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Violet, 49
United States, Illinois, Rockford

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About Me

I'm not desperate for men, just never get out to meet any. Thought I'd give this a try. Used to never have a problem meeting people, then I guess new job less free time happened. Plus I was making sure my kids finished college! Taking care of parents, grandparents, everyone else that I forgot I might want someone in my life. Someone who has a great sense of humor but can be serious when need be. Someone willing to have me as a priority (but I don't expect to be main priority when kids are involved, but still a priority). Someone who has patience when need be. Spontaneous but stable! Tender and gentle, but strong! Someone who puts other people's feelings first, but isn't a pushover though! Someone who loves their family and has strong family values, but still lives their own lives and makes their own decisions. My kids are grown, working on living their own life and having their own families. I have three children and two grandbabies! I have spent the last nearly 30 years raising my children to be healthy, happy adults able to have their own lifes and families one day. I chose to put plans on hold and commit myself fully to raising them as best as I was able, and I think I did a pretty damn good job! I am proud of them all and no degree in the world can top having been able to just be called "Mom"! And I can be happy for the rest of my life by myself if need be. But if it doesn't have to be, why should it. So if I meet someone who clicks with me, then great. And if I just meet someone who ends up a good friend, well I'm always looking for new friends! I love the outdoors, just need plenty of sunscreen (natural redhead, I don't tan-I freckle alot or burn, neither a pretty sight!). I'm not looking for a sugar daddy either, you can't buy attraction. Please put a pic on your profile if you want to talk! If you don't want your pic public at least send me one with your first message or I WILL NOT respond! And please men, spare me excuse of how you work for the goverment and it would be a security risk to send a pic! Or you can't figure how to upload a pic! Don't assume I am stupid, *** gullible. I'm kind enough to let you see who you are talking to, return the favor. Otherwise you are just hiding something or yourself and in that case don't waste my time........ meet for coffee or a light drink, good conversation and go from there

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Latin Fishing Canadian Chinese French Irish Sci-Fi Thriller War Archery Dirt Bike Racing
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