Total users: 63,122,020 Online users: 227,039
Christa, 42
United States, California, Oxnard

Online

About Me

My children are grown and living their lives, so it's my turn now. I dropped a line in this pond last year...lets just say that looking forward leaves room for more opportunities than looking back ever did. :)Everyone has their 'intolerable list' or 'dealbreakers' so I'll keep it simple for you:If you're into the drug scene, please just pass me by.If you're all about 'party time' and drinking all the time, please just pass me by.If you're just looking to 'get some', please just pass me by.If you can't manage to stand on your own 2 feet, please just pass me by.If you don't know the difference between there, their & they're, please just pass me by.It's a bit difficult to follow all that with any of the usual self-professing positive attributes, but what can I say - I've lived some of my life, and in my 42 years, I've learned to be honest and forthcoming....anything less is unacceptable - on either end! Honesty seems to be hard to come by here in this pond....be prepared - I have a 'bullsh*t meter and it's pretty accurate :)Things I like....cottaging, anything outdoors when the weather is nice - sometimes even when it's not! I'm a romantic at heart, so movies in - never really been a fan of the theatres....snuggling....c'mon - I'm a girl! We all like that! Lol....dinner for two, I'm a great cook - my favourite meals to make are big, company's coming dinners...I've been 'fine tuning' my kitchen adventures to lead a healthier lifestyle.........fishing is great, bonfires, I can be comfortable in jeans/shorts & a t-shirt, or dressed to the nines....I'm big on family; mine isn't huge, but they're mine and I adore them....as crazy as they are :) My "pass me by" list is as real as it gets. I've had some 'interesting' e-mails regarding 'the list'.....so I'll break it down for you......The drug scene thing - shouldn't require any explanation. I'm not an angel, nor will I ever claim to be.....but I'm a grown up now, and would hope that you are too. The drinking thing - there's nothing like a cold beer after cutting the lawn on a hot day.....or a glass or two of wine with dinner, but if that beer is the first thing you want when the clock strikes noon, do us both a favour and pass me by :) The standing on your own 2 feet thing - it's pretty self-explanatory....like my profile reads: my kids are grown now! I have no intention of being anyones' sugar momma...lol....I have a fantastic sense of humour - sometimes a bit on the sarcastic side, but funny is funny! I do my best NOT to be hurtful - the karma gods are watching :)Perhaps I'll finish this part later.... Do we really need to call a first meet a date? I'm all for keeping it simple - coffee, a drink....something easy and stress-free for both!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rap British Canadian Baseball
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Alberta from Oxnard | Woman | 45 years old | Gemini
    Alberta

    Online

    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I enjoy going out for dinner, love to watch all types of movies, love to travel and ahhhh yes Shopping (like most women, so don't hate me for that!!) I have worked in the sales/design field at the same company for ***years. I am a very caring person and treat my partner as I would want to be treated (with love and respect). I enjoy all kinds of music! (ok, maybe not ALL kinds of music) Classical makes me feel like jumping off of a building!! I consider myself to have a very positive and upbeat personality and get along with everyone I meet. For a first date, I would go to dinner at a nice quiet resturant or out for a few drinks, then end the night with a nice walk.

    Chat
  • Rachelle from Oxnard | Woman | 43 years old | Taurus
    Rachelle

    Online

    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm honestly getting tired of this site!! I have met more then my share of men on here in 4years,but it just seems most are on here for just messing around and saying they want a relationship,but reallyDON'T!!! Maybe there are women on here doing the same?,but I'm an amazing woman with a huge heart and I want someone who is honest and up front with me and not play with my heart. I would do anything for the one that I LOVE !! I'm truly who I say I am and wear my heart on my sleeve. Maybe what the problem is that there are to many options out there now because of the internet and people think maybe there is someone even BETTER out there waiting..Well I'm a angel and if treated right you would find a truly fantastic woman!!I'm sorry if that sounds to blunt but you would understand if you heard my stories.. I am someone who loves to have a few laughs and enjoy life.I consider myself to be open to new experiences and will try almost anything once.Something that i will be doing lots of this year is traveling.Family is very important to me,I have a son 25 yrs old and daughter 13. I hope to find that special person to share my life with. I want a man that completes me and makes me happy. I want to feel that spark again!! If we meet and there is no spark,maybe we can be friends. I think you know right away if there is any kind of connection. I want honesty and respect.If it sounds to you like we have enough in common,send me a message and perhaps we can meet for a coffee.:):) Meeting at a coffee shop would be ideal. Make the first date simple and see if there is any kind of connection. If there is a connection or interest we could meet for second date and go for dinner or a movie.

    Chat
  • Anita from Oxnard | Woman | 44 years old | Gemini
    Anita

    Offline

    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    What about me? My friends would describe me as attractive, honest, loyal, thoughtful, smart and funny. I love to laugh! Laughter is the language of the soul! I am looking forward to finding someone who I can laugh with and who can laugh at themselves. Someone who does not take life so seriously. I enjoy being outdoors! I like hiking and biking! A weekend trip to the hill country or the beach are places I like to go. I have a great job and love what I do, but work is not everything. I am looking for someone who feels the same and takes time to have fun! I enjoy cooking and love to grill. Trying new restaurants, listening to live bands, and dancing are what I enjoy doing for fun. Mexican food and Margaritas are always great too! Going to the movies is a favorite pastime for me, but am also content to watch a DVD and snuggle on the couch. I am very easy going and can adapt easily to just about any situation, you won't find any drama here, nor am I looking for any! I am a hopeless romantic at heart! I believe in finding your soul mate. I believe in chemistry and how important that is. Building a relationship for me, starts with honesty, communication and a mutual attraction for one another. If we have this, the rest will fall into place.I have a very rich life, and I am blessed to have a wonderful family and awesome friends! I am a spiritual person, not religious. I believe with faith in God, all things are possible! If you made it this far, I would love to hear from you! Thanks for reading! Good luck with your search! The perfect first date would be meeting for coffee or wine. Talking and getting to know each other. Chemistry is very important!

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: