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Bettie, 34
United States, Illinois, Peoria

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About Me

For cryin' out loud...please, if you don't have a backbone quit reading and move to the next profile. I have no time for insecurities, people who can't accept that sometimes I work late or on weekends or men who don't have the balls to be straightforward. I am not a child and I promise I won't cry if we meet and don't hit it off...if I'm too fat or too thin for your liking, you hate my perfume, I'm too tall, talk too loud or whatever it is...don't beat around the bush. I don't care to waste my time and would appreciate if others wouldn't waste it either. Because for everyone out there who isn't that into me, I can promise you there are several others out there just waiting for the chance to show me just how much they are into me. And that's reality!I make my own rules and live my life my way. No regrets...everything I've done in my life was exactly what I wanted at the time. I have no expectations. I act on my intentions, with purpose and with passion, regardless of the outcome. I find all too often that a person's expectation of how things should happen makes them think that things are not working out. I'm honest to a fault and I speak my mind. Looking for someone who is on my level, which means you must have your own place, a functioning vehicle and a job. Yeah, the economy sucks but if I can manage to work not one, but 2 jobs, take care of my kids on my own, make it to their school activities and still find time for family and friends, you can too! I'm very straightforward, loyal, always keep my word, and always put others before myself. I'm a terrible housekeeper because hell, the mess will be there tomorrow, I might not. I'm always on the go with work, kids, family and friends. I'm going back to school for my masters and studying for the LSATs and still trying to live life.Would love for someone to take me to ride 4-wheelers and hang *** the river or beach, maybe hit some mudholes in your 4-wheel drive, outdoor concerts are my fav and I like setting things on fire and playing video games with my kids! So any fun, attractive, non-ignorant people, without any social hang-ups feel free to message me!I'm a realist. I don't play games. I'm pretty level-headed. I take everything for what it's worth. If I'm interested in you, trust me, you'll know it ;)If you have no friends/no life and expect after one lame date that I'm going to devote 100% of my time to you, ditch my kids with a sitter every chance I get, and carry on some bizarre relationship with you inside of a bubble devoid of any contact with the outside world - time for you to re-evaluate. That will not happen. Relationships aren't built over night. They take time. They're built on friendships...and friendships as we know are built on a foundation of alcohol, sarcasm, inappropriateness, and shenanigans! You can't plan life, you just have to go with it.Grad school, LSATs, Law School next fall (hopefully)...as always life is treating me well :) Dinner, drinks, a movie, a lil dancing and romancing, I'm up for just about anything, but don't ask me to pick you up a bottle of liquor and a pack of smokes and come hang at your place at say 11pm for a first date because that's lame! Be creative and keep things interesting because I'm really impatient and get bored easily ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

R&B Rap Chinese Spanish Thai Crime Mystery Cricket
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