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Carmela, 42

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About Me

just as the headline reads, i'm a simple girl looking for a simple man. someone that is genuine, compassionate and capable of appreciating the little things that make life interesting. i would like to find someone who appreciates me...just the way i am...and i will do the same in return. i enjoy the outdoors, good music, good company...i don't ask for anything extravagant. i think a burger off the grill, and a good cold beer (not a sot)along with good company can make for the best of times. i am not interested in the bar or club scene, and have no desire to 'hook-up'. i hate drama, there's no reason that people in our age group cannot sit down, discuss differences, and come to an amicable conclusion...or...just agree to disagree. i think two people should spend time getting to know each other before jumping into a date. i'd like to spend time talking and getting to know someone before i find myself awkwardly trying to choke down a dinner with a total stranger that i might not have a thing in common with. is there someone out there capable of doing this???

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-45

    I wake up by ***and I relax by 330.Am easy going and straight forward but I go he bed by ***..If you are smart enough you will combine the numbers and try to text me ..I would like to meet someone who is honest, sincere and loving. Am seeking for the right person for me would be adventurous, yet down to earth with a warm heart that puts me at ease. I'm hoping to meet that special someone that I've been missing in my life will be looking forward to hear from you thank you

  • Ramona

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am : strong, independent, sassy, passionate, compassionate, driven, earthy, modern, rustic, cautious, intuitive, intelligent, Kind approachable and financial independent. I own and maintain my own home. Im coach bags to flee markets, I'm a great friend, a great mom, a great cook. I'm a jack of all trades. I'm a problem solver. I respect the earth and love being outdoors. I enjoy hiking, yoga, dancing, mini weekend vacations, cafes, fine dinning and ethnic comfort food. I actually enjoy eating healthy . Im a thinker, I appreciate art, architecture, design, and I love to write. I'm a lil obsessed with people and how we all show up differently and why. I'm not religious but I believe in spirituality. Im not about rules or intense politics but I can debate. I can hold an intelligent conversation but I boar and frustrate with narrow minded judgmental opinions . I'm open minded and always respects others opinions as there own. I'm fine wine or margarita's I'm musicals and sporting events. I enjoy a healthy sex life, everyone should. My partner should be energetic personable, friendly, independent, trust worthy, ACCOUNTABLE, supportive. You should enjoy talking and be able to handle conflict respectfully and appropriate . You should be my best friend. You should be romantic and know what I like, ( i like surprises ) you should want to give me the stars if you could . You should always want me around, best buddy's. if weve been together for ten years you should still be excited to see me when I walk in a room . You should be personable and confidant but not arrogant. I wont tolerate rude or prejudice toward anyone and I mean anyone. I wouldn't want you to be extreme with sports, politics, the gym, TV, work, or money. You have to be intelligent and This doesn't have to mean you've spent half your life in college. Emotional intelligence is higher on my list, there will be a quiz lol.... You have to accept and understand kids ( mine are not babies ) They don't need a father but a friendship is a must . Im very involved with there life's. I spend a lot of time with there activities. Hopefully if you have children you have a friendship with your ex because its whats best for the kids but there are exceptions I understand this . If you have children but know relationship with them I have know understanding at all so don't even bother trying to explain move on.. ( send a message lets see if we can make each other HAPPY for life. One more ,,, I'm not perfect and i'd rather you not be either, that's just to boring for me. I like growing with someone, let me know your flaws ill tell you mine lets inspire each other to becoming our best selves it takes two. This isn't something that should be taken as lightly as it seems to be on these sights. Online dating is difficult enough, but to not show anything special, to not show any character. For me is the reason why I believe I haven't had any chemistry with anyone. If I asked someone out I would want to show this person what being with me might look like. Just thought I'd give some insight to those who are having difficulties . A creative date can be less expensive that a few drinks or dinner, so are you thoughtful or in a rush. I felt i needed to say something , if you message me I will read your profile in its entirety before I even look at your message So please let me know something about you that you know about you. I won't read a profile if there are know picture's its just creepy . If Im not hiding that means I'm real and Im looking for a real person not a creeper, And guys please stop using the words no drama . Life is drama everyone has experienced life's drama's. If you have kids you cant avoid drama, my daughters hair every morning before school is drama, sometimes its so traumatic there's tears. Kids are drama, ex's can be drama, owning a home can bring drama a bad neighbor can bring drama .... If your talking about drama in such a dramatic way then maybe you might have been the cause of it to begin with. Sorry I sound so harsh but its just obvious to me. Drama shows emotion and sometimes passion Its not always something to get attention but i do get that is also out there to. I'd rather have some drama and understand how someone will show up in a stressful situation than find out that someone has no emotion no passion and no COPING skills . Just being real ... ; )

  • Willameenahh

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    Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-28

    Hi! My name is Willameenahh. I am never married other african woman without kids from Arlington, Virginia, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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