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Karla, 39
United States, California, Salinas

Offline, last seen Wed, 17 Dec 2025 08:39:24

About Me

"Love is giving someone the power to hurt you, crush you, but trusting enough that they won't"I believe in friends first and see where it goes from there. Problem is that I usually end up the friend.....lol. I am laid back,easy going, passionate and love to tease and laugh. I'm not a beautiful woman, I can admit that, I'm usually described as cute, 5'2" or 5'3", red hair, big blue eyes, fair skin, full lips, the girl next door, so if you are looking for a trophy on your arm, that's not me. I'm looking for someone who has a good sense of humor and who loves to give alot of attention as well as get alot of attention. I love long conversations with someone who can challenge me. It's always fun to laugh and tease. I have a bad habit of analyzing things too much and need to work on self esteem but have decided if I don't put myself out there then I will never find what I am looking for. That being said, I am shy til I get comfortable with someone so probably will not contact you first. I am an open book, so ask me anything. I believe in honesty. I have a daughter and a grandson who live with me and a demanding job, so have alot of responsiblities but need someone in my life to be my best friend, my partner, someone to spend time with, someone to talk with. LIfe is too short not to have someone in your life to spend time with. Say hi, you never know if we have alot in common. It's always nice to have friends to do things with and see where things may go. I am a hopeless romantic at heart, remember that and you will go far. It's the small things that count. Not having any luck on here, some are lucky in love and some are not, but you have to try and put yourself out there if you want to obtain what you are looking for. Though it gets tougher to maintain hope. Are there any good men out there who are serious about having a relationship? Can men find the value in a woman deeper than the outside? Good conversation anywhere

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

German Irish Thai Drama Music War Dirt Bike Racing
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