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Christa, 42
United States, California, Oxnard

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My children are grown and living their lives, so it's my turn now. I dropped a line in this pond last year...lets just say that looking forward leaves room for more opportunities than looking back ever did. :)Everyone has their 'intolerable list' or 'dealbreakers' so I'll keep it simple for you:If you're into the drug scene, please just pass me by.If you're all about 'party time' and drinking all the time, please just pass me by.If you're just looking to 'get some', please just pass me by.If you can't manage to stand on your own 2 feet, please just pass me by.If you don't know the difference between there, their & they're, please just pass me by.It's a bit difficult to follow all that with any of the usual self-professing positive attributes, but what can I say - I've lived some of my life, and in my 42 years, I've learned to be honest and forthcoming....anything less is unacceptable - on either end! Honesty seems to be hard to come by here in this pond....be prepared - I have a 'bullsh*t meter and it's pretty accurate :)Things I like....cottaging, anything outdoors when the weather is nice - sometimes even when it's not! I'm a romantic at heart, so movies in - never really been a fan of the theatres....snuggling....c'mon - I'm a girl! We all like that! Lol....dinner for two, I'm a great cook - my favourite meals to make are big, company's coming dinners...I've been 'fine tuning' my kitchen adventures to lead a healthier lifestyle.........fishing is great, bonfires, I can be comfortable in jeans/shorts & a t-shirt, or dressed to the nines....I'm big on family; mine isn't huge, but they're mine and I adore them....as crazy as they are :) My "pass me by" list is as real as it gets. I've had some 'interesting' e-mails regarding 'the list'.....so I'll break it down for you......The drug scene thing - shouldn't require any explanation. I'm not an angel, nor will I ever claim to be.....but I'm a grown up now, and would hope that you are too. The drinking thing - there's nothing like a cold beer after cutting the lawn on a hot day.....or a glass or two of wine with dinner, but if that beer is the first thing you want when the clock strikes noon, do us both a favour and pass me by :) The standing on your own 2 feet thing - it's pretty self-explanatory....like my profile reads: my kids are grown now! I have no intention of being anyones' sugar momma...lol....I have a fantastic sense of humour - sometimes a bit on the sarcastic side, but funny is funny! I do my best NOT to be hurtful - the karma gods are watching :)Perhaps I'll finish this part later.... Do we really need to call a first meet a date? I'm all for keeping it simple - coffee, a drink....something easy and stress-free for both!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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