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Leticia, 45
United States, California, Oxnard

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About Me

I don't do "relationships" just to avoid being alone. I have fabulous friends, family & casual dates who fill that void. I want a true connection & chemistry - physically, mentally, emotionally, intellectually. I don't fall easily, but I'm not afraid to fall. I'm cautious when there are red flags & run when there are "dealbreakers". When the time is right... When the person is right.... I want the fairytale. Do I think meetville will be the beginning of the fairytale? Nah, I prefer a happenstance, in-person first experience, but what the hey? I'm a people person!Somewhat new to the area, I'm interested in meeting men who are intelligent, sexy, spontaneous, honest, non-judgmental and kind. Also, a sense of humor is a must. Life is too short to be so serious all the time. Don't you think?I am not nearly as concerned with the color of your skin as I am with the content of your character. Extremes don't attract me... Extreme country boys, extreme gangster types, extreme business only men...not really my style. I'm more a "middle-of-the-road" type girl. Well-rounded is much more attractive to me. I love making new friends and testing the waters to see if there is a connection. I do believe a connection is necessary for things to move further. However, new friends are always fun. My friends, guys and girls, come from all walks of life--all ages, cultures, races, lifestyles. In my opinion, those things don't determine the person. Hate in any form won't be a part of my life. I am content with me; I don't find my happiness in men. I will happily give great effort when there is potential, but I won't be there by myself...not for long anyway. I'm not rushing toward a relationship; I'm just willing to be open to the possibilities.... I enjoy first dates that allow good talk time...over drinks or dinner. Not too loud, not too quiet...just relaxed conversation. I'm a pretty simple girl.Going on a "date" appears to be a lost art. While I like nice things, I especially like things that feel comfortable, not forced. It's NOT about money; it's all about effort.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Jazz Adult Crime Documentary Fantasy Baseball Rodeo Computer Games
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am women who is honest and very loving. Who loves to laugh and spend time with friends. I like to talk , but I am a great listener. I know everyone has a story and I also know tomorrow is different then today. So I know we all have a past.I live my life and try to enjoy what comes my way.... Having Faith is what keep me alive. Finding the right partner requires good chemistry -often evident shows after you have spent a few minutes together.I wish everyone good luck in what they are looking for. What ever works for both parties.

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  • Francine from Oxnard | Woman | 44 years old | Aries
    Francine

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hello,Here it goes trying to intrigue you and tell you a bit about myself.I am a single mom of a 17 year old son, he is a great young man, but he will be headed to college out West in about a year and half. Liking kids is must, But I can't have anymore. Looking to enjoy this new chapter that is approaching soon and share it with a special someone.I do have tattoos, non on my breast, butt and no tr*mp stamp. Love the aspect of body art and the stories they tell, so if your not a fan sorry I'm probably not the one for you, So please don't waste my time if you don't care for them. I have had the same career for the last 20 years, looking forwards to finishing up college classes and a move from restaurants to the medical field next year. I enjoy most all music not a fan of hard core rap. I have been single now for a few years and I am looking to date and hopeful to develop a long term relationship, Building a great foundation of friendship that ends with us sitting with drinks talking about the years together. Communication is a must! Not looking for perfect just perfect for me. I am looking for a confident, yet knows how to have fun and laugh man. We all have a past hopefully you have made peace with it, learned from it and are ready for the future. I'm a open book feel free to ask away. I am a woman who can honestly say I am comfortable in where I am at, and where I have been in life. I know what I am looking for and what I want in a relationship, and I am willing to speak those wants and needs. I am working on getting back into great shape aren't we all:) eating healthy and being active.Life is too short not to smile and be happy.. I enjoy (LOVE) cooking/baking for friends and family, spending time in great conversations, laughing till it hurts, being outside, reading, learning people's story, volunteering, hugs, passionate soft kisses, cuddling and more.If you made it this far and think or feel I might be what your interested in send me a hello.Best of luck in our search. Meet for coffee or a drink talk, get to know each other and see if there is chemistry. I'm sure we can talk about this.

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  • Tracie from Oxnard | Woman | 44 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Looking for someone to enjoy life with......sounds simple, right? Wish it was that easy. Been here before but took time away for my own sanity....LOL. Have some friends that have found their mates here and they encouraged (or should i say pushed...lol) me to try again. Life is too short to spend it all alone. So here I am with an open heart and an open mind. I believe in saying what I mean and meaning what I say and my actions will back that up. I only ask that you do the same. Wish everyone luck in what they are looking for. Somewhere we can hear each other so we can see if there is a spark.

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