doing it! Hopefully laugh at each others jokes! Exchange bad date stories. Hopefully have an even better 2, 3, 4, 5.....100th date :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Cooking Basketball Dirt Bike Racing Nascar Outdoor Hobbies
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