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AristaOffline
Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
I am at a place in my life where I feel I could offer what I expect out of a relationship. I am finding that I am either pickier than I believed I was or there are less people out there now that I relate to. I bore easily in situations in which I don't feel inspired to grow and learn as a person. It's not a piece of cake to maintain my interest but i think it would come effortless to the right person. What do I offer? I am typically quite honest. I know when the truth hurts and when to hold my tongue but know that trust is key in any respectful relationship. I smile and laugh more than most. I am pretty low maintenance. Kids seem to love me and I think that comes from my playful spirit. I am open to new things. I have a lot of things I enjoy doing but I can usually have fun doing anything. Last but not least (though I am sure there are more) I work daily to grow as a person. Of course I am not perfect but I can admit when I am wrong and I do my best to get better each day.My ideal person would be one who considers himself above average intelligence. Someone who also enjoys reading. Someone who loves many types of music and believes life comes with a soundtrack. Not in a cheesy way but the way the music inspires memory and lights a thought in your heart, sometimes forcing you to think in new ways. He would consider his sense of humor to be that of wit and sarcasm. He is boldly confident but with an air of boyish charm. The kind of person who appreciates learning and analyzing things. He loves food and isn't a picky eater. Proper grammar is a definite bonus. As a past smoker, I understand if you smoke but you're going to have to sell me on why you're so awesome, I should overlook it. I also used to drink and now I don't. I give a big hurrah to those who drink but if it's something you do on a regular basis, especially to excess, it's a deal breaker for me. I don't expect anyone to change to meet my expectations. I know there are others out there whose ideas match my own. While I expect to differ on many things or ideas, it's important to me to find someone I enjoy spending time with doing little to nothing, with similar thoughts, ideas, hobbies and passions. I don't think that's asking too much. Expecting someone to change would be...I am quite comfortable spending time by myself but I would love to find someone who can maintain my interest. When I find someone I really enjoy, I like to see them as much as possible. I am not the woman to throw herself casually into anything. I think it's time for someone to sweep me off my feet. I am not going to ask myself out...Don't guys pursue women anymore? I believe pretty strongly that the guy should plan the date. I'm not sure if that's sheer old fashionedness or just a belief that a guy can put in some work to woo a girl. It may suck to plan a date you're afraid she won't like, but I promise not to complain since I put you up to the task. I also think that after we meet, the guy should probably pick her up as well. I really would be open to most things. Dinner, coffee, frisbee golf, a walk, a game, fishing, etc. I would rather be creative than cliche but it's really all about who you are as a person.
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NakishaOffline
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
Looking for the right guy after 20 years with my kids dad. Must be kid friendly and must be a Christian. I will send pictures if I find a match but because of my career, it wouldn't be appropriate to post here.I like baseball, theatre, and musicals. I am not a big fan of music unless it is Christian or Soundtracks. I want someone who is as strong as I am, who can pay their own bills, who can strive for more in life than the daily routine. With that said, I don't live outside the box so I need someone who conforms to the box but can pull me outside it once in awhile. I love to communicate...and will need to do so often. I find intelligence very appealing so stimulate my brain and you may have me hooked. I started back at the Y about 6 weeks ago and I go regularly. Getting back into shape is a priority so if you like to work out, maybe we can do that together too. So, what do you like and what do you expect out of a relationship? Be honest please because that is the only way to know for sure if long term is a possibility. Be creative. If I have to give you a hint I would say: I like dinner and movies but that is more for later on. I love baseball...and I have never been to a professional football game. Hockey and Nascar work too. (Not a basketball fan...but you could try to change that)I like theatres too. I love the fact that they are acting for me...You will likely see the two sides of me at these events.
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MadelynnOffline
Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 37-47
I love dancing going out and having a couple drinks. I love watching football and basketball. After being in a dedicated and serious relationship, I do not know how to be single. Open to a new relationship.