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Patti, 46
United States, Michigan, Flint

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About Me

I'd like to start by explaining what "Looking for a Relationship" means to me: I've had many wonderful experiences meeting people the last couple years ~~ I have learned and know so much more about not only myself, my wants, needs and desires. Ultimately, I'd like to find the perfect man for me, but believe it will happen when it happens. There's no rush, although, if the right chemistry comes along tomorrow, I certainly would not let it escape me. If it doesn't appear until months down the road, then fine. There's also a possibility it will never come along, in which case, that would have to be fine, too! :-) ~ Cliffs Notes© of Me ~I have a penchant for deep, brown eyes and beautiful smiles. I prefer a good non-fiction or music over TV. I prefer dresses over jeans (although seems I wear a lot of jeans with stilettos). I hate sushi, but love Godiva G Collection. I'm no one's moral compass but my own. I'm intolerant of those who aren't tolerant. I hate yard work, but I'll happily house clean. I used to be pensive, now I'm not so sure. I've never been to Starbucks. I don't need my soul saved. I'm perfectly happy with my current after-life plan. I know how to keep a secret. I lean to the left, and a little to the right, but am not a member of any political party. I live in the world, not merely on it. Big spiders and other big creepy crawlers creep me out. I prefer a comfortable silence over idle chit-chat. I'd rather receive a kiss than a dozen red roses, and I'd rather give the perfect gift than something un-thought-out. I smell good on purpose; and a million other tiny little things that would just clutter up this corner of cyber-space, and still wouldn't really describe "who" I am or what I am all about. That's what the "getting to know you" stage of this is all about (isn't it?????)~ Cliffs Notes© of Him ~I don't have a 40 mile long list of traits that the hypothetical "Mr. Right For Me" possesses. There are a few things written in stone: 1.) He knows the difference between 'then' and 'than,' or 'they're' 'their' and 'there' 3.) He has been single long enough to know that online is a human buffet but no longer wishes to try every item. It's all about "who" he is, and "who" he'd like to become on his continuous life journey 4.) Physical activity/cares about appearance and health is part of my everyday life ~ if motivation is absent and lazing around important, we would not be a good match. I'm healthy and enjoy active lifestyles. I need that in a romantic partner. I see no logical reason to start something with someone that is destined to end due to something as important as life-style preferences. Finally ~ he knows how to use *** to complement his life, not replace it.Hope you can relate! If so, would love to hear from you. Happy fishing to all! I think a first meeting should be kept simple since it is based on discovery of mutual attraction/connection. Perhaps someplace casual and comfortable for a drink and/or appetizer to talk and see if we share a connection that will lead to a real date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Traveling Video Games Adult Documentary Sport Rodeo Collecting
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