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Violet, 49

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About Me

I'm not desperate for men, just never get out to meet any. Thought I'd give this a try. Used to never have a problem meeting people, then I guess new job less free time happened. Plus I was making sure my kids finished college! Taking care of parents, grandparents, everyone else that I forgot I might want someone in my life. Someone who has a great sense of humor but can be serious when need be. Someone willing to have me as a priority (but I don't expect to be main priority when kids are involved, but still a priority). Someone who has patience when need be. Spontaneous but stable! Tender and gentle, but strong! Someone who puts other people's feelings first, but isn't a pushover though! Someone who loves their family and has strong family values, but still lives their own lives and makes their own decisions. My kids are grown, working on living their own life and having their own families. I have three children and two grandbabies! I have spent the last nearly 30 years raising my children to be healthy, happy adults able to have their own lifes and families one day. I chose to put plans on hold and commit myself fully to raising them as best as I was able, and I think I did a pretty damn good job! I am proud of them all and no degree in the world can top having been able to just be called "Mom"! And I can be happy for the rest of my life by myself if need be. But if it doesn't have to be, why should it. So if I meet someone who clicks with me, then great. And if I just meet someone who ends up a good friend, well I'm always looking for new friends! I love the outdoors, just need plenty of sunscreen (natural redhead, I don't tan-I freckle alot or burn, neither a pretty sight!). I'm not looking for a sugar daddy either, you can't buy attraction. Please put a pic on your profile if you want to talk! If you don't want your pic public at least send me one with your first message or I WILL NOT respond! And please men, spare me excuse of how you work for the goverment and it would be a security risk to send a pic! Or you can't figure how to upload a pic! Don't assume I am stupid, *** gullible. I'm kind enough to let you see who you are talking to, return the favor. Otherwise you are just hiding something or yourself and in that case don't waste my time........ meet for coffee or a light drink, good conversation and go from there

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kathleen

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Ive been on here before and have not had any bad experiences and actually had one LTR and made some great short term connections.Looking for Chemistry and that begins with a photo so please HAVE ONE POSTED why you don't post one better be good cause thats a tad sketchy.Some of us are here because we are too busy to bar hop nor interested in that, our time is limited if I answered every mail I would have to change careers. Please do not take offense if I do not reply I appreciate any mail and hope that we all find the one we delete our page for. I've had luck on here before and I have no trouble meeting men at ALL in the real world I am just particular as to whom does it for me. I have no kids and if you do thats fine, I love them and they tend to gravitate to me, I'm a big kid and love playing video games, sports and making them laugh.I am not an agist but please 20 somethings really some cougars on here want a cub I'm not one of em. Its not your age I have a problem with, its your intent. To me its who you are that counts. You need not be a gym rat. Its what I do not who I am.About me:I'm kind and would consider you before myselfI'm drivenLove Kids and animalsI follow the rules most of the timeLove to laugh Love my jobVery Positive and spiritual (as in the law of attraction and Karma)Fan of all kinds of musicI love NYC and the Country Hate radio commercials but enjoy news radioLove tracking the weatherLove the sun, sand and surf as well as the deep woodsI always wave when someone allows me to yield when drivingLove Motorcycles, always haveI can cook and bake very well (you can BBQ they scare me..lol)Love movies and bowling, riding bikes and taking walks *** drivingBig fan of long drive and antique shops and farmers marketsI tip 20% alwaysvery respectful and 100% loyalextremely attentiveLove Camping, getting dirty, muddy and cleaning upLove taking naps and sleeping in on a rainy weekendI'm extremely organized but very laid backI'm compassionate, I cant kill spiders, I relocate them outside if I can..Very athletic but love to learn new things (Not jumping out of a plane anytime soon though or bungee)I love all seasons and make the best of themFinally I love whatever sports teams you're a fan of I've been told I'mSexyGuy Cool (whatever that means but it was a compliment)Low MaintenanceFun to be aroundSilly Goofy Great KisserSmart LogicalVery ResponsibleVery PatientFinally..........

  • Alyssa

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hello to all the gentlemen out there that are on here for the same reason I am. What happened to the days when you went to go get gas (I lived in NH so I pumped it myself) and you met someone that wanted to take you out. Those were the days my friend...(Mary Hopkin)I'm taking the advise of meetville to describe myself 1,2,3, & 4, but please know, there is quite a bit more to me then what I say on here.1. I have quite a few hobbies which are listed in another section on my profile...photography, golf, bowling, working out, movies, dancing, running walking, and hitting AC2. Goals, well, they are more things that I would really love to happen to me, bowl a ***game, catch a baseball at a baseball game and yes, win the lottery! My one true aspiration is to take that one photo that everyone will remember.3. I think you need to meet me to find out what makes me unique.4. Music gets me going when I need a boost. What I listen to depends on what I'm doing, but I do enjoy the 70's, but I have all types on my ipod.Updated my "main" pic with what my hair looks like today. Went through a few color changes over the past year. First dates are tough enough, so to make it as comfortable as possible, the ideal first date (which is probably meeting for the first time after talking on here) would be to go get a slice of pizza, sit and talk.My profile says "not looking for anything serious" but I am not opposed to starting a "relationship".

  • Petra

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I LOVE to dance. I LOVE to laugh. I consider myself funny, though others might call me corny.My brain never stops...it rolls over the same info constantly, thinking of what I should have said and/or done.I've been deeply hurt of late and I tend to be cautious with my heart. But I am hopeful that I will find love again. Note: HopeFUL romantic wasn't an option, so I had to choose hopeless. Meanwhile...I'm just a normal, middle aged woman (OMG, did THAT just come out of MY mouth?) *lol* I'll be 50 in a couple months. OMG, that just came out of my mouth for SURE! *lol*Newly divorced (Jan ***after a very long marriage ***yrs...mid-life crisis hit him).....Looking for a friend first...and then...we'll see... Especially, as my daughter is turning me into a grandma soon... She is my priority right now.I have two, adult children, my son just moved off to begin his own life adventure... They are my life. I love kids, mine and others. They, to me, are the world waiting to happen. And anything I can ever do to influence positively, is what I feel is so important. It's what I leave behind that matters. Even if small...even without thanks, it matters...I HATE when someone contacts me online and calls me sweetie, or dear, or honey, or baby. In my mind, those are earned endearments, so please don't demean me with using them prematurely.Ah, and I read this....and completely agree;A strong woman is one who feels deeply and loves fiercely.Her tears flow just as abundantly as her laughter.A strong woman is both soft and powerful.She is both practical and spiritual.A strong woman in her essence is a gift to the world. A nice dinner, good, easy conversation, maybe a walk along a river or a beach or even down the street.

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