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Iris, 40
United States, California, Whittier

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About Me

UPDATE: I RECENTLY BROKE MY ANKLE, SO I'M ON CRUTCHES FOR THE NEXT ***WEEKS.I would like to preface this with the fact that I am not jaded, I don't think all men are horrible or only out for one thing. There are just as many badly behaved females as there are males. I am a realist though ,so with that said...I'm not sure there is actually a real point to actually writing any of this. I believe that texting and the internet has become the downfall of the English language. I detest chat speak. It is used for texting not for talking, ***, or writing. While I am not a grammar nazi, I would like someone that has a grasp and comprehension of language and it's uses. I don't think anyone really reads these, because if they did ,then I would think I would no longer receive 2 word *** like this UR haut or sexxy or some variation. Or pictures of you and what you perceive to be your hunting prowess.Please don't send pictures of you with dead animals.I don't care if you hunt as long as it is NOT for sport, just don't want to see it. I am done with my little rant, Sorry but I just needed to say that. I can carry on a conversation on just about anything. I'm an excellent conversationalist. I'm very intelligent.And full of useless facts. And I'm fluent in sarcasm. I have a low tolerance for ***,bigoted, closed minded people. I'm very opinionated and will stand by my convictions. But I am willing to listen to other opinions and can see thing from other peoples point of view. And if wrong, though I may not like it can concede the point. I have 3 children they are 18, 16 and 14. So my kids are all teenagers. My oldest just gotgot married.I have the most brilliant 3 year old grandson in the universe, and I'm not biased in the slightest. My middle daughter lives with their father. So I have more free time now than when they were younger. Also my children have a father so I am not looking for that. I want good friend and a good example for my children and a best friend/partner for me. The only sport I watch is the one my daughter is in. I'm not one to sit and watch sports on TV. I like soccer. I would go and watch a live sporting event, I have been to a UK football game. I also like baseball and have been thinking about taking the kids to a game. Or even ball in the back yard with the kids. I make a point to never miss my children's activities. I also have 5 dogs and my daughter brought home a kitty, I now have 2 of her kittens as well. Lol I am more of a dog person. All but one are rescue dogs. I'm a big believer in DON'T SHOP ADOPT!! The uniqueness of me.... I have been told many times that 'they've never met anyone like me anywhere and that includes my friends. While I was born in Ky, I grew up in NC where I went to school, lived in Ft.Thinking this would be a better place to raise children. Not so sure about that anymore considering the state of our educational system. I say what I mean, I mean what I say.I find lying an insult to everyone involveds intelligence. It's kind of like saying I think you're dumb enough to believe this. I don't lie. So therefore this is my number one rule: I never ask a question I don't really and truly want the answer to. You should never ask me any question you don't honestly want the answer to. Because sometime sometimes people already know the truth deep down, but aren't ready to accept it, so by and large people believe what they need to believe to keep going. I am a very up front person. A very good friend once told me I didn't have that filter,between what I thought when asked something and what came out.I am loyal sometimes to a fault. I have performed in several plays. If you know who that is or have ever seen the movie.Bonus points. I have a very large personality for a small person. I have a little bit of a twisted sense of humor,fluent in sarcasm.;; Dark Comedies: Heathers. I like action movies: Smokin Aces, Domino. Not big on chick flicks. I'm a sci fi girl love Dr.Who, Serenity. Really like The Walking Dead. Just got into Game of Thrones.- I am looking for someone that just gets me. Someone honest. Some one that I can carry on a conversation with about anything. Someone intelligent,that likes kids,loves animals (no snakes,spides, birds)I'm scared of them(snake and spidrs, birds just kind of creep me out) .th ab and a vehicle and all their teeth. Goals. If you have kids it's acceptable to be living with your family. Everyone can need help raising kids at some point. Someone that's over shiny ball syndrome, and ThD. I've been single for quite some time. I can do single,I would however prefer to find someone,but I'm not just going to settle no one should.Someone that makes me feel loved, and safe protected.Someone I can respect and that respects me. I'm sorry if this sounds rude but I'm not attracted to someone I feel I could beat up. lol Someone that I can trust, because I don't share. I am southern so good manners are important and rudeness is a huge pet peeve.So if you read it thanks. If you want to know anything just ask.Wanted to add some things:-A first date does not mean 2 people are in a relationship unless both parties agree on it.-What kind of response do you expect to get to Hey sexy, Hey cutie, UR hott,or any variation? It's not closing time and I'm not drunk. Honestly they don't make enough alcohol for that.-And what is with the prefer not to say if you have a car.-Prefer not to say if you drink I will assume that unless you drive a motorcycle this is probably why you don't want to answer the car question lol. I'm going for BSN. Eventually I want to be an Aesthetic Adult Advanced Practice Registered Nurse. ****PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice for this and or you may copy and paste this one.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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