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Melody, 36
United States, California, Salinas

Offline, last seen Sat, 18 Oct 2025 12:21:39

About Me

Update: I am NOT looking to date or for any kind of relationship for a while. Just looking for friends to talk to...HI, PLEASE READ MY PROFILE CAREFULLY BEFORE WRITING TO ME AS LOOKS FADE IN TIME AND I AM A VERY GOOD LIFE PARTNER ONLY FOR THE RIGHT MATCH NOT FOR EVERYONE. I AM ONLY INTERESTED IN A VERY SERIOUS COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP AND I KNOW WHAT I WANT SO I DON'T WANT TO WASTE NEITHER MY TIME NOR ANYONE'S. I HAVE RESPECT FOR EVERYONE AND I BELIEVE EACH PERSON HAS A VALUE AND A GREAT SIDE TO THEM BUT HERE WE ARE TO SEARCH FOR THE RIGHT MATCH, NOT FOR A RANDOM CHOICE. I DON'T WANT TO OFFEND ANYONE AT ALL. JUST WE ALL ARE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE SPECIFIC...My search is for someone with whom I can turn life into a wonderful adventure when we are together. I am loving, warm, open, very playful, sensual, sexual, attractive, educated, intellectual and genuine. I am into a healthy life style, eat organic and healthy food, not a barbecue type at all. I like formal black tie events, not a sports fun, not into camping. I am goal oriented and although that I still can enjoy the simple things in life I am used to a certain life style and willing to work hard to maintain that. I am looking for someone who feel the same about this but at the same time someone who is selfless and loves doing things for others. I spend more time for helping others than myself and get great pleasure out of this. I have a degree in sales and marketing management and after traveling well and working in business field for a while, I went back to school and I will have another degree in media studies soon. I have an events organizations company. I do translations, business and marketing plans for small businesses time to time. At least have a 4 year degree, some university or high school do not apply to what I am looking for. You may be very rich and successful without any degrees but that is not what I am looking for. Also you should appreciate different cultures and beliefs, I have friends around the globe and would love to have more to explore different cultures. I have a great appreciation for different cultures and beliefs. I can carry a good conversation from media to business, from arts to politics. I like the beach, sailing, traveling, wine tastings, classical concerts, charity events, real estate, visiting different countries and exploring them, history, shopping, spending time with family, kids and animals, photography, city life, dining out and bar scene, cuddling at home and watching a good movie with someone special.I have a three years old son, living full time with me and I adore him. I am very close with my family and my parents. I like someone who is family oriented and willing to love his family as I love mine.I have two chihuahuas, love all animals, especially dogs. You should love them too.I like to be honest, open, sincere and I want to give my energy to make my partner happy and achieve my goals *** wasting my time with games. I believe if two people have the same goals, similar hobbies, likes, dislikes and backgrounds to start with, it will be a good start.No one should try to change the other, small differences usually add colors while the big ones apart people.PLEASE DO NOT WRITE ME AT ALL IF YOU DON'T LIKE PETS, KIDS, IF YOU ARE NOT FAMILY ORIENTED, DON'T WANT TO HAVE MORE OR ANY KIDS...I AM NOT IN A HURRY TO JUMP INTO ANY THING, NOT INTO HANGING OUT OR A FLING AT ALL. IF YOU HAVE TATTOOS, INTO MOTORCYCLES, PIERCING, GUNS AND HUNTING(I AM AN ANIMAL ACTIVIST) TOO MUCH OF A SPORTS PERSON, IF YOU TALK LIKE "WHAT'S UP", WE ARE NOT RIGHT FOR EACH OTHER. I HAVE RESPECT FOR EVERY ONE BUT I ALSO KNOW WHAT I WANT...**PRIVACY NOTICE**Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. I prefer a phone chat before meeting and if we still want to meet after that drinks or coffee will be nice at somewhere we can talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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