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PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    African

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Malcom

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    Man. 58 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 48-68

    Oh wow, how can I let you in on my 3-D, colorful, exciting world on this little 2-D black and white virtual sheet of paper? I'll give it a try...I'm a young at heart kind of guy who really tries to live each day to its fullest and get the most experiences I am able to. I'm in good health for my 58 years of life. My main exercise is walking. I'm very open-minded in all areas of life and even if I don't agree with someone's beliefs I have respect for them and can be their friend. Diversity is what makes life interesting and keeps it going. I am a firm believer in evolution, although I do believe in a higher power and that there is purpose to this madness we call life. I am a Seeker in the religious since. I refer to myself as a Free Thinker when it comes to religion or politics. I do not believe one has to go to church to have a relationship with God. However I do go once in awhile to play hand bells or trombone. I love Sci-fi, Adventure, Horror, Fantasy...well you get the idea. I am a self-admitted Sci-fi Geek! I also love many other types of movies. I used to read a lot of fiction but I don't read much anymore. I like my stories on the video screen. I like going to live theater and musicals. Museums are cool! I am also an amateur musician and play euphonium or trombone (which ever is needed, I'm a team player) in a community band. It is a very big part of my life. I'm a band Geek too! I like going to places like Scarborough Faire. And I like pirates! I also volunteer usher for a local theater, live productions not movie. I love my free time. While I do enjoy my job it is, well, my job. I am not a workaholic. I work full time to earn the money I need for doing the things I like. I am not rich monetarily but am wealthy with life. I am financially stable and would hope the person I meet is also financially stable. I believe it is import to pay your debts. I'm also a neat person and don't like a messy atmosphere. I like to keep things tidy (like Joxer the Mighty, from Xena).I don't get to travel much as I really don't have the funds and with the band and theater stuff I do sometimes it's hard to schedule a trip. I love all animals but I’m mainly a dog person. I have a 14 year-old Yorkie. He goes to work with me and everywhere else that I can take him. He's my 4-legged kid. I have many friends including girl 'friends' but not a Girlfriend. I am not into casual sex. I am looking for that special someone to compliment my life and share the things I enjoy. I would like to meet someone to develop a deep friendship with, whom shares my core values, who would listen to all my crazy ideas about life and not think I'm crazy. I like to ask "What if?" And yes I do believe that intelligent life is out there in the galaxy somewhere. I like to live each day as it comes and don't worry too much about the future as things are always changing. One can only plan to a certain extent.Some see the world in black and white. Others see it in many shades of gray with a few different possibilities of what can be. I see a world full of color with infinite possibilities.I like all types of music. One of my favorite artists is Enya. I even go to the Opera once in awhile. I listen to Jazz, New Age, Classic Rock or Classical at work. I like a lot of the 80's Pop and Rock bands. David Bowie is awesome. I don't really do the dancing thing. It's kind of hard to put down in writing all the things I am and all the ideas I have. Just say I'm a positive, open minded, kind hearted, caring guy who has lots of good friends but really wants a special person to share the deep intimacies of life with. I like a lot of things and am willing to try different experiences.One thing you must know about me upfront is that I am an FTM Transman, that's a Transgender female to male. If you want more info just ask me and I'll fill you in. I have no qualms about who I am. If you are curious I'm pretty open about talking about it. I do not want to be anybody's fetish. Please do not judge me before you get to know me.What I'm looking for in a potential romantic relationship is someone to share my love of sci-fi, community band, and theater with. I don't want to limit my possibilities but please NO smoking. NO drugs. Please be in relatively good health, a few pounds overweight is ok. I like curves but I'm sorry I would have a hard time dealing with obesity (just being honest)! No major financial troubles. Grown kids ok. Must be respectful and accepting of the LGBT community (that's Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, & Transgender in case you are not familiar with the term). Must have an open, positive attitude. I greatly appreciate people that take responsibility for their actions and are honest. If you are Green (as in 'save the planet', not like a Martian, well ok if you an Orian -Star Trek reference- that will be just fine, LOL!) all the better. I'm not perfect in this area but I try the best I can. You MUST be single! I am single and I have no romantic or legal ties to anyone. I would never date a married/separated person or someone in a relationship. No games, please. The only games I play are video games (love my PS3). Oh and one more thing: Mac or PC? Mac all the way baby! Macs rule!Thanks for reading about me!I think meeting for coffee or a walk in a park, would be the best thing for the first meeting. If you go to a movie or play or event it's hard to really talk to the person with the crowds, noise, and other distractions. I believe it's important to really get to know someone before you jump into any kind of relationship with them.

  • Jamel

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    Man. 66 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 56-76

    Looking for an easy going ,clean person that doesn't mind holding hands ,cuddling and A kiss hello or one for goodbye,likes getting out around the state when time allows and the weather permits. Must have time to spend with a man .I have a cat and like dogs also have tent n stove to go camping too Fairs are fun in the summer and fall! Have my own home here.I also work at home.. I'm fine with any type of music and/or concerts.I'm not rich in the wallet but i am in my heart. If you just want to chat that's fine aslo. I'm caring and loving and try to please as much as possible. I like bowling and maybe hit a few golf balls at a driving range.I like both the coast and the mountains and the state parks or a drive to some place new. Genealogy is interesting and crosswords helps keep your mind sharp and you learn knew words.Been around the world alot and really like Germany too.Send me a messege if you wish to chat ty, Tom PS: if your looking to increase your income or decive a person then i'm not him .I'm up for anything for a first date! Whatever we both feel comfortable with is best. Maybe a ride to Belfast to eat at the Weathervane there? I like bowling also but haven't been for some time.I can play golf too and also am willing to try anything you might suggest except jumping out of a plane or bungee jumping. Any place of interest suits me fine.I like to explore too. The mountains,the coast or just your place or my place are all great as long as we both agree,Tom

  • Mitchel

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 39-59

    Time for a profile update... Are you looking for the profile of a witty, intelligent, attractive, genuine and young at heart guy? (admittedly most men like to think they are still young at heart and mind but the body lets them down.) You and 90% of the women on here it seems, what you are reading is my profile, make of it what you will. I like to think I speak openly, I am laid back, genuine, caring and honest (so please don't ask me if your bum looks big, if you feel an honest answer will offend - I was asked that question before by a g/f once... she is an ex-g/f now...say no more.)I asked a few friends to describe me to add their comments to my profile, but their responses weren't printable so I gave up on that idea, so you will have to put up with my solo attempt.I have been single for longer than I should admit, believing that something I read many years ago makes perfect truth... 'you can't be happy with someone else, if you aren't happy with yourself.' I am finally very content with my life, doing what makes me happy most of the time and having reached a point in my life where I have learnt to listen more to my head, than my heart (some skeletons in my closet learning that lesson.) The result, by some peoples standards I could be considered quite a hermit, preferring quiet nights in, to nights down the pub. I enjoy cycling (yes I can be found lycra clad, cycling around the lanes of Berkshire/Oxfordshire at the weekends... having ridden ***miles in one day recently - an achievement to which I am proud and not ashamed to shout about) I enjoy movies, travel, occasional camping trips, good food (especially Chinese) and cosy nights in. Oh and I love 80's music, now a regular at the Henley Rewind Festival, every August.To save you asking, I have no children, I have never been married and I don't own my own home. No children as I would only want to have children if I was in a steady relationship. Never married because I never met the right woman at the right time in my life (which isn't saying I never met the right woman... just not at the right time. ) ..and I have been on the property ladder in the past but I am happier with the flexibility that renting offers. Oh and I am a non-drinker (by choice.)I am looking to meet someone I find attractive - both physically and mentally. Someone that accepts me as I am and willing to change me slowly. I can be spontaneous. If I get the urge to do something, let's do it now, why wait?I am actually 48 but am unable to change it on my profile. Not all my pictures are recent but they are all ME and they get changed as and when I get new ones I can bare to post on here. Oh and I am 5'11"it seems a lot of men on here seem to get their height wrong.If you have made it this far and are still awake - thank you. If interested or even intrigued, feel free to get in touch.Any date that leaves a happy smile on your face and a desire to meet again... Relationships grow and change over time, start with no agenda and let things happen naturally, so don't read into the intent comment too deeply.An important lesson for life.... If you don't think you are going to like the answer and you can live without knowing it. DON'T ASK... I have a genuine phone phobia, so please don't get suspicious if I don't offer my mobile number too readily.Finally if I have peeked at your profile or added you to My Favorites but did not send a message, it may JUST be that you have a Mail Setting that prevents me from sending one. That... or I am awaiting a moment of inspiration before sending a first message.

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