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Flora, 41
United States, Virginia, Arlington

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About Me

I prefer to date Asian men but am open to other ethnicities. I am friendly and outgoing. My friends say I'm one of the most upbeat people they know. Nevaeh is heaven spelled backwards. Lumiere is French for Light. I enjoy natural health and try to steer my clients into taking more control over their health. I have a degree in natural health. I am working hard to save money and have my own healing practice so I can see clients all day. I'm a former animal rescuer and currently have several cats. All were rescued. I like movies, especially action, comedy and sci fi. I like walking on the beach. I like going to flea markets and browsing. I like candles and candle light. I love traveling. I went to Japan in February ***. I would love to see other countries. I like anything to do with Asia.I'm looking for someone relatively NORMAL. I do not expect perfection...just no lazy bums, no psychos and no control -freaks!I do have one comment though. I keep seeing mens profiles stating they don't want any drama. What exactly is drama? Life? Human problems? I guess if you aren't having any drama whatsoever, you must be a buddhist monk! One gentleman who claimed to be living a peaceful drama free life actually had a boatload of drama with the ex wife and the kids shared custody issues. So do I have drama? I have no idea!!! Depends on your definition! What I like for a first date is lunch or dinner. It doesn't have to be fancy, just as long as we get to have good conversation in order to get to know each other better. I like to finish the meal with a cup of tea or coffee or a glass of wine just so we can talk some more. If the date is going well, I love to walk on the beach especially in the moonlight and watch the waves crashing on the shore.I'm flexible, so as long as we both agree to something, its fine.Let me say one more thing: I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A ONE NIGHT STAND or a hook-up!!!lLet me repeat that... because some guys either can't read or don't believe it, based on how many keep asking me to meet for sex. I'm not interested in a hookup, casual sex or one night stand! please *** you want me to respond. Clicking on the favorite button works only part of the time for me to get any info.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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