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Carmela, 42

Offline, last seen Tue, 23 Dec 2025 22:00:03

About Me

just as the headline reads, i'm a simple girl looking for a simple man. someone that is genuine, compassionate and capable of appreciating the little things that make life interesting. i would like to find someone who appreciates me...just the way i am...and i will do the same in return. i enjoy the outdoors, good music, good company...i don't ask for anything extravagant. i think a burger off the grill, and a good cold beer (not a sot)along with good company can make for the best of times. i am not interested in the bar or club scene, and have no desire to 'hook-up'. i hate drama, there's no reason that people in our age group cannot sit down, discuss differences, and come to an amicable conclusion...or...just agree to disagree. i think two people should spend time getting to know each other before jumping into a date. i'd like to spend time talking and getting to know someone before i find myself awkwardly trying to choke down a dinner with a total stranger that i might not have a thing in common with. is there someone out there capable of doing this???

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marisa

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Looking for some one who likes the outdoors fishing boating shopping / you need to be smart and fun to go out with you need to have your owne life and friends not looking for a ***friend if you are a bullshiter /ass hole do not waste my time ! If you are over 45 do not respond if no pic do not respond ! have a drink and talk

  • Taylor

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Love the outdoors ex. camping, fishing ,nature, family time, BBQ, friends, love alone time with that special someone. Family is very important to me. I love making sure everyone is taken care of and then its my turn. Love to sit back laugh, have a drink,which drinks seem to be often, no lie, relax, cook dinner,etc.. I am perfectly content staying home. Now and then like to out for dinner,but when I do..I love to talk and have the waitress probably come back 5 times before I'm ready to order cause I'm talking and enjoying my beverage with ?? is it you? .So much more to say though..etc.. But most of all love to have fun and have quality time,who doesn't? Love rock in roll and the blues. Love my job.Its a place you can actually joke, laugh, have fun and always talking to co workers and patients. Have four children from previous marriage. Dedicated mother to family, work and that special someone. Love animals, have a dog, basset hound which is definitely part of the family.Love to lounge in sweats and sweatshirt, t-shirt, Just be comfortable...And now that I have talked to people on here..I need to ADD to my profile... I will tell you that it seems what men are looking for..(I'm not saying ALL men).. is a trophy woman on their arm....which move on if that's the case...I'm NOT her..and another thing is(some) seem to be still playing the field.. If ur looking for a booty call...definitely do not view my profile again...Yes i hate being alone at this stage in life..or for the future... since all my children are teenagers and don't want to spend all their free time with MOM!!!!.I will admit that I'M SHY at first,which is really being So nervous, but after that,you will be pleasantly surprised how much I can talk as well as listen very well..I want to make sure the person I'm with is takin care of all together in every way they would allow it and in return please treat me the way u would like to be treated. Fair isn't it???!!! One more thing...I hope your not afraid to show affection..no matter when or where..hold my hand..kiss me whenever..hug me intensely...etc...and don't walk 20 feet ahead of me when we go somewhere...so....if for some reason ur still reading this...i honestly hate to wake up alone or go to bed alone!!!!,.. FYI...putting ur pic with a ex-girlfriend on ur profile? What were you thinking? ..Funny..Why do people do that? .Time is limited I understand but time spent with someone special will be UNLIMITED..Wow! You read this far? Lol..must have values and time to share...Love it!!! Oh...did I mention I have 4 children over the age of 15? Running yet? First dates are hard. and I mean really hard..at least on my part they are.. I don't know really except lets get a drink to relax to ease the tension their might be. After that we decide than. Just as long as either one of us is feeling they don't belong, Lets have fun. If it doesn't work we could as least make a friend out of this???

  • Flora

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I prefer to date Asian men but am open to other ethnicities. I am friendly and outgoing. My friends say I'm one of the most upbeat people they know. Nevaeh is heaven spelled backwards. Lumiere is French for Light. I enjoy natural health and try to steer my clients into taking more control over their health. I have a degree in natural health. I am working hard to save money and have my own healing practice so I can see clients all day. I'm a former animal rescuer and currently have several cats. All were rescued. I like movies, especially action, comedy and sci fi. I like walking on the beach. I like going to flea markets and browsing. I like candles and candle light. I love traveling. I went to Japan in February ***. I would love to see other countries. I like anything to do with Asia.I'm looking for someone relatively NORMAL. I do not expect perfection...just no lazy bums, no psychos and no control -freaks!I do have one comment though. I keep seeing mens profiles stating they don't want any drama. What exactly is drama? Life? Human problems? I guess if you aren't having any drama whatsoever, you must be a buddhist monk! One gentleman who claimed to be living a peaceful drama free life actually had a boatload of drama with the ex wife and the kids shared custody issues. So do I have drama? I have no idea!!! Depends on your definition! What I like for a first date is lunch or dinner. It doesn't have to be fancy, just as long as we get to have good conversation in order to get to know each other better. I like to finish the meal with a cup of tea or coffee or a glass of wine just so we can talk some more. If the date is going well, I love to walk on the beach especially in the moonlight and watch the waves crashing on the shore.I'm flexible, so as long as we both agree to something, its fine.Let me say one more thing: I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A ONE NIGHT STAND or a hook-up!!!lLet me repeat that... because some guys either can't read or don't believe it, based on how many keep asking me to meet for sex. I'm not interested in a hookup, casual sex or one night stand! please *** you want me to respond. Clicking on the favorite button works only part of the time for me to get any info.

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