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Shelley, 38

United States, California, Salinas

Offline, last seen Thu, 03 Sep 2026 10:11:15

About Me

Trying this again... I am seeking my companion/best friend/partner in crime(and charity). I am happy with myself and I am okay being single until I meet Mr. Right for Me. I don't have a problem meeting men in "real life". However I feel that online opens up a lot more possibilities. I like making new friends I'm half introvert half extrovert. I do not do well with racists or even closet bigots. I love all people until they give me a reason not to (all people includes all races & religions.) I am never ever ever having anymore children. I raised a wonderful child and the next time there is a baby in my life it will be a grandchild (hopefully not for another 10yrs) .Money is necessary to eat, have a roof and to enjoy life a little. I am not all about money or stuff/things. Yes I do have a smart phone (smh) I'm ashamed at the control it has over me. What I am seeking in a partner: Ability to laugh at life, easy going nature, having at least some common interests especially when it comes to the outdoors and love of all kinds of music. Always being up for trying new things, not afraid of bears :p ... or at least be willing to concur your fear! Be active (not a workout fanatic but don't be afraid to leave the couch) ... Good cook??? okay that's a bonus... Be able to talk about yourself but be able to listen also. I am sorry ... I know it's shallow.... I have to be attracted to you. It's this whole animal magnetism mammal thing you know .... attraction is attraction it has no rhyme or reason. Online is much harder on people like me that look like beauty queens until they get in front of the camera... okay maybe not a beauty queen!!! But definitely feel more attractive then my pics portray.*** I don't play the "Meet Me" game if your interested start a conversation .... not with hey beautiful. Go to the park and throw a frisbee or football or just walk and talk. Go roller skating, For a bike ride, Art museum .... places where we can talk and interact. I am not much of a movie theater person.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Italian Spanish Western Volleyball Watching Sports
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