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Mrsmiles
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Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: woman. In age: 27-47
Hi! My name is Mrsmiles. I am never married other caucasian man with kids from Glencoe, Missouri, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.
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Rueben
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Man. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: woman. In age: 34-44
Hi, I'm Brett...and since you're actually reading this then I suppose I've captured your attention (and I'd imagine you must like dogs)...now let's see if you make it to the end my sales pitch :)Let's get the bad out of the way first...weed out those of you who would probably want to strangle me within 20 minutes:I am outspoken...well, let's be honest...loud and blunt. I tend to be opinionated and regardless of whether I'm right or wrong I'm quite skilled at hijacking attention - I basically have no filter. I usually say what everyone else is thinking but know better not to say....whether or not this is a character flaw or comic genius is a matter of opinion I guess but at this point it's unlikely to change so you should probably proceed with caution :) I'm sarcastic and probably a little douchey sometimes...usually not on purpose but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't an a**hole occasionally....however:; I'm always aware of what I'm doing and don't consider myself to be mean or cruel...it's all in good fun. Still..if you're not amused by constant joking around and the occasional unpredictable mood swing we're probably not a match.I've been told (usually by family members and close friends) that whomever I end up with will need to be both patient and have a thick skin to put up with my crap.Under the blunt grizzly bear there does exist a softer, gentler man who knows how to treat a woman properly and is both loyal and honest...I'm old school when it comes to holding doors, paying for dinner, and (gasp) even defending the honor of my girl if necessary. I rarely have trouble getting along with new people so introducing me to your friends and family won't be scary, I promise...I have a decent sized family - I like to think I play the role of Uncle fairly well. I do like kids and have no problem if the person I'm with has them or if they like to have them.;- I really love living in WNY and have no plans on leaving.I own my home and have a stable, full-time job in the IT/security field as well as work for myself on the side in IT, automotive repair, and a variety of other things. I'm always involved in some sort of project and rarely sit around and do nothing. In other words - I work a lot; I have been working a lot for a long time and I don;t mind it. I can and will make time for someone but you'll need to have some patience and understanding that I have an erratic and busy schedule. That said...for the right someone I'll make time :)I enjoy both city life and the country - There is electricity and (sort of) running water there but it's fairly rustic...I'll eventually take it over and plan to always go there as much as possible - whomever I'm with should like the outdoors and be okay with a little bit of rustic living a few times per year.I have a dog (Max) who's 7 as of now ***and will likely always have one or more dogs. I've had cats in the past and don't mind them either; pets are an important part of my life and I'd hope that the woman I'm with would enjoy them too.I clean up okay when necessary but in my off time for the most part I'm usually wearing the same tattered old shirts with dopey one-liners on them.....I get my low--end at Target. You'll need to have a LOT of patience to be with me - I can be a very frustrating and stubborn man. I've been on my own since I was 18, I'm set in my ways and I resist change...but I'm willing to try, you just have to bear with me...fair warning though - if you want someone you can "fix" I'd recommend moving on, I'm beyond repair at this point ;)I definitely enjoy a good argument from time to time but do quickly lose patience when I have to spend hours prying what's wrong out of someone because they won't just say it. I prefer to discuss things and solve problems rather than let them go until they become catastrophes. I know that the concept of "; is a reality and that a certain amount of compromise and understanding is important in a strong relationship, but communication is the key and I can't read minds. I want someone who's not afraid to say what they feel. I'll extend the same courtesy - if I'm upset, you'll know.As I said before I am traditional in that I like to take care of the woman I'm with but there are limits...I'm not interested in someone who will be completely dependent on me in every way. Self-confidence and intelligence are very attractive me - more so than helplessness.I'm an open book - secrets and lies do nothing but complicate things; everyone has a past - good and bad - it defines us so why hide it? Ask me anything - but be sure you want to know the answer because I assure you, you'll get one.If none of the above has scared you too much (Really, it's a lot more bark than bite...I promise) then send me a message and we'll see where it goes. Coffee..Timmy Hos or something informal but public where we can actually talk. Hard to see if there's a connection sitting in a dark movie theater and not talking. We'll keep it simple...sadly, sometimes there just isn't chemistry when meeting in person so I prefer to make it easy on us both - I'll spring for the coffee, we'll chat and get to know each other a little and see how it goes.
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Elwyn
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Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45
I am a single dad with two kids twelve and ten. I own my company and between work and my kids I am very busy. I work hard so when I play I like to enjoy whatever it is that I am doing. I enjoy the outdoors, grilling in the backyard with a bonfire, listening to music, clasic rock and country mostly but I like all types. I enjoy camping and fishing and when I have the time I like to go hunting or get out of town for the weekend.I have dated several people from meetville and have had some great times so I am still here and looking to meet more fun and interesting people.I am looking for someone to have fun with. Someone who knows what they want and does not need someone to take care of them. Someone who enjoys the same things that I do. I like to be outdoors and stay active but I also enjoy hanging out at home with my kids playing a game or watching a movie. I know what I want out of life and I work hard every day to get there. I am looking for someone to share the good times and someone and that will be there for me when things don't go right. I believe in treating a lady like a lady, I don't think chivalry is dead. I am an honest and open person and if you want to know more please feel free to ask.I am not looking for a nanny, house keeper, cook, or a mom for my kids. They have a mom and I've got the rest of it covered. I'm not looking for someone to save or to take care of. If you don't have your life together I'm not going to fix it for you. We all have a little drama in our lives and it goes with the territory but a little is a little, too much is too much. I don't mind a long drive to meet someone. You never know where you will meet interesting people. If your pictures are from ten years ago please don't be offended if there is only one date. If I get a feeling that there is a lack of honesty don't expect anything serious. I'm big on communication and mutual effort in a relationship and I don't play the guessing game. If I don't know what you mean I will ask and not guess and I expect the same. High school is over. Somewhere comfortable for both of us and that we can talk and get to know each other. Don't worry ladies, I have never been on a date I haven't paid for.