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Suzette, 53
United States, Illinois, Naperville

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I am a woman proud of where life has brought her, wiser for the ride, but still open to more adventures! I would love to share my time with someone special who has similar likes. I am a fun hearted woman who loves to be spontaneous and loves surprises! I like enjoying sunrises with a cup of coffee, and sunsets with a glass of wine! I love to watch a good movie curled up on the couch with a big plate of hotwings or popcorn, and my phone on silent! I dont enjoy the bar scene anymore, but i like to go enjoy seeing live music and am a pretty good dancer! I love to paint,and can get lost for hours just me and my paint brushes! I like to drive down unexplored roads with my camera and look for old barns or houses, or beautiful scenery that i can replicate on canvas! i enjoy treasure hunting at flea markets not knowing what I might find, and ok if i find nothing at all, its just a great way to spend a summer day! I am a country girl at heart, and having a picnic under a tree on a quilt is my idea of a great time! I will bring my famous fried chicken and potato salad and you bring the wine! I have never fished, but floating down a river with all of the noises of civilization gone, just listening to the birds and water and being with my guy, sounds like fun! It is important that whoever i date is a christian man who lets God be first in his life because God is first in mine. I want and need our relationship to go MUCH deeper than just sexual, I want to look into your eyes and see something there *** just lust. I want to learn who you are and what makes you tick, finding out the' little stuff ', about eachother is what creates a real heart connection! Ilove to laugh and find the positive in everything! Dont be afraid to be yourself around me and just be silly, i will NEVER be to old to look at life through the eyes of a child! I am a bluejeans, t-shirt or tank top and flip flop girl, but love to dress up in a little black dress and high heels and go out on my mans arm! I I am not afraid to get my hands dirty, and really like to be outside in my flower beds with dirt up my arms! I love little displays of affection, like a surprise kiss, or your arms wrapped around me in public, (makes me feel safe). I long for someone to treat me like i own a special place in his heart, i long to feel like a school girl again who cant wait to see you, and thinks about you all day long. I love to be in the gym at least 3 to 4 times a week, and have lost close to 40 pounds since my profile pictures were taken. I think it is important to take care of our bodies, and like to eat healthy and so have enjoyed learning to cook in a new and healthier way! BUT I like an occasional good steak and the most fattening dessert I can find! I am looking for a man who is honest to a fault, who can laugh at himself and will make me laugh too , a sense of humor and wit are attractive to me, it just releases the pressure and makes me feel more comfortable to get to know you. I do have a little bit of trust issues, they stem from a terrible relationship long gone, but I WANT to trust a man again and long for someone who is who they appear to be. I like a man who is laid back, who can be fine with staying in and just relaxing. But at other times someone who can look across the room at me and say, "You know what? Lets just get in the car and head to where ever!!" Seeing new things keep new memories forming in the relationship and keep it fun! A man who can throw a steak on the grill or cook me up something delicious in the kitchen is SUPER SEXY to me! I can sit there watching and talking and laughing while you cook and keep your wine glass full! You have to respect my time with my family and i will respect yours too...and in time i would love for you to get to know them. My children and grandchildren are a very important part of my life, and i love to go to the soccer games or to the park or zoo, it doesn't matter as long as I am enjoying watching them grow up! If I haven't completly bored you or scared you away, then please let me know, there is a lot to this "LITTLE FISH", lol...but I am worth getting to know, and would love to get "CAUGHT" out of the pond! Maybe sharing a meal at a local restaurant, or we could jump in the truck, take the first road off to the right and just drive not knowing where we are going and let the day unfold and explore all the possibilities, taking time to get to know about each other, no pressure, and lots of relaxing with laughter thrown in for good measure! Its ok to flirt, but be respectable and JUST HAVE FUN!! Lets see if there is a spark, hopefully we will both be pleasantly surprised!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Irish Middle Eastern Nascar Snowboarding
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