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Reese
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Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 48-58
I am hoping to find someone that shares an interest in Christianity.Christianity is very important to me.I am not a holy roller (far from it)And a healthy life style.I am not looking for casual sex, not interested in "separated" or "just dating"I'll make a deal; dont try to use me for sex and I wont use you for money.I AM NOT INTERESTED IN LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPSIts pretty simple really, looking for someone close to my age within a reasonable distancedoesn't work nights (we would would rarely see each other)Clicking yes on the meet me option is nice, but sending a message is betterI am not a phone person, dont mind talking for a few minutes, but i am not into hanging on the phone. First date does not include the hour a person wants to hang on the phone to get to know me.For a first meeting i would like to go for coffee somewhere very public.I dont drink alcohol so meeting for a drink is not a good date for mereason being a healthy life styleI noticed that in this time of equality most men want the women to initiate first contact.At the risk of seeming uninterested I will not be that person. Once there is a friendship or possibility of connection then I have no problem initiating or asserting myself.Pls dont depend on me to request phone contact or a meeting.I think that it is something the gentleman should do.Also a first meeting should be in the female's area.These are little things to expect, if this is an issue from first contact then there doesn't seem any point in going any further.Sorry to seem uncompromising.There is plenty time for compromise in the future.
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Kristel
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Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 49-59
Lakers are my basketball team, it's the same you either love them or not. LolMy goal in life is to find somebody that likes life and is not scared to work on a relationship it is work but it's also a lot of fun getting to know each other. I work hard but also like to play hard too. My world does not revolve around work, I like to go places spontaneously for the week-end, enjoy a good movie and some good food take a nice walk or just set back and talk. My main person in life is too help other people over come there obstacles in life. Yes I'm a counselor that takes pride in my work and I serve a lot of people in the community. What makes me happy is my grandchildren and my children. I have a daughter that lives with me she is going to school and she needs my help at times. I love all kinds of music, slow music, old rock and roll, R&B jazz and blues is soothing to listen too. A good concert is still rewarding. There is somebody out there for me and I'm not giving up. I love people and have so much love to give to a good man so if you want a relationship I would love to meet you and we can go from there.
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Cherlyn
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Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 51-61
I am a good person who sees the good in people. At times this has not worked out so well and made me doubt my ability evaluate someone's honesty and character. I do not know why anyone would be dishonest about themselves or what they are looking for in a relationship, but, please, just be honest! I have to admit I like "real" men who know what they want yet are strong enough to be kind and gentle. I am longing for and perhaps fantasizing about putting my head on someone's strong shoulder and having him wrap his arms around me and telling me it will be ok. Of course there are lots of other reasons I'd like to be wrapped up in a man's arms:). I desire a best friend, partner, an I've got your back and won't abandon you at the first sight of a problem kind of guy. over the years I have been super-responsible and independent. I've been through a lot but have been blessed with the strength and humor to handle everything thrown my way. I have learned,however, that sometimes being strong means you can accept help.So, I am really looking for a partner, a man who will treat me as well as I treat him... And I just tried fly- fishing and am taking it up also. Sunday night I read the paper in bed and relaxed!I am so not a thing person. I have many interests. I love flower gardening, swimming or any water related activities, walking my dog, rollerblading, sports (Warning: Big NY Giants fan). I love to dress up and go out to dinner, theater, a bar once in a while. I have to tell you, though, if you stop by my house you might find me covered in dirt, mud, and sweat with my hair in a pony tail without a stitch of makeup on. If the weather is nice, I am outside. MOST IMPORTANTLY, I would like to have the man in my life make me feel special and sexy and desirable to him. Men are so silly not to realize that if I feel special and good about myself when I am with him, I will want to make him feel the same. And VERY IMPORTANTLY: if I feel confident about being sexually desirable, I would love to explore the depths of intimacy with my man. What on earth could possibly better than to have amazing intimacy and,of course, the special closeness that can only come with true,trusting loyal intimacy and the joys it brings? It says the longer your description of a first date, the more likely you will get a response. Call me silly, but a first date seems like it should be coffee or a drink in a mutually acceptable place. Of course, I should let you know that I am not spending a lot of time messaging back and forth. I am not looking for a pen pal. We look. We decide to correspond a bit, so why not meet to see if there is a potential spark of interest? Makes sense to me!