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JadwigaOnline
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
Okay, I know that the headline is totally dumb, but it's the only thing I could think of on a whim. I'm basically, a "normal" girl, without any skeltons in the closet looking for the same in a man. I'd like to find someone that can be a friend, companion, lover...all of that stuff that evolves into a positive relationship. I'm a jack of all trades and master of none. I like to do just about anything. There's the standard walks on the beach, cooking, and Blockbuster nights. But, I also like to pack those bags with no destination in mind and hit the road. Or maybe head down to the stadium to check watch the Charger game (I'm a huge football fan!). Did I mention that I can cook? A good time with good company!
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KrystenOnline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
Hi and thank you for taking the time to checking out my profile! I am pretty much an open book and am very honest and down to earth kind of gal and yes I am a real lady who lives here in the area looking to meet just one special someone. I would love to meet my "soulmate" but not in a hurry and am willing to wait for the right guy for me.I am not into the drama or game playing or looking for just a hookup and if you do not have a current picture posted then please do not waste either of our time as I am not looking for anything but the real thing. Lets be clear I do not know you when we first talk or meet so I will not meet you at your place or going to your place with you or getting into your car. All of that will or may happen in good time after we get to know each other if we decide to get to know each other. It is strange being back as I remember and/or recognize some places and yet it is very different from when I left.I am looking to be able to build a real relationship with someone who is close to my age. I feel that communication is very important in a relationship both in building and keeping it strong and that to do this we should have a true genuine interest in getting to know each other as well as for being upfront and honest with each other. I do believe that it is important to be attracted to each other as well as for having chemistry.I think it would be great to one day have a relationship were we would be each other’s best friends as well as the center of each other’s lives. The kind of relationship and love where everyone else is wishing they had what we have with lots of affection and flirting and fun with each other and who truly enjoy spending time with each other yet we are ok doing stuff apart but miss each other when we are. I do love it when the guy I am with is old fashion type by opening door and taking contol while not controlling of me. If you dont know the difference then I am not sure we would be good together.Such as taking the time to plan what we are going to do or by doing small sweet little things to keep us both interested.Not looking for someone who has to have everything together in life as I do not and I think it is great to build the special life together. This is a great time in my life as this year is bringing a lot of changes and and moving forward for the good including getting ready to start working out again after I had surgery at the beginning of this year.Some of my friends have described me as caring, loving, giving and way to trusting.....lol not sure if I agree with all of that...jkIt would be great if you live near me so we can spend time together and see where it could lead to. Good luck fishing! Something low key would be great like beer and pizza or beer and wings or just ice cream that way you can bolt if you think I am crazy or something like that....just kidding I wouldn't show my crazy the first time we meet.....just kidding again. I'm not crazy but life is way to short to not joke around and have some fun.
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LotusOnline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
About myself... there's plenty of good, and just enough bad to keep things exciting. I'm loyal to the death and would have made the perfect knight if they'd let women do it. I'm a fighter when I have to be and am generous with my time and who I am. I don't have a lot materially, but I don't want for much either. I take care of my home, this hundred-year-old hobbit hole that I'll probably be stuck with till I'm a complaining old biddy, and those I love and who are in my charge get most of my attention. I have an almost gut *** support and defend the underdog, and I'll do just about anything to create harmony and fairness. Integrity is so important to me that it can border on the annoying, which leads me to......the bad. If someone called me a "pain in the ass," I'd have a hard time disagreeing with them. A cute pain in the ass. I can be a bit much and too intense. When I'm into something, I'm in it all the way. I might drive you crazy with my analyzing, debating, and discussing. But just tell me to "time out" myself and I'm fine with that. I react strongly to emotional upsets, although I tend to keep most of that to myself and withdraw a little. There's a heaping of the devil inside me, but it's always in fun, and I'm drawn to situations that'll either make people wag their fingers at me or laugh their asses off. These things are usually more fun with company, and I might have, in the past, been accused of being a bad, I would say mischievous, influence.I like when people disagree with me and don't let me get away with thinking that I'm always right. I have a strong personality and will defend my opinions or the other side of an argument just to keep the dialogue going and the thing explored. Don't let me get away with it. Stand by your opinion and prove it's right by digging out the truth of the matter. I genuinely welcome the differences of opinions and life-styles. I couldn't stand to be with someone who agreed with everything I said or let me have my own way all the time.Are you still there?What I do most of the time...I work in higher ed teaching ESL and Comp I & II. I enjoy the give and take that happens in the classroom and the different experiences that others bring to it, especially those from other cultures and backgrounds. That's where I'm most happy and comfortable, with the interaction and the open exchange of ideas.Outside the classroom...I fill my most of my spare time with various art projects, attempts at writing my own stuff, reading, long walks (about three hours a day with the pup), puzzles, occasional work-outs, PBS and BBC, watching home shopping but rarely buying, theatre shows, out-and-about adventures, reading student essays and lesson-planning, and all the other mundane crap that fills up a life. The old oak tree overtop my house keeps me pretty busy year round cleaning up after it, but we thank it for its shade and the roots which soak up the water that would otherwise be in my crawlspace. I suppose I spend a good deal of time fantasizing and day-dreaming as well. I used to a lot more when younger, and still can't help myself. Old habits, I guess. I like stories. I like getting out of "here" for a while. This world can be a little cold, lonely, scary, and caustic at times.Okay, so what am I looking for?You need to enjoy the company of women. Truly. I get it that you can't help but see us as the love-goddesses we are. You're a (straight) man. That's natural. You want us in your bed. But we can't all be in your bed and most of us won't want to be. Those are just the odds. So you really need to respect the fact that we are fellow human beings who share this space in time with you.That would be the most important thing for me. I don't know if I have a type. I've never really gone by that, and if I had to review exes, I would have to say that they were all different. Honesty, loyalty, and communication are so important, plus just being on the same page as far as expectations. Where I've had problems in the past would have had more to do with lack of sincerity or differences in values than anything else. I've tended to give a lot more than was being reciprocated, and I'm not so willing to do that anymore. If you're going to be in my life, then what is it you have to offer that's going to make my life better in some way? Yes, you have the right to ask the same question of me. I guess we'll have to get to know each other a little and decide if it's worth pursuing. I have to add here that I'm looking more for quality and compatibility over chemistry and physical attraction. I know those are important, but not as much as the former two. Chemistry can be misleading and a shallow judge of character. And I think people give it too much precedence. I am open to exploring and seeing what's out there before getting so serious, though. I might even prefer to not have the weight of a relationship at the moment, but it's got to be good for me in some way. I read somewhere that online dating is useful only for casual sex and superficial love. Perhaps. But I'd like to keep believing that something more were still possible...Happy Hunting. ...or, About You...If anything here applies, that would be great. I'm looking for more than just "says 'bless you' when I sneeze"...You’re wanting to hang out in some church basement one fine Saturday night to give it a go at Bingo and you need a date.You'd consider dressing up for me as Spider Man or Darth Maul or Tim Curry from either RHPS or Legend. Asking too much? I don't expect this right away, so it's okay, relax. Maybe someday.You want to get a cup of coffee and have a talk or check out a museum. I'm quite fond of churches and cemeteries as well. A table-chat or park bench while people watching would be nice too.You can whip me up a fine meal. I wouldn't mind helping you out in there, but a man who knows how to take care of things in the kitchen is pretty sexy to me.You're open-minded, or just bored, and would feel like sitting for me while I do some life-drawing sketches. Seriously, I’m in need of some unabashed models.You need someone to accompany you on walkabout around the city or some random small town to discover new things.You're brave.You treat others with kindness and respect.You're sincere and smart, not clever and cool.You like dogs but don't have a pit bull.You feel like teaching me how to bowl.At least one of your favorite movies is animated.You do what you say you're going to do.You don't mind someone who quotes movies and calls out the different states on license plates.You used to listen to Duran Duran and liked them and aren't afraid to admit as much.You're mature and courteous enough to be honest about what you're looking for.The Feedback Booth on Antiques Roadshow cracks you up.You love homemade cookies and can make them. Or know someone who can.Curiosity urges you to try new things and sometimes gets you into trouble.You've restored an old home and actually knew what you were doing. Or didn't but learned a lot along the way.You judge others by their actions not their words and expect the same in return.