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James, 42

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About Me

Well what to say....I am looking for someone to add to my life, not define it. My free time is usually spent going to see live music/bands, or just relaxing with friends, I am into rock music and like to go out to see live music but lately i have been more of a homebody.I enjoy fleamarkets,car shows, when I have free time on the weekends (rarely). Like to escape when I can for the day or more, happy to just take a drive and get out of the everyday norm. my days off are tues and wed so i do most of my day trip stuff on those days.Looking to find the best friend (aren't we all) who you are just happy to be together, laugh with each other, enjoy mostly the same things & secure enough to let each other to go do the things that we do not have in common with friends. I have never been married and have no kids, but would like to have both someday. I am an honest person and hope for the same in people who I connect with.I tried this site awhile ago, and met some okay people and some not great ones....so I figured I would give it another chance...Please do not contact me if you are married or in a serious relationship, I am also not looking for a hook up buddy. also when i go out i usually am in heels so please consider at least 3" to my height... It all depends on the person or our mood at the moment. something casual to see if we have a connection, and take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ramona

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am : strong, independent, sassy, passionate, compassionate, driven, earthy, modern, rustic, cautious, intuitive, intelligent, Kind approachable and financial independent. I own and maintain my own home. Im coach bags to flee markets, I'm a great friend, a great mom, a great cook. I'm a jack of all trades. I'm a problem solver. I respect the earth and love being outdoors. I enjoy hiking, yoga, dancing, mini weekend vacations, cafes, fine dinning and ethnic comfort food. I actually enjoy eating healthy . Im a thinker, I appreciate art, architecture, design, and I love to write. I'm a lil obsessed with people and how we all show up differently and why. I'm not religious but I believe in spirituality. Im not about rules or intense politics but I can debate. I can hold an intelligent conversation but I boar and frustrate with narrow minded judgmental opinions . I'm open minded and always respects others opinions as there own. I'm fine wine or margarita's I'm musicals and sporting events. I enjoy a healthy sex life, everyone should. My partner should be energetic personable, friendly, independent, trust worthy, ACCOUNTABLE, supportive. You should enjoy talking and be able to handle conflict respectfully and appropriate . You should be my best friend. You should be romantic and know what I like, ( i like surprises ) you should want to give me the stars if you could . You should always want me around, best buddy's. if weve been together for ten years you should still be excited to see me when I walk in a room . You should be personable and confidant but not arrogant. I wont tolerate rude or prejudice toward anyone and I mean anyone. I wouldn't want you to be extreme with sports, politics, the gym, TV, work, or money. You have to be intelligent and This doesn't have to mean you've spent half your life in college. Emotional intelligence is higher on my list, there will be a quiz lol.... You have to accept and understand kids ( mine are not babies ) They don't need a father but a friendship is a must . Im very involved with there life's. I spend a lot of time with there activities. Hopefully if you have children you have a friendship with your ex because its whats best for the kids but there are exceptions I understand this . If you have children but know relationship with them I have know understanding at all so don't even bother trying to explain move on.. ( send a message lets see if we can make each other HAPPY for life. One more ,,, I'm not perfect and i'd rather you not be either, that's just to boring for me. I like growing with someone, let me know your flaws ill tell you mine lets inspire each other to becoming our best selves it takes two. This isn't something that should be taken as lightly as it seems to be on these sights. Online dating is difficult enough, but to not show anything special, to not show any character. For me is the reason why I believe I haven't had any chemistry with anyone. If I asked someone out I would want to show this person what being with me might look like. Just thought I'd give some insight to those who are having difficulties . A creative date can be less expensive that a few drinks or dinner, so are you thoughtful or in a rush. I felt i needed to say something , if you message me I will read your profile in its entirety before I even look at your message So please let me know something about you that you know about you. I won't read a profile if there are know picture's its just creepy . If Im not hiding that means I'm real and Im looking for a real person not a creeper, And guys please stop using the words no drama . Life is drama everyone has experienced life's drama's. If you have kids you cant avoid drama, my daughters hair every morning before school is drama, sometimes its so traumatic there's tears. Kids are drama, ex's can be drama, owning a home can bring drama a bad neighbor can bring drama .... If your talking about drama in such a dramatic way then maybe you might have been the cause of it to begin with. Sorry I sound so harsh but its just obvious to me. Drama shows emotion and sometimes passion Its not always something to get attention but i do get that is also out there to. I'd rather have some drama and understand how someone will show up in a stressful situation than find out that someone has no emotion no passion and no COPING skills . Just being real ... ; )

  • Terry

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    fancy clothes, fast cars, exotic destinations, expensive restaurantsall these things are fantastic - but in reality - you still need a great person to grow old withI have a great personality, and get along with just about anybody, im quite perky(so to speak), I have a good heart, compassionate with everything and I expect the same with the person I end up withI can be quite sarcastic - which people take offence at times - but what can I say - "like it or lump it" - lol humour is everything to me - you have to make me laugh and smile and blush, whatevermusic - I prefer alternative rock, but can listen to almost anythingbeach - almost every wkend in the summer - that is my peacebbq's - whenever - and I can cook too(im not just a pretty face lol)bike rides - along the waterfront of Torontowalks - definitelyhanging out with friends - of coursebars - not unless we're celebrating all and all im quite simple-im looking for my best friend- something out of the ordinaryany ideas?????

  • Florence

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm a easy going girl, looking for a easy going guy. I do like a man that takes his career seriously, but knows how to leave it at the door. Men in ties really turn me on! I do like business men that know how to balance life and career. Looking for someone who is also a christian. I love all sorts of music, I dont have just one, it just depends on how if feel that day. I would like to meet someone around 48 to 65 that is average shape and does not look his age, as I do not look mine. What makes me unique is that I am capable of poise and professionalism, but also like having a great time. I do like to read and various other things. I work hard and play hard. I do love various sports. I dont mind dating someone with children, they keep you young. I've finished raising my kids, and in doing so, I havent traveled very much, and would love someone who likes to travel who could show me new places and things. I act the same way when I'm with my man or my friends. That's the way it should be. Also, just so you guys know women dont like pics of you on your motocycles, or in a big group of people.( Just so you know.) Meet somewhere have a drink, and conversation, It truly is a time to get to know if that person is a match for you.

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