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Shirley, 42

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About Me

I’m a single mom of ***& 5 y/o). My schedule is tight because I am a full time mom with a career. I am kid free every other weekend but I do have some flexibility during the week. Meeting another single parent would be ideal as he could probably relate better to my situation but I won’t rule out someone without kids; someone who can eventually see my kids as a gift not a hindrance.**Please include your photo (preferable one w/out sunglasses). How else are we to determine that initial attraction if photos aren’t included. I've posted mine. I WON'T RESPOND IF YOU DON'T HAVE A PHOTO.My ideal partner—I am partial to tall men, ***yrs old. Prefer a man with some meat on his bones. Ok if they have kids, MUST be ok that I have kids, casual/social drinker is ok & NO DRUGS. Not looking for a long distance relationship - Also not looking for a sexting buddy - I want a mature relationship.I’m open minded to many things but you must be honest & sincere, ambitious (in life & career), compassionate & caring towards family, people in general and animals. And last but not least a sense of humor. For a first date, something simple like a coffee shop, drinks at a restaurant, etc…I enjoy watching most sports (especially football).; stock car races. And of course the standard likes: romantic dinners for two at a cozy restaurant or at home, finding a secluded place to watch the sunset with that special someone, trips out of town for a romantic get-away, or just snuggling close on the couch.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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