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Jaime, 42
United States, California, Oxnard

Offline, last seen Fri, 17 Oct 2025 13:43:25

About Me

if you have no pix at all PLEASE for the love of anything you actually LOVE ... don't waste your time mailing me ... there isn't a hope in the coldest ice age I will respond pic -less profiles are like glory holes ... absolutely a NO GOEVERYONE says they are *laid back* funny not many are looking for something casual at first... fun... flirty... no drama... no pressure... things have a way of flowing along honestly so i'd like to meet someone who can just let things be what they will be... enjoy life in the moment... and take it as it comes... the fun things in life always happen naturally. I am in no way opposed to the possibility of meeting someone for more than dating BUT I believe these things should evolve organically... Meaning just because you have checked off the "relationship" box doesn't mean you have one after the first date! It should go like this... We meet (yes meet in REAL life) we have a fun time (no we haven't fallen into bed within 30 minutes I haven't agreed to any activities other than MEETING... So don't ask me for a thr33some) after our fun first date we make another ... (or not if there is no reason) we hang out again. And again. Until wow who would have thought we are getting along... It's been a few weeks/months... We still are having a blast. (yes by now we have fallen into bed I'm not a prude)It's a process people. Just cause you meet online doesn't mean you get to skip the part of dating that makes it FUN to get to know each other. The tension that is feeling pulled by nature into someone's company. The I can't wait to see X again feelings. Not well I checked off the "relationship" box why doesn't she want to meet my mom? Trade dirty pix? Talk about our future? Meeting online shouldn't have to be so surreal? !! i am NOT a vanilla ... so please if you live firmly inside the boundaries of a Noah's Ark archetype... don't message me we will not vibe of that i am 100% sure In the meantime... I'm more than fine with casual good times. BUT I have to like you , be attracted to you, YOU have to be sane, and I don't want to listen to you blather on all day about stuff that isn't sexy. This is not my job. **** funny taking some flack for this... men this is how you have treated us for centuries get yourselves a grip **** I have never been really "traditional" relationship motivated. I'd like to spend time with someone I respect but that doesn't have to be bunched into a Noah's ark two by two type thing. If it evolves ... Well I'd consider it. But it's not MY holy grail. Not looking to be someone's mistress. Cheating on your wife/ partner is your thing not mine. Looking for a man I can be seen in public with not one I have to sneak around with or never get to see. I'm sure there will be plenty of ladies willing. I'm just not one of them. I am fun. Funny. Sarcastic. Sharp as a tack and if I'm interested in you I will keep you on your toes... In a good way. ;)I would love to meet a man secure enough to allow for a "you a me AND an us" not someone who needs to be in the same room every moment. Giving both parties a chance to get out and live a life that keeps them BOTH interesting therefore INTERESTED. healthy. ;)Men on here are good at saying not much or too much about what they are looking for. I'm going to keep it simple. YOU should be sane as in not crazy as the above examples... I prefer fit men. FIT is stressed. I am fit ... I won't date squishy men. It's my preference. I like tattoos. I have tattoos. I don't need a guy to have tattoos but YOU should have some edge to you..... we have nothing in common ... I like a man who isn't afraid to get dirty OR clean up. Balance guys. All this being said its not a check list set in stone I have dated outside my usual preferences in the past quite successfully. But we ALL have preferences. i am not all that great at nor do i want a pen pal relationship... if you really want endless chat or to say *let's do something on such and such day* then not follow through please... let's not waste each others time... we are all way too busy for the wishy washy now-a-days... good luck everyone and remember REAL LIFE IS LIVED OFFLINE! coffee... something light... we can decide from there if we want to continue

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hardcore Rap Skiing Chinese Greek Indian Middle Eastern Biography Martial Arts Western Play Sport Games
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