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Leticia, 45
United States, California, Oxnard

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About Me

I don't do "relationships" just to avoid being alone. I have fabulous friends, family & casual dates who fill that void. I want a true connection & chemistry - physically, mentally, emotionally, intellectually. I don't fall easily, but I'm not afraid to fall. I'm cautious when there are red flags & run when there are "dealbreakers". When the time is right... When the person is right.... I want the fairytale. Do I think meetville will be the beginning of the fairytale? Nah, I prefer a happenstance, in-person first experience, but what the hey? I'm a people person!Somewhat new to the area, I'm interested in meeting men who are intelligent, sexy, spontaneous, honest, non-judgmental and kind. Also, a sense of humor is a must. Life is too short to be so serious all the time. Don't you think?I am not nearly as concerned with the color of your skin as I am with the content of your character. Extremes don't attract me... Extreme country boys, extreme gangster types, extreme business only men...not really my style. I'm more a "middle-of-the-road" type girl. Well-rounded is much more attractive to me. I love making new friends and testing the waters to see if there is a connection. I do believe a connection is necessary for things to move further. However, new friends are always fun. My friends, guys and girls, come from all walks of life--all ages, cultures, races, lifestyles. In my opinion, those things don't determine the person. Hate in any form won't be a part of my life. I am content with me; I don't find my happiness in men. I will happily give great effort when there is potential, but I won't be there by myself...not for long anyway. I'm not rushing toward a relationship; I'm just willing to be open to the possibilities.... I enjoy first dates that allow good talk time...over drinks or dinner. Not too loud, not too quiet...just relaxed conversation. I'm a pretty simple girl.Going on a "date" appears to be a lost art. While I like nice things, I especially like things that feel comfortable, not forced. It's NOT about money; it's all about effort.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Looking for: man. In age: 25-45

    Hi! My name is Jen. I am divorced spiritual but not religious mixed woman with kids from Oxnard, California, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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  • Cathy from Oxnard | Woman | 43 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hey...I'm going to try to keep this brief because the best way to get to know someone is the real way...face to face :)So...my life is pretty full... I have a great family and some pretty amazingly fun and loyal friends. I have the world's cutest dog, naughty but cute! Good thing....otherwise he would be an area rug! Lol. My life is super busy and I like it that way....I always choose the outdoors over tv, and a smile over a frown. I love tennis...and would love golf, if I could just be better at it! Lol. I'm trying, I really am!! Actually, I just love being active. Fitness and a healthy lifestyle is important to me.Professionally and personally, I am motivated and driven and probably need the same to keep up. I confess...I want to be a great success at whatever I do!I absolutely love life!!! I believe in giving my best and hope I get it back (karma, are you listening?) Speaking of giving back...that is very important, too. My life has been blessed and I truly believe in trying to help my fellow human. We can all make time to volunteer :)I love music....all kinds and see a lot of concerts. Rap to country, hip-hop to classical...it's always playing-loudly-and I am dancing along! My taste is diverse and I see nothing wrong with being a rockstar on the air guitar :)Travel is an addiction I whole-heartedly admit to...from road trips to the seven wonders (I'm hiking Machu Picchu next year!)...the world has so much to offer. Follow your dreams...sigh. I like alot of boy things like sports, technology and fast cars. I also love being a woman. :) I love rocking heels and a great dress or hanging out in my lulus with a ponytail. I certainly don't limit myself in any way.I truly believe in being real and kind...and laughing until I can't breathe. My motto? Create a life you love to look at. :)Summer was awesome, but great Fall hiking and hockey are back! ! Step aside Chara, it's all the way to the cup this year! Go Leafs GO!!!PS. Don't want to sound abrasive BUT if you are married, attached or otherwise committed, please don't write me. I won't reply. Also, if you think I'm your sext buddy, think again. I'm not your girl. And seriously guys, enough with the fake pics, fake profiles and junk shots...I will google your images and see everywhere you are posted on the net. One last one...no picture, no reply. Sorry. Just needed to clarify that...:) Let's get over this whole interview thing and do something fun!

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a Christian woman looking for someone to have fun with and build a relationship with. I am a heavy woman but it doesn't stop me from having fun. If you can only see outward beauty then you need to move on. I am a mother of 4 children. They all still live at home but 2 are in college. I like to read my bible and romance novels. One of my favorite summer time pleasures is to lay in the sun and read a good book. I love to watch movies but no horror movies hate them. I enjoy all kinds of music. Rap is my least favorite and I would say it's a tie between country and rock as being my favorite music. I like to play a good game of billiards or darts but I am not good at either game. It's all about having fun. God is number one in my life and I love to attend church 2 to 3 times a week. A good first date would be something or place where we could talk and get to know each other better. I am old fashioned in some ways. I like to receive flowers and have doors opened for me. I don't have to have a lot of money spent on me. I like it when a man puts thought into a date more than money.

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