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Krystal, 44
United States, California, Oxnard

Offline, last seen Mon, 20 Oct 2025 22:21:34

About Me

FYI: I don't use the Meet Me Feature. If you select that you want to meet me but don't ***, you won't ever meet me. Also, if you select me as a favorite, you have a week or less to contact me. If you don't, I'll remove myself from your favorites.I'm single and have been divorced since ***. I have no children. I'm looking for a long term relationship with an articulate, caring man with similar interests who makes me laugh, who thinks I'm the cat's meow, and who knows who he is, what he wants, and where he is going. He must appreciate an independent woman with a sharp mind and a good head on her shoulders who is also affectionate, kind, and loving. I want a man who is emotionally available, can and make a decision and will make plans. I don't generally date more than one man at a time. I also only date caucasian men. My dating age range is wide but I rarely date men younger than 38. I'm honest to a fault and expect it in return. I've had the same friends since grade school because (they tell me), I'm always willing to give the unvarnished truth and good advice regardless of the situation. If I tell you I will do it, you can consider it done. I'm also not terribly mysterious. You need only ask to get a straight up answer. I'm about as sweet as they come and will practically give the shirt off my back to help someone in need but I'm not a pushover. I recently started sailing ***times a month and it makes me happier than just about anything has... well.... ever. I enjoy eating out (mexican and seafood - yum!) but also enjoy cooking in and grilling. I tend to eat a lower carb diet so cooking at home and eating healthy is important to me. Please be healthy and working at it daily. I do and it's important to me. This means you don't need to be a gym rat but you also can't be a couch potato. I'm on the go and lead an active life. Please be able to keep up. :)If it's music, I probably like it (anything but rap and acid death metal). I don't go clubbing but do enjoy occasional live music with friends. I'm usually a casual kind of girl and pretty low maintenance (although I do regularly get manicures and pedicures, wax and shave all the requisite parts and love being a woman). I don't smoke and won't date someone who does (even if only part-time or "trying" to quit). No drugs either. I drink socially but not every day (usually a low-carb beer, glass of wine or vodka-soda). No heavy drinkers or partyers.Yes I have a good job and no I won't ask you for money, lol. I've been with the same company for 3+ years. I'm responsible and take care of my business. Please have similar values in this area.If you've read something above and you'd like to know more, I hope to hear back from you. We can work it out together. Although I do really like it when you have a plan. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Alissa from Oxnard | Woman | 45 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hello, I am a mother of 4. My children are 20, 18, 13 and 12. As you can see, they are at the ages that I am able to find ‘me’ time. Ironically, when the kids were much younger and I so wanted ‘me’ time, it was difficult to find that time. Now that the kids are much older I find myself content in staying home to relax. Go figure, lol!! Moving back down south was the best decision I have made in years. Life has had it’ However, since moving here - things have slowly improved and we are all much happier.I have been on and off meetville for quite some time and have come across some very interesting people. I am saying that with a positive and also shocking tone. :) With that said, I figured I would update this section of my profile based on experience here at meetville.I am not someone that casually dates nor am I looking for a friend with benefits. I have developed a process to how I proceed with men that I communicate with on meetville. After a message or two, if I feel that we both have an interest in seeing if there is chemistry I will suggest going a step further and communicate over the phone, if the man has not suggested it himself. I believe in having a minimum of a couple of conversations before discussing if we should meet face to face. Again, the reason for this is because I do not casually date. I have never been good at it and just don’t like it. I feel if two people give of themselves in the communication process over the phone, you not only feel that initial chemistry you can start the process of building a solid foundation to something that could turn into wonderful commitment. I can tell you, without a doubt, I will know prior to seeing you face to face whether I want to see you more than that initial get together. I believe and have seen it happen, that two people can fall for one another in those phone conversations. I am not saying that they fall in love; however, two people most definitely can decide two concentrate on one another exclusively to see where the relationship goes. Once we decide to move forward exclusively - I do not believe it is fair to stay on any dating site. I believe it is only fair to hide your profile and focus on one another. Once we meet and the sparks seem to fly, then removing any and all dating sites from our lives is a must.I also believe in setting boundaries with others of the opposite sex once in a relationship. I do not believe in me having a girls night out and the man having a man’s night out. I do not believe in us, individually, hanging out with the opposite sex without one another. I believe in doing things together. Now, most of ya’ll men do hunt. Okay, that is your ‘man’ time away from me. I accept that without any issue. Fishing? Sometimes I would enjoy going, however, again, I have no problem in that either. However, I think it is only fair not to take advantage of that. Let’s face it, the time traveling to and from work and working takes a lot of the day away, when you get home I want to spend that time together. Even if it is just relaxing at home. I am not one that has to go out all the time. I am a very passionate person in my beliefs and in loving the person I am with. I have a lot of love to offer. I am looking for my best friend. Someone that I can trust not to use anything I share with him against me at a later time when we are not happy with one another. That is a huge mistake some couples make these days and it is totally wrong to do that. I want to trust you with all that I am, and why I am the way I am today. I want to give myself completely to the man I end up with. And I want the same in return. I need that type of relationship. And if I do not find it, then I would rather remain alone.Okay, I am in my mid-forties, you will be around that age as well. We all have a past and we have all gone through some bad times. I have NO problem in you sharing your past with me, I would LOVE to know about it. And, I have no problem understanding that because of our pasts, it is sometimes hard to trust the person we find for our present and future that we are interested in. I get that. We ALL just have to remember, we are NOT that person from our past. And I know the type of person I am, I am willing to help you move forward, as well as hoping you will help me move forward together. It’s a process, and sometimes it goes slow, and sometimes we feel it is so right that it moves forward quickly. Either way, it will be fine as long as we both remain open and honest with one another and COMMUNICATE. I want to communicate about the smallest of life to the big things in life. We all of weaknesses, the great thing is - hopefully I can be your strength and motivator in those areas and you being that for me in my weaknesses. I want to have individual goals that we both support one another on as well as have goals together that we continue to work towards daily.Another thing, if you are waiting for life to be at a perfect time before you allow someone close to you, you will be waiting for a very long time my friends. That is not how it should go. The person you end up dating should accept where you are at and be there for you, etc. I am not one into wasting time. If we like one another lets go for it and see where it goes.If you work odd hours? Let ME decide if I can handle it, don’t say “It’s not fair, wait til I get a better job with better hours or wait til I get better hours at work.” You are underestimating my ability to accept you for who you are and where you are in life right here right now. Again, life is too short. Let’s enjoy the hours we can, regardless of when they are in a day. As long as I know we are committed to one another, I will go to Infinity and back with you.I will be completely open and state - I am not working at the present time. However, in NO way, shape, or form am I looking for someone to take care of me financially. I am okay. If a woman has to be employed to meet your standards, then I guess you can continue to view other profiles. However, I will say, I think it is unfair to pass judgment and assume I am not worth it as a possible partner because I am not working right now. I can and will explain this to the man that grabs my attention and I feel a connection with. And I will close with this. I do not have a particular type I am attracted to as far as hair, eyes, etc. I just know it when I see it. As for body type? I am not rock hard, but will be going back to the gym here in the next week and plan to tone up (not build up). I am not going to require that you be rock solid either! Nor am I attracted to someone that is obese. I am sorry, I just have to be honest. I am NO Depends on how close we have become. Meet at Starbucks and then move forward to dinner, movie, and or a very romantic evening.

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  • Cheryl from Oxnard | Woman | 44 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a great person and open to many suggestions with the right person. I usually fly by the seat of my shorts and am willing to try almost anything besides bungee jumping or swimming in the ocean! (I suck at playing pool but still try ) lol. Many other things............... I work in a job that keeps me busy and I enjoy the new people I meet. Been told I do not act my age and really don't ever wanna. I am a single Mom of 2 wonderful children. They are 17, and 10. I am not looking for anyone to be their parent, I've got that covered very well. . A man should have a place to lay his head, car to drive, and a job to support himself, and his children. I cannot date a bum, loafer, or anyone that doesn't "care about themselves". Ask me anything and I will answer honestly. Do not care for fakes or liars, what you see is what you'll meet. I don't have an extra 40 lbs. hiding, I have freckles, and I am rounded where I need to be...Guys~ Please do not say 5'10 when you barely tip 5'5. Everyone has a preference. I am a rock`n`roller and love most music .If you hit the "Meet me" button, take the time to say hi. If you have the right bait, I'll bite! Thanks for viewing. Meet and say Hi. Go for a walk or grab a coffee, beer, whatever. Honesty goes a long way and you will not hurt my feelings if we don't click :) I can never have too many friends either.

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  • Michelle from Oxnard | Woman | 43 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I do not like to talk about myself - I am independent and intelligent- love all kinds of music - have goals - working on accomplishing all of themI am honest and Funny, looking for the same I guess the first date for me would be one that is more relaxed - low key, quiet maybe outside to be able to talk and get to know about each other...Or if your feeling up to the challenge a game of soccer. I am somewhat competitive and spontaneous!!! 'Up for anything fun. 4 wheel ride or mudding make my day :)

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