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Gail, 37
United States, Florida, Lakeland

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I am an intelligent, financially independent/secure female looking for my match. I am an honest, fun, loyal, caring, dependable woman who seeks the same in a man. I enjoy several activities and am pretty much up for trying anything new and welcome all new experiences. I just want to have fun, laugh and live life to the fullest.I enjoy traveling, outdoor activities, theater, trying new restaurants, ANYTHING and EVERYTHING to do with art/music (LOVE music except twangy country and hard core rap), or just hanging out or doing something new in the yard or to my house. I am not really into the bar/club scene unless it is one of the casual, hole in the wall places with some friends for a few drinks (not much of a drinker...but I do have to admit I enjoy a good glass, or two.... ok bottle of wine from time to time, hahaha). I am a fairly laid back person who loves to laugh and find humor in everyday life (I am always laughing, and often at myself, but hey, I crack myself up sometimes and it helps get through even the most difficult times/situations).....oh, and I have to say I can be very witty/playful/quirky at times with the right person and seem to get along best with others that are this way too. Throw in some witty banter or a friendly debate, and even better! I can be a girly girl, but I can also be the girl who can throw on a pair of jeans and a baseball cap and go.....well, maybe just a little makeup, hahaha. I also can be a very social person in that I can talk to anyone, anytime, anywhere about anything and adapt well to all situations, however, on the flip side, I can sometimes be an introvert in that I like spending time alone or just one on one time with someone. I also want to do more traveling at this point in my life and would love to find someone that wants to do the same and have some new adventures!Above all else, I am a very open and honest person who believes communication is number one in a relationship. I would like to find someone that is my best friend that I can share anything with and hope they feel they can share anything with me. I must also mention that I have a great family that I am very close to and when we get together, it is always a blast! It would be nice to find someone who is close with their family/friends."Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." — Dr. Seuss A perfect first date can be a lot of different things but I find that it is best to first meet up for a drink or two getting a chance to talk face to face. I just feel that the first "meeting" should be in a comfortable setting for both parties where you can be yourself and talk and learn more about each other to see if you click and/or have a connection. If you do, you can continue on or plan a "real" first date, and if not, you can simply part ways or maybe have a new friend.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Comedy Sci-Fi Western
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  • Jaime from Lakeland | Woman | 36 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I did mean what I said in the "headline" RE: not being intersested in any kind of casual encounter. I am interested in meeting other people who are down to earth(or close to it- lol), who are sincere and honest, have a good sense of humor, true family values & morals and hopefully still believe in love and romance(at least a little). I'm hoping to meet other people like this, who share some of the same traits & values as me. *****Just an update here, regarding HONESTY, to me it is hands down one of the most important things to value in a partner & it most definitely needs to be there whole heartedly from both people. If you can't be honest with each other, than you can't trust each other. Maybe I'm missing something- but if so, you can skip my profile! Pretty sure- solid friendships & relationships are built on honesty & trust....take it or leave it. Decide if you'll make a stand- I know once I do, I'm there by your side through it all, no doubt about it. I also want to be clear about why I'm on this sight(seems to be a question I'm asked often). I can tell you that I'm here because I would LIKE to meet someone to become friends/connect with through similar interests, values, being able to have an intellectual conversation with ;-), etc...However, I am NOT on here because I NEED to have a man in my life....I love and appreciate my life the way that it is. I am head over heels in love with my amazing children, am blessed with some of the BEST friends anyone could ask for and a family that equally ROCKS- lmao...ok maybe got a little carried away there!!!!On a serious note though, hopefully most of the people(or a few- hahaha) will understand this! I love the gorgeous weather we get here & whenever possible you can find me spending time at the beach, going for walks, packing up a picnic & I love roller coasters, but can chill on the kiddie rides too(I have a 6 year old daughter & 7 year old son- they are the most amazing kids & I am so lucky!) I love having family & friends over for bbq's & to hang out with. On the flip side, every once in awhile(read as: once a year) I love to have a reason to pamper myself for a change, get dressed up from head to toe & go out to an eloquent restaurant or wine tasting. What can I say, I'm flexible!! :-) For the most part you will find me in very casual clothing & 99% of the time I'm a flip flop kinda girl! I also love going out to catch a great movie once in awhile or out for dinner, drinks or occasionally maybe even dancing- woot woot- lol! Who wouldn't love a crazy, fun night out once in awhile?! I think it's a great thing every now and then. I'm just definately not used too, or interested in staying out all night anymore(I'm lucky if I make it 'till 11:30pm hahaha). I can be just as happy and content being at home in the evenings. If things go well on meetville maybe I will find the right person to start spending my evenings with. Someone who would enjoy cuddling up on the couch watching(Bones, Criminal Minds, Breaking Bad, SVU, The Following) & horror movies(not the horrible, cheesy, chainsaw massacre kind either- I'm talking good horror movies, lol) with me!There is a lot more to learn about me- things that I wouldn't post on a dating sight(I've been kinda shocked at the way some people just let it all "hang out" right away- lol) If we connect, that's when I feel we'll start to learn more about each other! Something casual like meeting somewhere for coffee or a drink, so we can have a chance to talk in person & see if we "click". Let's keep it simple!

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  • Carole from Lakeland | Woman | 36 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    This is sad that I feel the need to add this, but I really try to respond to all messages. It's called being polite. If I tell you I'm not interested or you're not my type, i'd appreciate if you don't argue, ask me why, or insult me. I've had all of that happen. I'm not totally superficial but you know as well as I do that if there's no immediate attraction it's a waste of time. I won't waste yours so I expect the same in return. Also, if you send me something crude I'm not justifying it with a response. This thing just keeps getting longer & longer but I've realized there are a lot of stupid *** that need things spelled out for them.First, I'm mobile only, so i can't see the lets chat thing. You'll have message me if you want to talk. I'm not your average girl, or so I've been told. I'm outgoing, outspoken, & fun. I basically have no brain to mouth filter so no subject is off limits. I love meeting & learning about new people, whether for friendship or more. I tend to get along better with guys & have more male than female friends. I don't deal well with drama, liars, jealousy, or cattiness. About a year ago I decided to make a lifestyle change, to lose weight, workout, & be as healthy as possible. These things are very important to me & are a big part of who I am. While I'm not yet where I want to be, I'm working hard daily to get there. I'd love to find someone that feels the same way. I'm kind of picky as far as what I like. Maybe not so much picky as I definitely have a type. I prefer taller guys, since I'm short 5'8 & up is good. I usually prefer average, thin, or athletic builds, dark hair, & light eyes. Not that any of that is set in stone, but that's what I find myself most attracted to. Also, I'm not racist, but I'm only attracted to white guys. I'd also like to find someone ***years in age as me. Too young or too old, I just don't think we'd have as much on common. I'm adding this to save some time since meetville really doesn't give you a place to put what you're attracted to. Sorry if I offend anyone. Not that guys actually read these. =) I think a first date should be short & casual. Basically enough time to figure out if we get along & have things in common, or are interested in each other. If things go well, hanging out longer should be an option. Movies are a terrible first date because you can't talk & get to know one another. Plus if I want to watch a movie I'd rather be on a comfy couch with my feet up & a blanket. I'd prefer a drink, something light & easy.

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  • Marcy from Lakeland | Woman | 37 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    mother of 2 childrenlove to oil paint when i have the timei like listenin to the oldies bluegrass n spanish :) im not ready for anything serious just for some companionship, someone to go out n have a drink with or whatever with the hopes it may turn into something more serious down the road. im not into to being controlled so if your controlling move on down the lineif u respect me i respect you, i believe in honesty and loyaltyi love Jesus and you should too or we probably wont be a good match."Set me as a seal upon your heart, as a seal upon your arm; for love is strong as death, passion fierce as the grave. Its flashes are flashes of fire, a raging flame. Many waters cannot quench love, neither can floods drown it. If one offered for love all the wealth of his house, it would be utterly scorned."-7 i think a picnic would be cool :p

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