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About Me

Hi! My name is Dessie. I am african woman without kids from United States, Texas, Beaumont. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    African

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Nita

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I don't clearly fit into any one stereotype. I'm edgy yet a softie for animals, children and charitable causes. I enjoy dressing professionally, femininely and conservatively as much as I enjoy my tattoos displayed in T-shirts when I'm out of the office and more casual (yes, there is a half-sleeve, ankle tattoos, shoulders and wrist ink involved). I'm a trial lawyer but refuse to watch legal primetime series because we aren't nearly as cool as TV lawyers though I still love what I do. I'm a fan of a great pair of heels and handbags, reading the classics, my Nook and exotic and fast cars. I can hold my own in a conversation regarding most topics but have yet to master the rules and regs of football plays and basketball albeit I try to make as many games as I can. Bizarre, I know.I'm definitely not a needy person and expect to meet someone that not only appreciates that quality but understands that there is a healthy medium between being attached to me like lint or never seeing me at all. I don't play the jealousy game and don't have the time, desire or interest in keeping tabs on anyone I'm dating or having them keep tabs on me. I believe the healthiest relationships are built on honesty, trust, respect and security in who you are and what you have been lucky to experience with someone else. I would rather be laughing and enjoying the simple pleasures in life than arguing about nuances. What you see is what you get- please don't think you can change me and I would never fall in love with someone with the express intent to try and change them. I expect that unconditional love in return. I was briefly married (about ***years) and divorced for a couple of years. Aside from the pets that I inherited in the divorce, there is no other baggage- no children, no continued communication and no shared holidays! I can honestly state that I've never been happier and am looking at this point in my life for a meaningful relationship that leaves me laughing and longing to spend time with someone or miss him when we're apart. I do believe in open communication and I can respect healthy differences of opinion over being judgmental and disparaging to anyone. Rudeness is a total turn-off and thoughtfulness and kindness unfortunately, have become UNDER-rated qualities in today's world. I'm still going to be a sucker for chivalry and romance and think it's one of the most important aspects of any relationship from the outset throughout its progression. I am looking to fall in love as opposed to just loving and passion, chemistry and friendship are non-negotiables. Working out and staying physically fit is always a component to my lifestyle whether it involves running, the gym or kickboxing several times a week. I view waking up early as one of the few sacrifices I'm making at this point in my life and perhaps the one most worthwhile to get a workout in before starting the rest of my day. I don't lie about my age, height or appearance so please don't mislead me about yours. I do enjoy dining out with friends and being in the outdoors when I'm not at the office. My mantra has always been to work hard, sacrifice when necessary, enjoy the successes and opportunities that materialize as a result but to always give back to community, charity and those less fortunate in any and all circumstances. Despite my profession, I'm actually pretty laid back, have a penchant for cooking, cozy movie nights, summer BBQs, road trips and beach days and am a music junkie that's determined to one day learn guitar. I'm THAT girl that's dancing around my home, singing along to the Ipod docked and playing and twirling random pets in the air because it's moments like those that make me chuckle...that will always be one of them. I'm blessed with great friends and a big, Italian family. I adore my niece and nephews and am the coolest Aunt on the planet (as they love reminding me). That's one of the best compliments I will always cherish. Well...I'm going to defer to the gentlemen out there because I would hope I'm not doing anything for a first date but enjoying the plans that were thought of by the guy I'm meeting.

  • Tracie

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    **** Please don't message me if you don't have a photo of yourself, or anything written in your profile. I feel like I've taken a bit of time to describe myself - I would hope you can do the same. Also, please don't send me one-liners, or things that suggest you're looking for a random one-night fling. Not for me! ***Hi there!I've been here in the DC area for almost ten years. I have a great job - a wonderful circle of friends and even though I've lived here as long as I have, I can still find new and fun things to do! I would describe myself as fun, sarcastic at times - and passionate about the things I love. I love to laugh. Usually I'm laughing at myself. Some of my favorite things include traveling abroad (I have been to many countries, but there is still so much more to see) I would love to put together a trip to New Zealand or South Africa this year. UPDATE: This is not going so well. The Weather was amazing! I will certainly keep these other plans on the docket for the future.I love to snow ski. Now I can't go one season without getting out to the Rockies. East Coast skiing just doesn't do it for me.I very much enjoy my yoga classes and jogging several times a week. I've recently picked up pilates and it's totally kicking my butt - in a good way. I used to ride horses through college and then professionally, (hunter-jumper) though I seldom have time now. I can still coach and try to squeeze in a lesson and some time in the arena every now and then. Spending time with friends is always important so as to catch up with one another, share life lessons and of course gossip ;) I love wine tasting and trying out new restaurants in the area. I also know how to relax very well and own several cute pairs of pjs that get put to good use on the weekends. Fall is finally upon us and I'm really excited because it's my favorite time of year. I'm dying for the weather to really cool down because I can't wait to break out my sweaters and boots. I much prefer the cold over the hot weather, hence my itch to head up to the mountains and ski. (see para 3).Family is very important to me and I try never to break promises. Friends tell me I'm a great to have around, because I'm very loyal and kind. I'm much more of a relationship person than a dating kind of person. I'm definitely looking for a great relationship - someone who can be a fantastic and loyal friend and partner. My biggest love language is "acts of service," so if you are familiar with the love languages, you probably know what that means ;) I Also enjoy "quality time" and "physical touch." The love languages are important keys to any relationship! What are yours? So what am I looking for? I'm looking for someone that has good values, treats others the way they would want to be treated - and loves God. I don't expect you to be a religious person or go to church every Sunday, but I'm definitely a believer and I would hope that my partner is as well. I grew up Catholic, but I am open and welcoming of all religions. To be truthful, I really only go to church on Christmas and Easter - and maybe Ash Wednesday, (shh, don't tell my mom) but I do love my faith - and I'd like to find someone who cares about theirs as well.MUST LOVE KIDS AND DOGS! I have two dogs, and would definitely love to have a family someday, so if you consider yourself one of those guys that never sees yourself having kids, I'm definitely not the one for you. ...and to sum it up, I'm really just looking for a partner that can be my best friend. Someone who will laugh with me, is not afraid to cry with me - and someone to be vulnerable with. If you consider yourself to be loyal, a great listener, a good friend and ready for a real relationship. (NO GAMES!) Please, get in touch! My idea of a great first date might include a trip to a local winery for a tasting, some great music, a picnic and a little star gazing.This would be after an initial meet-up of course ;)

  • Abby

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Looking for a honest FRIEND STOP ask yourself- HOW would you want your sister,daughter, mother, niece, aunt to be treated...then proceedFRIENDS first! I don't want to end up in a tote!- I found the train is only 40 min! I can relocate anywhere though :0) Please- all I ask is that you please don't hurt me, don't lie or deceive me,don't ask me to open up to you IF you aren't capable of it yourself. have character be a MANI have determined that what I write here doesn't MATTER- NO one READS THE WORDS, more to the point NO ONE GETS THE MEANING behind the words..its a waste of time, and ALL the effort I have put into my "profile"***not to be rude or anything but I don't sit here waiting for an *** is A LOT more than just appearance that matters,I was NOT here for attention, only hoping to find the attention of ONE J I am a dam good woman - never married, no children,because I was waiting for MY oneI am kind,compassionate,empathetic,sweet, affectionate, fun,sarcastic, strong willed,spoiled,&straight forwardexhausted from ALL the games people play -deleting the profile- creating new ones -amazing the lengths people go to deceive -IF only all that manipulating and calculating was for a good cause *** so many of us probably would be in fulfilling relationships* I'm sorry but if we meet and begin a friendship I am NOT going to pull my profile prematurely..You don't have to delete your profile immediately this IS a dating site,- so I expect that I may not be the only woman you speak with,( although that stinks!!!) but I can't get my hopes up if your talking to ten other women,LET ME KNOW I am the ONE! men have a huge misconception that I get all these messages...QUALITY is better but HONESTY is key! But once WE should decide we are EXCLUSIVE..I would be delighted too -freaking ecstatic! seeking a confident, employed, sweet, kind, interesting, SINCERE HONEST gentlemen,that like to keep IN shape & takes pride in his appearance, (clean shaven preferred) to basically become FRIENDS w/see what WE have in common and THEN -go from there....pretty basic start to any meeting between two people I have found men tend to write more about the person they would LIKE to be, than who they ARE, ultimately, making a REALISTIC relationship impossibleDating is general is tough enough, but meetville is like being sliced w razors & swimming in sea of lemonade I apologize for being so DIRECT ATTRACTION AND CHEMISTRY. Is what I want, make me laugh, that's a good startI'm seriously looking for someone who is sincere PLEASE no serial daters or con artists please waste your time somewhere else..I'm not buying IF just reading this profile is too much for you then obviously I'm going to be too much for you If I don't respond I am not interested, I am considerate I won't waste your time or mine, HELP I really don't want to be HERE- j!DO NOT TAKE MY PICTURES FROM HERE-PRIVACY NOTICE: Warning - any person and/or ***/or Agent and/or Agency of any governmental structure including but not limited to the US Federal Government also using or monitoring/using this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including, but not limited to my photos, and/or the comments made about my photos or any other "picture" art posted on my profile. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action against me with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee , agent , student or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, and the violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. UCC ***ALL RIGHTS RESERVED WITHOUT PREJUDICE "WE DON'T DETERMINE WHO WALKS INTO OUR LIVES...BUT ITS UP TO US WHO WE LET WALK AWAY" ( I just love that quote)TREAT OTHERS THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE TREATED...but ACTUALLY DO IT -RESPECT

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