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Benita, 32

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About Me

Driven, responsible, compassionate, funny, introverted, and laid back, I enjoy the water, writing, photography, dancing, music, exercise, food, arts, psychology and culture. Musically, I enjoy a spectrum of indie, classical, rock, dubstep, doomstep, 80's, oldie goldies, etc. Music, is in fact, so very important to my well being that it would be nice to share with somebody of the same musical preferences. Seeking somebody with similar interests and characteristics, who's health conscious, and preferably more outgoing than I because I can be quite shy at first. I like nice things, but flashiness doesn't impress me, so superficial, materialistic, or arrogant people please look elsewhere. A little honesty goes a long way. I can be very assertive, often times blunt, and expect the same courtesy from others...so long as done tactfully. Want to know anything else, just ask! When it comes to first dates, I prefer the unconventional. Awkward as is the first time meeting someone, I prefer a low key environment such as an art gallery, cooking or pottery class, performing arts, live music...something of that nature. Dinner or movies are far too personal and can initially be uncomfortable. I'm also pretty spontaneous, so if you have any ideas, I'm usually open for it.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

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