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Marta, 44
United States, California, Oxnard

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About Me

I am a hardworking girl with an artistic flair...I currently work a full time job during the week and just started a business Rust & Rhinestones on the side. I take "junk" and turn it into treasure :) I do everything from refinish furniture to make jewelry...every year. Jr is my driver... Yes, I watch football...I am Vol fan thru and thru and don't like the Bama Bandwagon fans....Like listening to all types of music, cooking out and hanging out with friends.I like to think I'm a pretty cool chic... Would rather sit on the back of a tailgate or around a bonfire than be in a mall any day of the week. Love tattoos and piercings... not saying you have to have them but just understand that I do :)I usually say what's on my mind be it good or bad...sometimes I probably need a filter on this mouth of mine but hey...it makes me who I am.My kids are grown but due to unforeseen circumstances I find myself having primary responsibility for my amazing 3 year old granddaughter for the time being. My youngest daughter (her momma) was in a car wreck a few years ago and suffered a brain injury. To look at her you could never tell and I am blessed she is alive and so grateful but she still has memory issues from time to time and other minor things and she is getting better and functions on her own just fine, just not enough to be responsible full time for her daughter, so while it wasn't what I had planned for myself at this stage of my life...I do what I do as a momma and if that is something you can't deal with I can understand and it's probably best if you keep moving on anyway. I imagine that would be one of the times my unfiltered mouth would get the best of me ;)I could lay a line of BS out here like I'm looking for the whole white picket fence fairytale thing but I am a realist and I have been thru enough to know that nothing in life is easy. Anything worth having takes work and if it comes easy, well.... it's probably not worth having anyway. I don't HAVE to have someone take care of me...I've managed that on my own my entire life just fine.... I don't need someone to "complete" me, but I do think that there is someone out there that will make this thing we call life more enjoyable. I'm not some Barbie and if that's what you are looking for, you damn well better be Ken ;) If you are looking for someone that is fun, honest and keeps it 100% real all the time, can fit into any situation from dressing up for dinner or a night out yet isn't afraid to get muddy then you are in the right place..... and if it doesn't work out then you will still have one of the most loyal friends you could ever hope for and you can never go wrong there ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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