SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Sonja
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Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
I am blonde and a natural, intelligent woman, so I have been told:). I am in the education field. I love art, fashion and music. I am attracted to someone who knows how to communicate whether we are together or not and just has a great way of communicating and sometimes that can be with words, text etc but just good at expressing himself. I am not interested in someone who has lingering ex wives, girlfirends etc., etc. I am interested in us both starting with a clean slate. Confidence and being able to be happy alone is a very attractive trait in a man....for sure! I am slightly old fashioned on here, so if I looked at your profile, I may *** a later date or you can take the initiative and just *** like that. Being blunt...I like a guy who is a man and calls and is attentive. Of course I do reciprocate but believe a man should be confident enough to know if a woman likes him:). I am not attracted to men who are passive. I always try to see the positive in life. Finding the one man for the rest of my life, to be honest, is what I want. I feel that if you are serious about meeting someone and not being a mystery, then you will have at least 4 recent photos without sunglasses on, so please do respond if that fits you or *** let me know why you don't have them on this site:). If you need help in any level of MATH, you can always *** Although I have been a business owner and hired people and am the one that others come to for advice, I have to start taking my own advice in selecting the right partner for me. In the past, I had to be in control and make huge decisions with my life whether it be going on a car lot to purchase my car, take the car in to be serviced or working on my computer (I understand if computers aren't your thing) and I know that I would appreciate having advice and a man that knows how to help with things like that without being asked to do so...he just wants to be a man that way. I am not on here for just dating around. I would consider myself a laid back 'artsy' type person. I am a positive person. I love music, guitar and writing music for fun, but not professionally. I usually have music on. I want someone who is content and happy with himself, his career and financial status whether good or bad and content with where they are in life and wants to have a partner, to make his life even happier and more fulfilling. I have to admit that I am a hopeless romantic and even like flowers and being taken out to a nice restaurant now and then. If you are in between relationships, recovering from a breakup or living at home and not motivated to move ahead in life, then we are not going to be a match. If you have done a lot in your life and are just simplifying, I do understand but even so I am attracted to driven, self motivated people. I have had a long successful working career owning a business that involves education. I set that up online and dabble with that and do some of it here too. I have simplified my life and moved to this area to finally enjoy my life and perhaps find that special someone....I believe in putting my relationship first and I am interested in finding another who feels the same. I like a connected relationship where we have good communication and understand one another even if we are not talking all the time. In a relationship, I never go to bed angry or unsettled. I seek a relationship that continues to grow.I love and enjoy mostly all music and good food. I love to laugh and am attracted to a guy that is the same and has a great personality. A sense of humor is nice too. I like to go out to eat, cook at home with my partner, dance or just listen to music and enjoy the night.I like a guy who has been there done that and knows that he can attract women but wants to find one special woman to be with and is finally tired of the dating scene. Therefore, a confident guy....a plus for sure.I like a man who is intelligent and a good listener and who treats others the way he wants to be treated and definitely not overly preoccupied with things in his life, so not giving time for each other and our relationship. Communication is so important. I prefer face to face but if we are talking on the phone, I do need someone who is expressive and good at communcating on the phone too and even texting or *** we are not together..... What I’m doing with my life:I stay busy but am basically working on several things which involves my creative side of music and the arts. I have time now to put the priority on finding the right partner and enjoying life.I’m really good at:communicating, listening and caring about others. First we should talk on the phone and then if we decide to meet, we should both pick where to meet. A local place. If we have a second and third date, I like it if he makes the arrangements for the date out for dinner and make it a surprise.
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Edwina
Online
Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
Hiya! Welllll... ;) Ha, I can be a feisty fishy who is comfortable in most any situation, I'm pretty self-aware, very loyal and 100% honest (read as: pleeease don't waste my time since life is short!), I'm a mostly strong woman with a high level of energy. I'm abundantly caring and sincere but am also fairly direct (so occasionally a little blunt -OOPS!! But I def *don't* mean to be hurtful.) My personality is usually positive and playfully (devilishly?) bratty...and I hope you are likewise at least sometimes. -Wait, all that stuff except for you too being a woman that is. ;)Though rarely found, here to chat with a quality someone who may eventually become a longterm bf. :) Simple things make me happy. Heck, life has lots more nice, small moments than it does big ones anyway! I'm sporty and adventurous plus the reliable and emotionally supportive type, who enjoys spur of the moment stuff *and* setting some plans in advance so there's also something fun to look forward to. While I'm fairly independent, I unquestionably want to have and appreciate having a man around. I have a vulnerable side so having a bf who values that and offers up some strong shoulders would be great! You should be someone who I can count on. (Otherwise, why even be with me?) ...Who I match best with: predominantly clean cut, athletically trim, tall, slightly younger men (they match my activity/energy level better), who tend to blur the lines between white and blue collar interests and mindset (though leaning more to white than blue.) Oh!, and I very much hope you're an animal lover because if you don't see the HUGE value in having a pet, we're from vastly different worlds that prob wouldn't mesh well. (I know some great pet sitters so traveling shouldn't be an excuse to not have a fur buddy.) Also important is for you to have intelligence with a strong streak of integrity. Men who interest me often have a sarcastic wit and can appreciate multiple styles of music. -Basically I like a well rounded guy, you know, ones with actual depth. ...BIG bonus if you're a cuddler and a hand holder! :) I certainly won't pretend that I'm perfect. Mmh, ok I admit to running about ***minutes behind schedule a little too frequently. Yeah I know, I knoooww. :P And sure, I might once in awhile become impatient due to a current frustration. *sigh* ...Oh! Plus there's also that really cute thing where I'm usually right, which is kind of hard on those who mistakenly think they are, LOL ;) Aw heeyyy, I'm only TEASING, sheesh! Eh, well anyway, I'm a tell it like it is type and I'm NOT a high maintenance girl with most things -phew!!! ;) I don't have an adventurous palate though, so for all you fancy menu men out there, just eat at those places when out with your pals or business clients. But I *do* like to actually eat! :) ...Something a potential romantic man in my life needs to do is to cause an *** of energized interest. Without my feeling mentally and physically attracted right away, I already know we WON'T be sharing sheets later... Can't help it very much that I'll always appreciate physical beauty in my harder to find, quality man. Over time I've paid attention to what DOES *** for me and yep, I'm human. ; For whatever reason, a man's hair is a fairly strong element of his sexiness to me, and I do like 'em sexy RAWR! ~~I am unapologetically selective~~ However, looks are certainly not *everything* because no matter how beautiful you are in appearance, if you're unreliable, dishonest/secretive or an insensitive jerk, then you absolutely won't be for me. (Even though plenty of other ladies do, I'm strong enough to not settle for that bs treatment from any person. It's simply not worth it to me.) ...Respect is VERY important!Sooo...what are YOU like that makes you unique or a better choice, and what do you seek in a woman that makes her move to the top of your list? C'mon, spill it...I wanna know. :) First we'd have to meet up and then maybe afterwards we could take the "date" step if we're on the same page -and hopefully we will be!(I'll only meet men who I feel could be a well matched friend, so then if mutual chemistry also exists between us, it's a great bonus.)Something fun with an activity in it is cool. I'm open for suggestions/possibilities since I'm comfortable in most situations.
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Darlene
Online
Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
If my friends were to describe me they would say I was a loving, sweet, thoughtful, strong, inspirational women who puts her family first.’t imagine it any other way. Laughter is the best medicine! I have just completed my Associates of Science degree and will walk the graduation line with high distinction on May 7, ***. I will then continue my education in Elementary Education which has been a lifelong dream of mine. I am proud of the fact that I have shown my children that you can accomplish your dreams and change your path in life at any age. Life does not always go as planned and it is how you deal with what you are given that shows what type of person you are. I choose to always get back up and shoot for the stars. I am grateful for the family and friends God has surrounded me with my entire life. I am looking for someone that is family oriented, honest, thoughtful, a good communicator (which to me means being able to not only talk but listen), humorous, and loyal to one person if they are in a relationship. I do not ask for these qualities lightly or without possessing them myself. One of my strengths and weaknesses is my honesty; my girls call it tough love. I am honest to a fault. My social life has been my girls and their school events and activities along with time spent with friends going out to dinner, movies, plays, wine tastings, and the pool or just hanging out at home enjoying good conversation. I love to hear just everyday life stories that bring a smile to my face or tons of laughter. It is truly the little things in life that either makes you smile, laugh, or cry. I am at a good place in my life-I feel great emotionally, mentally, and physically and now I am ready to broaden my horizons and start dating again and sharing my life with someone special. I am a hopeless romantic and look at the world through rose-colored glasses, or so I have been told. This is fine with me because I like the view from where I’m standing and those rose-colored glasses make everything look pretty good. I believe that I deserve the best in career, life, and love and I am ready to grab all three now. I am looking for someone that has a positive attitude in life because my glass is always half full. I am looking for a relationship where we can experience new things together and just enjoy life. That could be sitting on the couch watching a movie (cuddling is always a plus), enjoying a walk and good conversation, going out for a night on the town or taking a daytrip adventure. I mentioned that I am a strong women but that does not mean that I would not like to be able to find a soft place to fall or a shoulder to lean on once in a while. Could that be you? The way I look at it the worst thing that could happen is that I make a new friend and you can never have too many friends in this life. The best case scenario would be that a meet a wonderful person and we see where things go from there. I don't think you can beat good conversation with dinner and a drink unless you add a walk afterward to the mix.