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Marisa
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Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
Prerequisites: Christian•Not Married•Not Separated (that's still MARRIED!) No shirtless pics (looking for a modest man)• No drinking/drunk pics (looking for a man with class & a grown up)• I am a hopeless romantic that wants very much to believe in true love and soulmates despite the fact that I am now ***or 29 for the 9th time as my sister and I prefer to say) and still have not found it...or it hasn't found me, whichever is correct. I thought I had a few times but I was sadly mistaken. Maybe it's not even about "soulmates," but rather two people wanting the same things, attracted to each other mentally, emotionally, and physically, and here is the important part... committed to stand by each other through lifes twists and turns, heartaches, and growing pains. But, I know of a few couples my parents included that were true blue soulmates... so I still believe. I am an independent woman and mother but not so independent that I don't realize that I would be so much better with a life partner. I want him to be my best friend and lover. Unfortunately for me, most of the men I hear from must only read that word "lover," and the rest of my profile is a complete blurrrrrrrrrrr..... Because, it has been my experience that most of the men that have asked me out from here are looking to hook up and nothing else. I am a little too grown up for that. I am after all...a lady. And I still believe that there are some gentlemen out there in the sea of fishies. It is my passion to work with survivors of trauma and eventually get into social policy. I am also a mother of five, yes five amazingly beautiful and fantastic children. If you are still reading this then you obviously did not freak out at the number five so I will disclose a little more info about my entourage. I have four daughters ages 19, 13,11, and 3, and a son who is 17. I share custody of my son and the next two girls. ( I was in a relationship with the oldest fours' father for nearly 13 years; that ended in ***And, my youngest is from a different father, she is primarily with me (I was with her father for 5 years). I'm saying this up front because the question, "are all your children from the same father?" is really tacky and I'd rather just avoid it all together. This way if you ask...I'll know you didn't bother to read my profile. I will not tolerate any form of abuse or ownership in any of my future relationships...been there, done that and I do not care to repeat the cycle. Two people who care about each other should never purposely hurt each other whether it's with words or actions. I've been cheated on and I know how badly that hurts. I have never nor would I ever cheat on someone. I have never understood why people even bother to get into a relationship if they are still wanting to sleep around or date other people. Also, I am not into open relationships... so please do not ask me out if this is something you fantasize about or God help you...practice. I'm completely disgusted by it. Eventually after I am finished with school which will be spring of ***, I would like to keep my options open to either moving somewhere more beautiful with water and mountains preferably or settling into the country somewhere here in Oz. I am a country girl at heart and always will be. Then my mama (a single mom most of my life) moved us to the city... Both places are very much home to me. I have family in both Indy and Pa., but most are in Pa. I do miss it there. My daddy died when I was almost 4. He and my mama were soulmates... in fact she did not find love again until 3 years ago. I sincerely pray to God that I am not a senior citizen before I find my true love. I would like to find a man who takes the lead with our relationship. I do believe men and women are especially created to fill certain roles. I want a man who knows how to lead without controlling. I want and require a man who will adore me. I like a lot of attention and I'll let you know if I'm not getting enough or I'll simply lose interest. Any place that we can interact and get to know each other better is fine. Some things I like are nice restaurants, cafes, hole in the wall diners, Final Fridays, First Fridays, concerts, the zoos, museums, anything outdoors, extreme sports, movies (but not on the first couple dates), church, FLYING, and amusement parks.
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Lucy
Online
Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 34-44
Here I am again haha. It's hard to find the right kinda guy here in S.B. especially at my age who is looking for the same things, but I'm willing to give this another try. I am a fun, loving, outgoing (most of the time), nurturing, independent woman. I have been in the E.C.E. field for 13 years and love what I do, even when it's quite challenging at times. I enjoy laying low, as well as having fun with family and friends. I am a music lover, as well as going to concerts, dancing, watching movies, getting out and about, and I enjoy spinning classes at the gym and working out. I also love eating bbq, sushi, chinese, just no red meat. I'm hoping to meet someone who has a fun sense of humor, outgoing, strong family and moral values, educated, loyal, and available. Please send me a message if you think we're compatible. Peace and Love Something simple in a public place
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Virgie
Online
Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
I'm back on here again LOL. I guess u have to put a full body shot of yourself first off or u won't even make it to the first date without him cancelling at the last minute. I'm not one to judge but seriously? Its a joke. Don't waste your time with me if you don't like your woman with a little extra weight. I'm a single mom with one son who is 9. I have a good job working in academics going on 16 years and attend college on a part time basis. I enjoy music very much - mostly anything except rap. I will admit, I'm addicted to a few games on ***'m a General Hospital junkie.I enjoy spending time with friends and family and I love to travel. Anything else you would like to know, just ask! (nothing dirty please) :) We could meet for drinks, talk and see how things go.