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Joanna, 41
United States, California, Whittier

Offline, last seen Mon, 23 Feb 2026 18:36:33

About Me

I am a no bull ,sarcastic and funny kind of girl.I am very busy, but I am really ready to find that special person. I like to go out, I sing , and am a lot of fun to be around. I am not hung up on a past relationship and those that are, just please look the other way. If you have a picture of your car, your pets, tattoos, a camel, your house , but a pic that you need a magnifying glass for, don't bother... This is a dating site, not a classified add.. Really.. I don't care if you live in a mansion, and drive a BMW, If that's your pic, your probably a pompous ass, and compensating for something, or beat up in the school bathroom as a k.id.. Just saying.. I apologize if I don't answer you 1,***messages.. I must have missed the first 10.. I'm not interested, and it is what it is.. I'm here to meet someone I want to date.. Not everyone is attracted to everyone....If you are going through custody battles etc. I understand it's tough, but no place to start a relationship. I just can't do the drama,my kids are grown and 3 teenagers as a single mom was enough stress for a lifetime. I DO NOT DATE OUTSIDE OF MY RACE. I had to express this in bold letters because some cannot read and only can look at pictures. I am sorry to be so bold, but there just isn't any attraction for me there. friends yes, lover ...Not so much...I am not a girly girl and love all kinds of of sports, but look cute doing it. I have a good job, 3 adult children, and 2 dogs 2 cats. I looove animals so snuggling with puppers is my favorite thing to do.. I am very involved with animal rescue.. P,D. has me on speed dial in several counties.. It doesn't stop with pups, I rescue everything..I was in an almost 10 yr relationship and we just grew apart there was no fighting etc. It was mutual.....I am ready to find my best friend and fall in love. There is no better feeling in the world. I am not clingy by any means,I am very active in the community, and have a large group of amazing friends, but do like to spend what little time i have off with that special someone, and hear their voice before they go to bed at night If you are Just Separated From Ur wife, and Still Want To Hang Out, Your Not Ready..I sound like a demanding ****, i am a very loving sensitive girl who has been through a lot and just wants a healthy relationship with her best friend. Some guys think that if they forget to mention certain things, that it'll be OK later. I'm just being honest. I'm 40 not 22. No little girl here. I can stand on my own 2 feet. If u lie once, my trust is gone. That's it.I am not on here for the guys who think they are going to get some. It's not happening.There's no amount of alcohol in this universe so forget it so look somewhere else. If we are talking for a few weeks, and you still haven't asked me out for at-least a cup of coffee,.... Your loss... I have enough friends, grow a set... I usually don't bite.. anything else well just askI will not respond or even read a message without a pic. sorry, just is what it is. it's not all about physical attraction, but we are online and well obviously it is a good start. Coffee.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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