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Dona, 40
United States, California, Salinas

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About Me

Hey there! If that makes sense?? For that to happen, I think we would need to have great chemistry: I want to find someone I'm really excited to see, talk to, and have in my life. I don't want to settle for someone who is just nice to have around, or prevents me from feeling bored or lonely at times. At the end of the day, I think it is as simple as just finding someone you are pretty damn sure you don't want to live the rest of your life without...I would love to find a kind, flexible, intelligent and down-to-earth guy who can treat me as an equal; acting as a team with a healthy give-and-take is key! In addition, there must be honesty, good communication, warmth/tenderness, and support. Laughter and fun is also necessary; I honestly can't imagine spending the rest of my life with someone I can't laugh with. Talk about dull! I have a very dry and sarcastic sense of humor, so if you do as well--even better! To top it all off, there should be a strong element of passion, or else the relationship will just feel like two buddies hanging out. That's no good! I think I should also add: I certainly didn't join meetville to perpetually date many people. I believe after a certain amount of time and dates the focus should be on trying to build something with one person and see where that path leads. So, if you joined meetville to casually date many women and have no current interest in trying to build a relationship with just one person, then I'm probably not the girl for you. I have also come to realize that I would not be a good fit with someone who already has children; I tried this path before and it is not a good fit for me. I also would not be a good match with someone who supports Obama. I am very political and cannot stand what he has done to this country. Just thought I'd get those two points out sooner than later. I don't mean to disrespect anyone's views or life choices--I just don't want to waste anyone's time or mine. Hmmm...about me? I currently work as a post-doctoral fellow on breast cancer research. I've been at my current position for 3 years and will be leaving within the next year to hopefully start working in a biotech or big pharma company on cancer drug development. Most of my friends would describe me as a free-spirit, outgoing, active, kind, fun, and with a bit of a sassy/spicy side. I'm definitely not afraid to speak my mind, and I know that can scare some away. :-) Write me if any of this sounds interesting, or even if it doesn't. ha!Happy Fishing! :-) I think a few drinks is best - either wine or martinis is great! I've always believed that if you can't feel chemistry when you are dressed up, in bar-lighting and buzzed, then you'll never feel it in the "real" world! So, that has always been my test. :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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