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Tonya, 51

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About Me

Hi! My name is Tonya. I am widowed other african woman with kids from United States, Kentucky, Georgetown. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    African

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Juana

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    About me: I recently got out of a 7 year relationship/engagement in which our vast differences couldn't be overcome; needless to say I've certainly realized the importance of moral compatibility and mutual respect. I did get a beautiful daughter out of the experience who is now 5 and I firmly believe that things happen for a reason, even though understanding that reason may come much later! I work f/t, am a single mother, and am in graduate school, however, I wouldn't mind meeting somebody that sparks my interest enough to occupy what little free time I have. And if you think burning jello is sexy, than I'm your girl ;-) I am very intimidated to put myself out there in this fashion, as this is my first go around with online dating but I am trying to be a bit more adventurous lol. I would much rather meet somebody in person but supposedly this is the new way to meet others/socialize so I'm receptive, albeit still cautious. I do have some deal breakers: criminal record, drug user, smoker (even the occasional "puff"-- it's a total turn off!), lack of license/transportation, and if you have no goals or a career, I'm not going to be interested. My biggest pet peeve in communication is an error in spelling. I also feel that recent pictures are important; I am not shallow however I've met a couple of people who look dramatically different in person which just irks me! Lol Lastly, I have no problem being alone, but I have realized that I definitely miss having a connection with somebody, text messages that make me smile, and the anticipation of seeing them. Hmm. Amusement park. Beach at night. Sox game. Concert. I like all kinds of music but country is my favorite. I'm a sucker for good conversation and I'm pretty low-frills.I have always been the one to coordinate plans so it would be awesome to be surprised for once! : )

  • Blanche

    Online

    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Back on this site after a short break from it! Will keep this short and sweet :) I'm currently working as a Medical Assistant and looking forward to starting school again in the fall to get my Associates Degree as a Medical Lab Tech. Not into clubbing, Ive really outgrown that. not a huge fan of going out to the bars lately, but do enjoy going out to a local bar here and there, especially outdoor bars when the weather is nice! As for my taste in music, I can really listen to everything, but really a huge fan of 80's and 90's..especially old school rap.. and a huge country fan. well, thats all Ive got for now, if you want to know anything, just ask. I would also like to comment on my "separated" status..it means just that. divorce is being worked on. there is no ex drama and we have both moved on with our lives. figured i would put it out there since the question usually comes up about it anyway. Not sure what to expect from this..odds are I wont find "Mr Right" on here, but figure its worth a shot anyway. Since I listed things about me, here is what I look for in you: great sense of humor, family oriented, have a job, have a car, know when to be serious and when to let loose. there is a time and place for everything. can go out and have fun as well as enjoy a quiet night in, must be able to communicate, as without communication, you pretty much have nothing. A wise woman once told me, that nothing in this life is promised forever. sometimes things shatter..some pieces should be picked up..and some should be left as they are. and only YOU know how to tell the difference between what stays behind...and what comes along for the journey. A first date is hard to plan as everyone is different. Really depends on how the conversation goes and what you both feel like doing. I do prefer to keep a first date/meeting simple..a drink or 2 and see where it goes from there.

  • Vicki

    Online

    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    Well the singles pool seems to be getting smaller and smaller these days. I'm watching all my friends getting married, so I figure I better get on the ball before I end up the spinster cat lady sitting on my front porch yelling at the neighborhood kids for walking on my grass. So, on behalf of the kids in my neighborhood help me help them with the spinster cat lady prevention program.This online dating thing is a crap shoot not to mention exhausting. You would think it would be easy; here's what I'm looking for here's what you're looking for, here are my interests here are your interests, lets see if we connect, and hey while you're at it here's a picture... Seems pretty simple yet it's far from it. *** spend a majority of the time weeding through the BS, which seems to be waist deep. I've kind of given up having any expectations when it comes to online dating. I keep encountering the same types of guys. Either way I feel like I have wasted a lot of time on people who weren't worthy of any it.I haven't abandoned all hope just yet. I still believe I have a happily ever after waiting for me, it's just the matter of when I find it or if online is even where I'm going to find it.I have a lot to offer in a relationship. I'm honest, loyal, loving, caring... and I can cook. I expect the same in return from a potential partner.. minus the cooking, I would be cool if you just did the dishes...unless we're cooking on the grill in which case it's all yours...But with those things also comes the part of me that isn't going to take any B.S. from anyone, that doesn't mean I'm rude or mean. It just means I will call you out on something that I don't think is right or something that I'm not comfortable with. I cannot stress this enough honesty is mandatory. I get it, this is online it's easy to fudge the facts hidden by a computer screen, but I respect the truth over finding out I have been lied to.. and I'm pretty smart so I figure stuff out pretty easily. I love a good board game, even a good video game, and I will lose all concept of time playing candy crush, but playing games when it comes to dating is not something I want anything to do with. I'm too old for that nonsense and can only hope you are too. I also realize a lot of people utilize this site out of boredom and nothing more and that's fine. I, however don't have time to entertain you. I'm busy, I have to budget my time wisely which is why using an online dating site makes sense. But I will make all the time in the world if I feel something or someone is important enough.I stand by quality over quantity. I could get a hundred messages a day but I'm just looking for that "one" message that makes me want to delete this profile for good. I like old school..you plan the date.. as long it's not something extreme like mountain climbing or sky diving. I refuse to do anything on a date that I have previously seen in a Mountain Dew commercial.

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