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ViolaOffline
Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 48-58
I love to do anything outdoors-go to the beach-to jazz festivals-camping-Nascar-to the mountains. I love to laugh and just have fun. I was in a really great relationship and I want that again. I can't stand the thought that I won't have that again..A best friend, a companion. I'm at the age where my kids are grown and I've done my part which I absolutely loved, but they are doing they're own thing now-not hanging out with Mom. I just want to have fun, maybe do some traveling. I actually like a lot of different kinds of music-country, old rock, jazz, love Bob Seger and The Eagles, Eric Clapton, AC/DC(showing my age now). The guys on this site-or maybe all guys in general-seem to have this problem with drama-I don't think I'm a high drama person-I'm pretty laid back-it's all small stuff, right? I have to admit that I was an online dating snob and thought only losers had to date online and thought my soulmate was magically going to appear like in the movies-I have since learned differently-where do you meet people if you don't hang out in bars-so I stand corrected.***So now I have been on here for about a month and have had quite a few dates and lots of chats and I know what I don't want and please keep on fishin if you are one of these! I don't want someone who is not yet divorced; someone who wants to be FWB; someone who wants to send me naked pics before I have even met you and why do you have these pics of yourself in your phone anyway???; someone who doesn't open the door for me-always; someone who just talks about how much money he has-just not my thing-I'm into who you are not what you have. Don't get me wrong, I think this site is great and have met some really great guys, but like the site says-there are Plenty of Fish in the sea so please move on if you fit any of the descriptions above. Happy fishing!!! I think our first date should be short and sweet-maybe meet for a drink-we'll both know pretty quickly whether there's that "spark". I'm a huge believer in chemistry-either we have it or we don't-period-so I don't think we should waste each other's time if we aren't "feeling it".
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BridgettOffline
Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 51-61
I’m seeking balance in my life.I have a wonderful career, a great family, a close circle of friends I can depend on and I wake up happy each morning. So what am I missing? A companion. A great guy who has …..*A sharp wit to keep me laughing. * A love for music so we can burst into song on a car trip or check out some of my friends performing around town. * Spring in his step so we can do the happy dance together. * Youthful exuberance to match mine. * A keen intellect to remember what I’ve forgotten during a ‘menopausal/blonde/it’s been a really long day’ moment. * An adventuresome spirit because darn it, it’s time we had some fun!* Optimism because the doom and gloom attitude is very unhealthy.* An open mind... don't worry, your brain won't fall out.* Patience for when I have to put in crazy hours for an event or deadline.* Decent cooking skills so we don’t starve during previously stated crazy hours for an event or deadline. *The most important thing is integrity, because with that, trust and a good foundation begins.Now.... as for me.....* I am healthy, happy , and I just LOVE to laugh.* I evaluate people by their character, not by their ethnicity.* I don't relate well to men who have to have their way all of the time. We can meet in the middle like intelligent adults.* I find that self confidence is very attractive.* I'm a real snuggle bug and very affectionate.* I'm optimistic 99% of the time.* I have degrees in fine arts AND accounting. Both sides of my brain work well together.* I am blessed to have a beautiful studio and art gallery. Thus the reason for events and deadlines mentioned earlier.I'm a happy woman who wants to share her life with a happy man....... simple as that. surprise me!
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ShelbyOffline
Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 51-61
I hold the dichotomy: adrenaline rushes and meditative breathing; slice of pizza and a full-bodied red; Grateful Dead and Yo Yo Ma;; string theory and string cheese; physicality and spirituality. Can do corporate and bohemian. Life is how we frame it! Laughter is key. At ourselves, at our predicaments, at the joy in life. Or, perhaps, I am speaking of a sense of humor about it all.Looking for someone with a passion for life, accepting but not complacent about our imperfect offerings, a sense of abiding curiosity and well-founded confidence that is balanced with the knowledge that growth is a must. I believe (hope?) that I share these traits. "Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible."Dalai Lama"Sometimes you get shown the light in the strangest of places if you look at right."Hunter/Garcia Seriously? Not bumper cars, we will save that for a third date. Definitely not a movie, no opportunity to talk. A dinner party with your friends, maybe 4th date (we can witness each other in a social context). How about a long walk on a beach, at sunset.-- with a glass of champagne. Phew. I finally figured out the perfect first date.And now I see that this box is optional? Fine - Starbucks.