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Pam, 68
United States, California, Livermore

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About Me

I would love to find a man who gets me — who makes me feel comfortable and doesn't bat an eyelash when I do something silly. Love should be unconditional, after all. I want an authentic relationship that's not based on some unattainable idea of perfection, but on acceptance, compromise and understanding. I'm not perfect, but I'd love to be treated as though I am. I want us to matter to each other — to interact and react with honesty. I'm looking for "my guy" — the first one I turn to with my thoughts, feelings and news, good and bad, knowing he'll get what I mean. He shares as freely as I do and knows that silence is hardly a safe option. I look forward to a relationship that begins with friendship, romance, and deepens to something more. I don't chase love and affection, nor should my partner. If it's not freely given, it's not real or worth having. I want to spend the rest of my life with him, in a place of love we make for ourselves with a strong romantic bond that we faithfully maintain.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Political views

    Middle of the Road

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues Classical Country Jazz Pop R&B Reggae Cooking Gardening Fitness / Gym Internet Browsing Music Reading Traveling Watching Movies American British French Greek Italian Japanese Mexican Spanish Action Adult Comedy Crime Documentary Drama History Mystery Romance Thriller American Football Baseball Pets Watching Sports
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