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Krystal, 44
United States, California, Oxnard

Offline, last seen Sun, 30 Nov 2025 13:57:51

About Me

FYI: I don't use the Meet Me Feature. If you select that you want to meet me but don't ***, you won't ever meet me. Also, if you select me as a favorite, you have a week or less to contact me. If you don't, I'll remove myself from your favorites.I'm single and have been divorced since ***. I have no children. I'm looking for a long term relationship with an articulate, caring man with similar interests who makes me laugh, who thinks I'm the cat's meow, and who knows who he is, what he wants, and where he is going. He must appreciate an independent woman with a sharp mind and a good head on her shoulders who is also affectionate, kind, and loving. I want a man who is emotionally available, can and make a decision and will make plans. I don't generally date more than one man at a time. I also only date caucasian men. My dating age range is wide but I rarely date men younger than 38. I'm honest to a fault and expect it in return. I've had the same friends since grade school because (they tell me), I'm always willing to give the unvarnished truth and good advice regardless of the situation. If I tell you I will do it, you can consider it done. I'm also not terribly mysterious. You need only ask to get a straight up answer. I'm about as sweet as they come and will practically give the shirt off my back to help someone in need but I'm not a pushover. I recently started sailing ***times a month and it makes me happier than just about anything has... well.... ever. I enjoy eating out (mexican and seafood - yum!) but also enjoy cooking in and grilling. I tend to eat a lower carb diet so cooking at home and eating healthy is important to me. Please be healthy and working at it daily. I do and it's important to me. This means you don't need to be a gym rat but you also can't be a couch potato. I'm on the go and lead an active life. Please be able to keep up. :)If it's music, I probably like it (anything but rap and acid death metal). I don't go clubbing but do enjoy occasional live music with friends. I'm usually a casual kind of girl and pretty low maintenance (although I do regularly get manicures and pedicures, wax and shave all the requisite parts and love being a woman). I don't smoke and won't date someone who does (even if only part-time or "trying" to quit). No drugs either. I drink socially but not every day (usually a low-carb beer, glass of wine or vodka-soda). No heavy drinkers or partyers.Yes I have a good job and no I won't ask you for money, lol. I've been with the same company for 3+ years. I'm responsible and take care of my business. Please have similar values in this area.If you've read something above and you'd like to know more, I hope to hear back from you. We can work it out together. Although I do really like it when you have a plan. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Cycling German Middle Eastern Vietnamese Dirt Bike Racing Social Networking
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