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Elva, 50

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About Me

I’m very optimistic about life and the future. I have been viewed as being intelligent, successful, witty, playful, down to earth, affirming, nurturing, classy, sensual and passionate about what I want out of life. I consider myself balanced physically, emotionally and spiritually which makes me very independent. I have a huge heart in turn rarely make an enemy. I'll be the first one to admit I'm wrong because I acknowledge that no one is perfect. Because I'm high energy, I'm very physically active; enjoying a myraid of year round sports.Communication is huge for me. I need to know that someone is emotionally open to discuss almost anything without reservation. Because my personality is focused on enjoying life, someone with a great sense of humor is a must. If I can’t laugh with someone, then it probably isn’t going to work out. I am looking for someone who doesn't take daily life events so seriously and he doesn't worry about the small stuff. If you are someone who is still holding onto disappointments from a previous relationship, we will probably not be a good fit as one needs to leave the past in the past so they can enjoy opportunities that come their way. Also someone who is balanced in every aspect and is emotionally available. One characteristic I look for in someone is the ability to be playful; who can get in touch with his inner-child and be themselves without caution or reservation. That special someone needs to be looking for a relationship not a casual fling. There is nothing more fulfilling when you can share your life with someone who shares common interest. Open to suggestions.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Naynay

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 20-40

    Hi! My name is Naynay. I am divorced spiritual but not religious caucasian woman with kids from Rockford, Illinois, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Kelly

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I'm 5'1 about ***lbs, dirty blonde hair and blue eyes. I like to stay in shape...and keep busy. Interest wise..just to many to list..but I'm usually up for most anything. Love being outside and keeping active. I'm easygoing...love to laugh, have fun..and enjoy life. Just looking for a partner to do some of those things with..and take it from there. I'd like a man who's easygoing, fun, takes care of himself and can enjoy the simple things in life. As for a first date...I usually like to keep it short and sweet. Just meet for a drink...maybe lunch...etc. Once I know there is interest and a connection with that person...the next date can be longer..more to it.

  • Pat

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    UPDATE - If you're interested in flirtation indefinately via text, ***, etc., but without the goal of actually meeting at some point, then please don't waste either of our time - my time is way too valuable to me to waste on endlessly flirting in cyberspace vs actually meeting in person to see if there's any chemistry/connection. That would fall into the 'no games' policy. don't misunderstand - I enjoy being playful and flirtatious (appropriately, of course) when there's a mutual attraction. But if it never moves beyond that, then I'm not the one for you. And it tells me that, A) You're a player and I'm not interested, B) Your ego needs something that I'm not interested in fulfilling, or C) You're too insecure to meet in the real world vs hiding behind the laptop/cell ph....Sorry, just want to be clear - in case I wasn't clear before :) Hi, honesty, sincerity, ability to communicate & share things emotionally, laughing & enjoying fun activities & events together, resolving issues & conflicts in a positive, healthy way, not a "player" are a few of the things I'm seeking in someone. .. I'm not into 'serial daters' or playing emotional games for sure. Jealously & possessiveness are also turn-offs.The person I'd be interested in should have confidence, but not over-confident and arrogant. Dislikes are pretentious and superficial people, lying, game playing, saying 1 thing & doing another...actions will always speak louder than words.I'm genuine, upfront and honest, and I'd expect the same in return - no pretenses, no high maintenance drama...been there, done that. Have got no time or tolerance for it.I like to have fun but can be serious, too, when the situation calls for it, but life is too short to sweat the small stuff. I like taking day or weekend trips to the beach, mtns, quaint towns, anywhere - and being active -; tailgating :), whatever. Romance & spontaneity are very important parts of a rel'ship for me. I enjoy being romantic passionate, and adventurous and would love my date to be also....passionateThe person I'd be attracted to will be someone whose faith is important to them and guides their major life decisions. Open, honest communication is a must - someone who can share and express their feelings openly. Of course there would have to be physical chemistry,looks are important, but by no means are they the most important quality that I look for. I want to walk through life's journey together with that special person & to be more than 'best friends' or 'soulmates', but to be like 2 individual pieces of a puzzle that, when we connect, we'll know that we 'fit' in that special, unique, rare way - we'll make each other whole and complete in a way that we've not experienced before finding each other - that's hard to find but I'm sure it can happen more than just once in a lifetime....I'll say that my divorce was based on the biblical grounds for divorce - adultery - on his part. While this was of course an extremely painful situation to walk through, I was able to grow even closer in my walk with the Lord and experience His grace, healing and faithfulness, even when others fail us and are not faithful. My will was not to divorce, and I did everything possible to keep our marriage and family intact - however, it takes both partners to want to restore the marriage relationship and allow God to heal and change unhealthy behaviors - so I had no choice but to let him go. Have grown more intimate in my relationship with Him - there are abundant blessings even in the most difficult of circumstances. Our peace and joy are not dependent on our circumstances, trials, etc, but on God's character and our intimacy with Him in the midst of the storms. I've always known that, but have come to know it in a deeper way through the storm of divorce.Be Still and Know that I am God - Psalm 46:10Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths; Do not be wise in your own eyes; Fear the LORD and depart from evil; It will be health to your flesh and strength to your bones - Prov. 3 v.5-8. That would depend on who you are and our common interests!!Once we've communicated enough via *** feel that we have a potential connection, chemistry, etc., (we wouldn't be meeting otherwise!),then it really doesn't matter so much what we do, as long as we get the chance to get together and talk, get to know more about each other....

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