SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Cimone
Online
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
Kind of tired of the people you meet that put their best foot 4ward only to find out later that was all they had. Be real and be yourself. I believe that you can tell pretty much right away when meeting someone if there's a connection or not. Mentally and physically. I'm not a gym rat but I do workout and take care of myself. I want that in the person I meet as well. I love all kinds of music, except rap and jazz, and I go 2 as many shows as I can. Not a bar fly but will meet up with my friends from time to time. I enjoy getting on my Harley and letting the therapy begin. I don't watch a lot of tv but do like 2 kick back and watch a movie once in awhile. 2 and ***men is a riot and I like Frasier. I had to put my buddy (dog) down in Nov of ***. That 1 hurt. I can't have animals where I live now but I did find a shelter close by that let's me come and play with the dogs. Kid in a candy store :) I have a positive attitude and don't care to be around people who only want to drag you down with their negativity. I choose to be happy. Yes, it is a choice. I work a lot, mostly nights, which makes it difficult to meet people so here I am. If you want to meet, plz be true to your profile. Lying just doesn't make sense. I believe to make that connection with someone you have to be mentally and physically attracted to each other. If it's not there, it's not there and that's ok. You move on. Yup, had a few bad experiences already. What I'm looking for in a man is.....someone who's not smothering or controlling. Doesn't try and make me jealous of other woman and would prefer to make them jealous of me. Someone who's secure with themselves, trustworthy and has my back. I'm a kind, caring, passionate woman who tends to wear my heart on my sleeve. There's no guess work with me. I'm not the type that when asked "what's wrong" I say "nothing". That's where a lot of relationships go wrong. Also taking each other for granted and assuming they'll always be there is another reason I believe relationships go wrong. Not looking for that guy who's out for a conquest, another notch in his belt. Not a fan of liars and cheaters. So there it is :) Like I said, I believe you can tell pretty much right away when meeting someone if there's that connection or not. I'm not a fan of computer chatting. No time for it. I don't consider the first meeting a date. It's more of a meet n greet to see if it's there or not. If it's not neither person should take it personal. That's what this site is about. Not everyone you meet is gong to be the 1 for you. Yup, had a bad couple experiences. So I guess a first meet n greet would be somewhere we're both comfortable.
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Jayne
Online
Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
*****amended May 20, ***, Before reading ahead please note I have listed a few extra pounds,this does not mean 5 pounds people, so those of you who are writing to me and thinking I am thin I am not!!!! I am a bigger girl, and no I don't sit around eating bon bons all day I have had health issues that have caused weight gain yes!! I would like to be thinner and I am working on it but this is something I am doing for myself and in the meantime I am trying to embrace me and like myself !! Just wanted to be honest and not waste anyones time, I know we all have our preferences ! whew! glad to get that off my chest.. now you can read on if you like!! Thanks for stopping by! Like many of you out there it has taken me lots of courage, and a bottle of wine!kidding, to log on here!! I have been out of the dating scene for quite a while now and was waiting for the right time to jump back in! I realized I was putting my life on hold until some things in my life got back in order until I dated again but after losing my Mom and many other close friends, I came to a realization that life is way to short and if I waited until things in my life were perfect or the way I thought they should be I may never get back out there! So with the encouragement of my great friends I decided to give this a try. With the busy and hectic lives we all lead it is so much harder to meet people and I have many friends who have met and made nice friends through online dating. I am also very chatty, I love a great conversation and I can fit in with all groups of people and social settings you can pretty much take me anywhere and I will fit in and even make your crabbiest friend or relative laugh and smile!! lol!! I am looking for someone similar , someone who is easy going, funny, who is good at communicating and trustworthy, someone who is there through the good times and bad, someone who is independent, accepts my girls nights out!!! and of course I'll accept your guy nights, so important to have our own space too.. also looking for someone to make me a better person and vice versa..looking for my best friend and partner in crime! also we gotta really like each other, loving someone is easy, but liking someone can be a little harder!!!! I love hanging out with my friends, working out, going to the movies, concerts,traveling and exploring new places. It's great to plan things but I also can be very spontaneous. Since I've been out of the dating scene for a while and new to online dating, a first meeting for me would probably be meet for happy hour or coffee, something casual and simple and see how that goes. I am looking for friendship first and take it from there.I believe that it's important to be friends first! Looking forward to talking to you and good luck on your journey!!! Cheers! something simple and casual to start happy hour, coffee a great conversation, lets see if we click if so maybe something more adventurous on dates to follow!!
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Jodene
Online
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
"Nothing is perfect. Life is messy. Relationships are complex. Outcomes are uncertain. People are irrational." It is one of my favorite quotes. If you never take a chance, wonder what could be, or dare to step out of your comfort zone, you will never reach your potential and will forever stand in the shadow of complacency. My life is a healthy balance between brain power and happy hour ***with the emphasis on happy. Lawyer by day helps feed this Gemini's need for mental stimulation and a challenge. But like any good Gemini, when the buzzer rings, I shed any illusion conservative demeanor prone to most attorneys and reach for the most comfortable pair of jeans and t-shirt I can find. I think what makes me unique is the dichotomy of my person - from unconventional appearance and thoughts to conventional job - from knowledge seeker to mindless TV watcher. I can be outspoken but know when to back down [learned from the best - thanks dad]. I am quirky but playful and sexy, and have been told that my laugh is infectious and should be recorded as a ringtone. Not sure if that is good or bad. I try to make my aspirations come alive in 3-D and I have a penchant for the absurd. My nature is generous, sometimes sassy but I am always first in line to help of stand up for those who matter most in my world. I don't think you want to hear any of those stories just yet - and we can decide what will be a perfect first date for us when and if the time comes.