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DelaiahOnline
Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56
Hey there! (Well, that was the easy part.)I’ve been a single father for a few years now, and the kids are all grown (more or less), so it’s time for me to start exploring new frontiers. I enjoy going out to movies, especially with all the good sci-fi and superhero movies out lately. I also enjoy scary (not gory) movies and comedies of all kinds. I love movies that make me think, regardless of genre. I can also be content just staying at home, engaging in conversation or snuggling up on the couch while watching a good movie. I also occasionally spend time bowling or shooting pool with friends. If I go out for drinks (which is rare these days), I prefer the atmosphere in smaller pubs, bars, or even coffee houses, especially if they have live music or open mic nights. Some of my other interests are listening to music, playing card and/or board games, and online gaming. (I feel it's important to mention that, for me, online gaming is a hobby, not a lifestyle!) I love to read, and I even enjoy reading a book to my partner. It’s a great way to share a story!I'm looking for someone who is open to sharing new experiences, and who is willing to laugh at herself as much as she laughs at me. (I tend to laugh a lot, at myself and others, and sometimes for dubious reasons.) Laughter is food for the soul, much better than chicken soup!Also, it would be great to find someone who can engage in stimulating conversation and maybe even teach me some new things or new ways of thinking. I am fairly well educated, although less formally than I’d like to be, and I enjoy just about anything that challenges me intellectually. Last but not least, I am not looking for someone who's a perfect fit. I believe the imperfections in a relationship leave room for people to grow together. I think a simple, "let's get to know each other" date would be a good start. It should be fun for both of us, and keep us where we're both comfortable. The good, old-fashioned dinner date always sounds good for a start. It should be a place that's moderately quiet so we can hear each other speak, but not lifeless and without some fun. I enjoy watching drunk people singing karaoke!And I recently discovered that I enjoy the atmosphere in a coffee house, especially if they have live music or an open mic. How would you feel about that as a first date?If the chemistry is there, we could keep our first date going with a movie, a few drinks, whatever sounds good at the time. I'm pretty open to suggestions, so feel free to make one. After all, it will be your first date too!
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DevereuxOnline
Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54
"UNDER CONSTRUCTON"Not sure how I feel about this on line thing.. Chatting back in forth is a great Ice Breaker, a way to meet some one you would not normally have had the opportunity to have met in your day to day life.... There is no way to express feelings, emotions and other qualities of human interactions with the strokes of a key board... Some live in a fantasy world here in cyber space.. They describe a life of long walks on the beach, star lit skies, fine dining and trips all over the world.. If and when you have the chance to meet they are not the person they claim to be.... I understand we all have wishes and dream... Please be real and upfront from the start... Relationships are never ***they must be ***%, you only get out what you put into it.... With this said, if you find that you’re interested in a real person living in the real world... Please feel free to contact me and get to know the person I am... Thanks for checking out my profile.......... ( Take a moment and read story below )“In this world, it is too common for people to search for someone to lose themselves in. But I am already lost. I will look for someone we can find one another in.” Wish these were my words... I seen this o ***,,ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right person?"... The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mindreplied the author.Here's the answer.Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls,want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, *** being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, youmay begin to desire that experience with someoneelse. This is when relationships breakdown.The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.Because (listen carefully to this):The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found.SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to knowWHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO! ? Coffee or something very down to earth....
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AllenOffline
Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: woman. In age: 25-39
My name is Allen. I am 37 years old. I’m just a good old sweet country boy I love anything that involves being outdoors. I love listening to old country music. I’m also in a wheelchair