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Elma, 42
United States, California, Oxnard

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About Me

I am looking for a strong connection to someone. I want a partner who is emotionally mature, and is financially stable. I want to be with a non smoker. Someone who likes to have fun, but who can also be serious when needed.I enjoy the outdoors, mostly in the summer time! I love being on the water! Spending time at a cottage, or camping is ideal for me. Campfires with a cold beer on a weekend spent with friends, is a great weekend in my opinion. I have a dry sense of humour and I like to tease and can take what I dish out.I have 2 young kids who live with me full time, so my time has to be well planned... A casual first meeting is mandatory with me before any phone information is shared. After the first meeting, we'll both know whether or not there will be a second one.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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