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Cathryn, 41
United States, California, Oxnard

Offline, last seen Fri, 03 Apr 2026 08:19:06

About Me

Hi there! So, this is something I said I would never do and after strong persuading from my best friends(that obviously think I need a mate), I decided to give it a try. First, a little about me...people who truly know me would tell you that I am an extremely positive person who always sees the glass half full. You would be hard pressed to find me having a bad day or not smiling :) The most important part of my life is my family. I have amazing adult twin boys that I love with everything that I am and everyday they still bring more joy to my life than I could ever imagine. We have some of our best times getting together as a family and enjoying eachother...nothin better! I am a very well grounded,honest, independent, drama free, successful woman. I am very passionate about my career and continue to strive to be better than I was yesterday. One of the things that drives me the most as a person & professional, is making others happy and helping them recognize the gifts they have to offer. I am full of life and LOVE to have fun, I have a great sense of humor and I probably tend to be a bit sarcastic.What I'm looking for: My match would be a guy that can make me laugh and keep this smile on my face. I appreciate total and almost brutal honesty, don't beat around the bush or try to protect my feelings, just give it to me straight. I would want him to be driven and have a career that he loves. Family must be just as important to him as it is to me. I am not high maintenance at all, but I do like to know that I am important and would love to be someones first thought when they wake and the last before they close their eyes at night. I will give the person I'm with all of me and would expect that not to be one sided. I am a very passionate, affectionate and loving person and I want to be with someone that shares those same traits. If we are in public or in private, I will want us to be touching. My total happiness when it comes to love, truly comes from making and seeing my mate happy. I can be happy doing a variety of things from dressing up to go out on the town, to putting on my yoga pants and cuddling on the couch. I love the outdoors...going to concerts is one of my favorite things to do. Live local bands are great too! I really enjoy a day at the winery,good coffee, but could jump on a plane tomorrow and head to a beach destination and be in heaven. I enjoy a good motorcycle ride, ATV or Jeepin thru the country.(I'm a girl who doesn't mind getting dirty) I am the least picky person when it comes to having fun...give me a new adventure and I'm in! I love trying new things!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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