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Brenda, 40
United States, California, Whittier

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About Me

Willing to give it another shot on this site!! ;)) I would like to find my best friend, lover and companion to enjoy life to the fullest. I consider myself to be laid back, confident and friendly. I'm drawn to people with a quick wit and good sense of humor. I try to always be optimistic and see the good in people. I love to smile and laugh often..life is too short not to. I am a very down to earth woman who enjoys all aspects of life. I am very passionate about the things that are most important in my life. I am very easy going, so I love to laugh and joke around. I am honest, a good friend, loyal, very caring , loving, sensitive and committed. I love affection and closeness. I am a very social person so I enjoy going out to dinner with friends but I also enjoy spending quiet romantic evenings at home with my special someone. I love to dress up and look my best when I go out but also have my days when blue jeans and a t-shirt are fine by me. I am looking for a man who is a Christian, has a heart of gold, who is a good friend to others, trustworthy, loyal, honest, confident in himself, has a true belief in God and has a great sense of humor. I am looking for a man who makes me feel wanted and treats me like a lady. Looking for that deep connection ....you know the butterflies? I want to have a partner who enjoys being with me and sharing special moments together. I want a man who loves children and enjoys animals. I am looking for a man who I can be myself with completely in every way- emotionally, mentally and physically. I want the man I am with to be my lover and my best friend. A nice quiet dinner where we would be able to have great conversation and get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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