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Ophelia, 51
United States, Illinois, Naperville

Offline, last seen Tue, 21 Jul 2026 07:55:15

About Me

I enjoy cooking and baking. Hate the cold!-this is home. They have two seasons- green and brown. Most people are too stuck up or afraid to say Hi as they walk by. I like to make others feel welcomed. When out with friends, I will always invite the loner to come join the group so they do not have to drink alone. The Big Bang Theory cracks me up. Like to watch old black and white movies from the 30's-50's. I listen to rap/hip-hop and old country.Not the outdoors type. Winter is too cold and in the summer I do nothing but burn-peel-burn some more. I've never tanned in my life. Just turn different shades of red.Love joking around,laughig, pulling pranks. I don't take things too serious and neither should he. I want someone who can laugh at me, with me and himself.I like cats,dogs and horses( not to ride,just to pet their nose) Hate spiders,bats,creepy crawl things,worms,snakes. I like the quiteness of fishing but I dont like to eat fish and I wont bait my own hook! I can be on the river bank casting time and time again without a hook or bait. Just like to pretend I'm fishing. I find it calming. I know-weird right?My dislikes in food: anything green, most meats, and if it has too many ingredients I wont eat it either(up to 5 is my max), black beans look like dead flies-YUK!-the kind where the juices drip off your elbows-no lettuce-no pickle(green stuff) The first time we meet in person would be day time for coffee. If things go well, then a dinner date, drinks or a movie. I prefer a place where jeans and t-shirt are the norm. Dressing up is okay, but at the end of the day I just want to relax with a bottle of beer and catch the game on tv. Sports bars would be a great place to meet. Not into basketball but will watch it. I prefer football or baseball. I've never been to a hockey game but think it would be a lot of fun. Especially right down by the glass where all the action is.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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