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Lula, 42

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About Me

This is a first and so not me but here goes. Im fun, Im real, and Im easy going. I dont play games and will run fast if you do. I stand up for myself but apologize like crazy if Im wrong. I play alot but also very serious when provoked. I've had my own business for 12 years. I worked very hard to build it. Business is slow right now and Ive decided its time for something else. I can take care of myself dont need any help for that but if your looking for someone with something financial to offer you should keep looking. Im a very independant person so clingy and jealous dont work for me. Im very loyal but I also think space and time with friends is healthy for any relationship.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Abby

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a hard working, honest person just looking for dating and maybe more. I've been divorced a little over a year now. My children are both grown and out of the house, so now it is time for me to have fun. I work hard and really do not have a lot of free time so decided to see what this is about. Guys if you do not have a car, job, and still live with your parents please just move on. I am in my prime right now and really just want to have fun.

  • Wilda

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am glass is always half full, financially stable individual who is talkative, an extremely open communicator who you will never have to "interpret" what I'm saying.Don't let the photos fool you... Hobbies I've previously had include: hunting, snowmobiling, quadding, dirtbiking, seadooing and fishing. I'm not the keenest person on camping - but have done that too. I like taking in the game - live or televised... I'm not prissy, nor high maintenance, I'm rather easy going where little phases me. I'm not a needy individual - I enjoy time on my own and my work schedule is very flexible - so shift workers or those who work out of town can be a good match for me with no headaches.I am open to new experiences and activities. I enjoy socializing with friends - this is something I do often, be it hosting dinners/movie nights or parties in my home. I'm a true "foody" so enjoy trying new cuisine, love to cook, enjoy sampling wine... so obviously Channel ***FoodNetwork) is something that is on most of the time. As for exercise - I enjoy hot yoga and walking my dog - however, would like to try other activities - just need to be pointed in the right direction.What I look for:Openness - Open with me about where they are in their heads/hearts, where they want to be, their thoughts on things, their desires, and where they want things to go... don't say one thing, when you have something else in mind and PLEASE PLEASE don't tell me what you think I want to hear, because more than likely you will be very very wrong. A sense of humor, someone where the glass is always half full, where very little if anything is a real "crisis", no drama, someone who has direction and a true sense of self, someone who takes care of themselves, their belongings and their home. As for physical attributes... I'm 5'3" my partner hopefully will be no taller than 5'9", however, this is just a preference for me, not necessarily a rule. Preferably drinks somewhere quiet… that way we can talk and not YELL ;-) Also my preference is to go dutch for the first meeting, then there is no awkwardness. Please, please, please do not use the “let’s do it again”, “I’d like to get together again” etc unless that truly is your intent – I’m straightforward and I assume you are also. So when I’ve been told that, I truly have believed it, then been left wondering later what happened? ***, a simple, “I had a nice evening, please travel safely” – would suffice, you can always contact me later, if you change your mind. Also if you would like to move on to a second meeting “I had a great time, if you’d like to get together again, let me know” I find more comfortable than putting someone on the spot, and also gives a person time to think about how the first meeting went and what the future possibility might be… This dating thing is hard enough without the pressure and games that can sometimes go with it because people are afraid to be honest or don’t want to feel awkward or embarrassed.

  • Gladys

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    People tend to say I am shy, but not after I get to know the person. I am goal oriented, spontaneous, love to learn, always like a good horror movie, and family is the most important to me. For some reason I am the one that everyone seems to come to for advice, I guess that is because I am a great listener and know how to communicate. I am more of a girly girl then a tom boy but I don't mind getting my hands dirty when fun is involved. I can dress up for a night on the town or dress down for the backyard bonfire. I am hoping to meet someone that is intelligent and has common sense, strange how those two traits don't go hand in hand! He should be family oriented and be open to at least meeting the right person for a long term relationship. He should like children, should have an adventurous side, and be spontaneous. He should have a good understanding that any relationship requires work but it shouldn't feel like work in the beginning. He should know in a healthy relationship there is a You, Me, and Us. It all depends on the person, but typically I would meet for coffee and if we both felt we should have a "real" first date then we might plan something like dinner or something adventurous to do. We could always go to a museum or park.

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