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Tom, 54
United States, California, Dana Point

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About Me

Laid back and easy going, I definitely prefer to go with the steady flow of things in life as opposed to paddling like mad against them. However, do not confuse that relaxed demeanor with lack of drive and ambition. I know what I want out of life and work hard to that end, but I also know how to kick back, relax and turn up the volume on fun and excitement! I am definitely happiest when I am outdoors, especially when sharing good times with family or friends. It doesn’t take much to put a smile on my face. I can easily transition from a morning walk on the beach to an afternoon wandering through the Orange County swap meet to an evening dining out and sharing endless conversation with you. What matters most is the company I keep! No matter where I go or what I do – snow skiing, farmers markets, festivals and more – fun and laughter are always on the agenda. I have somewhat of a creative streak, too. Actually. I used to be an artist but haven’t done much in that regard lately. Perhaps you can re-inspire me to color outside the lines once again! At the heart of any relationship, open and honest communication is required if it is to succeed. Like many ambitious and successful individuals, we have most likely acquired the confidence to speak our minds and enjoy the results; however, what matters most is the ability to maintain an open heart towards the sensitivities of others. A great communicator is a skilled listener first and foremost. I will bring that strong sense of empathy and understanding to the relationship. I believe the best love is the one person who makes you a better person without changing you into someone other than yourself. That is the kind of love I seek and is definitely the kind of love I can offer to the right woman, especially if she is one for whom kindness is an ***, honesty is a lifestyle and laughter is a habit. While good looks are definitely desirable in a match, I also seek a woman of depth and substance. She is quick witted and curious about the world around her. She has also an active sense of adventure and when opportunity knocks to experience something new and exciting, she won’t complain about the noise. Knock-knock….

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking Cooking Music Drawing / Painting Playing Cards Traveling Watching Movies Pets
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