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United States, Illinois, Naperville

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It's a tragedy I'm still alone. Tragic....OK, not McBeth kind of tragic, but still. Some modern version of tragic, in-the-eyes-of-the-beholder kind of tragic.Why do I deserve forever? Because I'm loving and smart and fun. Because I know relationships take trust and respect and friendship. Because I like to slow dance in the kitchen, make you laugh at ridiculous things, talk about the things that are important to us. Because, with your help, I won't make lists of threes all the time. And wine. And scotch. And sex. But that's all you get to know about that now. This is a family program. I'm left leaning but am interested in learning about the other side. Ok, I'll also try to change your mind, but it won't involve yelling.The forever you is smart and engaged in life and funny. You will reek of integrity and compassion. You will not be afraid to care. You will understand that you are not the hub of the universe (and neither am I). You will not fear the silly or the serious.I'm starting fresh. Want to join me while it's still all crispy and delicious? we'll squirm a little, stammer, maybe blush. but then the wine will kick in, and it will turn out to be pretty fun after all.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Beloved from Naperville | Woman | 56 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 56 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-57

    Hi! My name is Beloved. I am divorced taoist asian woman with kids from Naperville, Illinois, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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  • Alissa from Naperville | Woman | 51 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I can laugh at myself and find humor in almost anything. I will share that gift of laughter in return. Life is an adventure and staying active is the key to staying young. I wake up every morning with a smile to start a new day and face the challenges that come my way. What I want out of life is pretty easy to explain and it boils down to "a partner to share dreams with everyday". Is that original or does everyone put this in their profile? My attitude is dreams do come true and I am not willing to settle! I accept people for being themselves and hope to learn and grow with someone. Just enjoying a moment in time and remembering how to live in the moment. Dating is really quite simple...just enjoy the time you spend with the person and have hope that they enjoy spending time with you. Dating should never feel like pressure or be uncomfortable for either person. It is about sharing dreams and living them everyday. I guess you could say... "I'm still a dreamer". If you like building and living your dreams and sharing that part of yourself... please write me a note. Life is what you make of it. If you are you on here just looking for the next best thing......PLEASE move along and jump on the next profile. Just an FYI.... Actions speak louder than any words! Major Turn Offs:- Asking me to pay your child support after a first meeting- Pretending to be someone you're not- Lying - Smoking- Married- Rude to other people Turn Ons- Being a good father- Humor- Great smile- Responsible and loyal- Honesty (you earn my respect quickly)- Understands values & prioritiesBest wishes to you and your search. How about I pay for the first meeting? Maybe a picnic outside by a lake?

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  • Penny from Naperville | Woman | 52 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I love the ocean and lakes. Boating has always been a big part of my life. Spend a lot of time on my boat during the warm weather.....fun in general. Love to laugh and smile. Concerts. My first 38 yrs lived there. Get my beach fix every chance I get. I'm very easy going and easy to get along with. I don't like drama. Can dress up or down depending on the event or situation. I work in pediatrics and have my Real Estate license. I have wonderful children, two who are grown and on their own and ***&***who I raise fulltime. Also, a Grandaughter. They all come first in my life. I don't do drugs and don't tolerate any part of that in my life. I also won't tolerate lies. Big or little white. It's all the same. Please. If you've put that you're single because you're separated pass me by. Only truely divorced or truely single men thank you. Also, if you are not at least 40, please no *** if I'm interested in younger men or "a good time". No, that doesn't mean if you are 40 or older that you can ask! Lol. ;) You all know what I mean. I am taking my search seriously. I'm hoping to meet someone for a "rest of my life" relationship. I really want to get off of this site. I was away for a short time but I'm back and willing to try it again. If you want to know something about me please ask. Good luck to us all! :) When your heart beats for someone, its amazing. When your heart skips a beat for someone, it's breathtaking. :) Coffee, drinks, lunch or dinner. We can decide.

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