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Carmela, 42

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About Me

just as the headline reads, i'm a simple girl looking for a simple man. someone that is genuine, compassionate and capable of appreciating the little things that make life interesting. i would like to find someone who appreciates me...just the way i am...and i will do the same in return. i enjoy the outdoors, good music, good company...i don't ask for anything extravagant. i think a burger off the grill, and a good cold beer (not a sot)along with good company can make for the best of times. i am not interested in the bar or club scene, and have no desire to 'hook-up'. i hate drama, there's no reason that people in our age group cannot sit down, discuss differences, and come to an amicable conclusion...or...just agree to disagree. i think two people should spend time getting to know each other before jumping into a date. i'd like to spend time talking and getting to know someone before i find myself awkwardly trying to choke down a dinner with a total stranger that i might not have a thing in common with. is there someone out there capable of doing this???

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dee

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    So many of you guys say that you are looking for your best friend but you are not willing to put the time into actually finding her and if you do find that potential one.... you end up running from her because you can not see your future for standing in your past!! Always be positive and happy! Make the best of what you have and what can be..........do not think of things that could go wrong or could potentially go wrong! That is a negative way of thinking and I am not a negative person and do NOT want to be around negative people! If you are always standing around with an empty glass or half empty glass....(as the old saying goes).......pass me by! If you have a positive outlook on life, love to laugh and be happy and your glass is always full....message me and lets talk about the happiness we could bring to each other!!!And same goes for you men as most of you put on here for us women....have a full body photo (with a smile) and more than one photo!!!..nothing personal of course since I have never talked to you to form an opinion, just not going to carry on a long distance anything. :)) You never know where life will take you if you do not try!!! :) :)

  • Wilda

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am glass is always half full, financially stable individual who is talkative, an extremely open communicator who you will never have to "interpret" what I'm saying.Don't let the photos fool you... Hobbies I've previously had include: hunting, snowmobiling, quadding, dirtbiking, seadooing and fishing. I'm not the keenest person on camping - but have done that too. I like taking in the game - live or televised... I'm not prissy, nor high maintenance, I'm rather easy going where little phases me. I'm not a needy individual - I enjoy time on my own and my work schedule is very flexible - so shift workers or those who work out of town can be a good match for me with no headaches.I am open to new experiences and activities. I enjoy socializing with friends - this is something I do often, be it hosting dinners/movie nights or parties in my home. I'm a true "foody" so enjoy trying new cuisine, love to cook, enjoy sampling wine... so obviously Channel ***FoodNetwork) is something that is on most of the time. As for exercise - I enjoy hot yoga and walking my dog - however, would like to try other activities - just need to be pointed in the right direction.What I look for:Openness - Open with me about where they are in their heads/hearts, where they want to be, their thoughts on things, their desires, and where they want things to go... don't say one thing, when you have something else in mind and PLEASE PLEASE don't tell me what you think I want to hear, because more than likely you will be very very wrong. A sense of humor, someone where the glass is always half full, where very little if anything is a real "crisis", no drama, someone who has direction and a true sense of self, someone who takes care of themselves, their belongings and their home. As for physical attributes... I'm 5'3" my partner hopefully will be no taller than 5'9", however, this is just a preference for me, not necessarily a rule. Preferably drinks somewhere quiet… that way we can talk and not YELL ;-) Also my preference is to go dutch for the first meeting, then there is no awkwardness. Please, please, please do not use the “let’s do it again”, “I’d like to get together again” etc unless that truly is your intent – I’m straightforward and I assume you are also. So when I’ve been told that, I truly have believed it, then been left wondering later what happened? ***, a simple, “I had a nice evening, please travel safely” – would suffice, you can always contact me later, if you change your mind. Also if you would like to move on to a second meeting “I had a great time, if you’d like to get together again, let me know” I find more comfortable than putting someone on the spot, and also gives a person time to think about how the first meeting went and what the future possibility might be… This dating thing is hard enough without the pressure and games that can sometimes go with it because people are afraid to be honest or don’t want to feel awkward or embarrassed.

  • Katheryn

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    'I like taking long walks on the beach and hope for world peace one day'Bahaaaaaa!!!Now, to be truthful:I am a single parent of 2 teenage boys that are my life. Both are football players, so a lot of my time is spent going to football games. I have worked for the Federal Government for 13 years. I love serving my public and helping people get the service they deserve.I am a girly-girl. Not really into sports or outdoorsy activities, but I am open to try new things. I always say, it doesn't matter what you're doing as long as you're having fun with someone you enjoy being with. I am also not a size 2 (hello pics), but haven't been asked to sing to declare 'it's over', either. Make your own judgement and like what you like.My taste in music varies from Patsy Cline and Loretta to Lynyrd Skynyrd to Salt n Pepa to country.I am a child of the 80s, so I still love the hair bands, too.I tend to be a direct individual and can be quite blunt at times. I have a unique sense of humor and love to laugh.I am independent and am buying my own home, own my vehicle and pay my own bills. I am not a drama-causing person and will usually avoid it at all costs. On the other hand, if someone crosses the line, they will be dealt with accordingly- in Madea-like fashion.This is just a brief synopsis of who I am. Good luck to everyone and happy fishing!Oh yeah, I'm not a TV junkie but I absolutely love True Blood, Breaking Bad, and The Walking Dead!One more thing: I'm somewhat a Grammar Nazi, so at the very least please have the your/you're rule down! Meet for coffee- see if any interest sparks. If not, all you've lost is a little time and a $2 cup of coffee.

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