SIMILAR PEOPLE
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GermaineOffline
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
I have decided to re-write my Profile. meetville can be a very strange place and I've decided to be a little more specific about who I am, what I am looking for, and where I am headed (as if I know!). . .I am 48, short (4'11") with long, white blonde hair and I am thin. I am no beauty queen, but I get a little bit of attention here and there. If you are looking for a Barbie, a Trophy Girlfriend, or someone who puts in a lot of hours on her appearance, keep looking. I'm not her.I am also separated after a long marriage ***years). I have been separated for over a year now and am in the middle of a divorce. It's become an arduous process. The marriage is over. DO NOT contact me if you wish to judge me for dating while still married or act surprised when I say I am separated. You do not know my circumstances and I don't wish to discuss them with strangers. Suffice it to say, my Profile while soon change to "divorced". I am a fine, good woman with a strong sense of moral values. I DO NOT sleep around nor am I going to start now. I am the mother of 2 grown children who both HATE the meetville thing and are strongly opposed to this process.I like to do a lot of things and that list changes regularly now that I am in the process of re-discovering myself. I like to cook, read and I do handcrafts. Like most people, I like tv and movies but I don't live and breathe them. I LOVE rock music, indie and alt/music. I can't deal with rap and twangy country. Honestly, I don't like most country music. I am intelligent and always looking for ways to better myself and grow. I believe in God but I do not attend formal services within an organized religion. I don't wish to offend anyone, but I am not at a place in my life where I want to drink the Kool-Aid at the moment. Please DO NOT contact me if you like to quote scripture or uplifting things you heard on KSBJ. I am not a heathen but I am a free-thinker. If you attend church services, I think that's great and it doesn't mean I wouldn't like to meet you. As for political views, please don't discuss them with me. I grew up in a very political environment and I DO NOT like having other people's opinions spouted at me. If you want to make a good impression, do as meetville advises and keep your opinions to yourself. Being smart and politically knowledgeable means you vote, not rant.I don't drink. I grew up in an alcoholic household. It's a personal decision for myself alone and I wouldn't impose it on anyone else. If you drink, fine. Please be honest about so-called "social" drinking. My idea of a good time will never be hanging out in a bar with a bunch of "friends" on a regular basis. Sorry.Also, I don't smoke. I don't like hanging out in smoking environments.I am looking for a lot of things in a guy. He should be intelligent and interested in the world around him and his own personal growth, whatever that may entail. There is a certain type I am attracted to but it does not limit me. At this point in time, I am looking for someone for reasonable companionship moving towards deep friendship and a possible committed relationship. I know someone who literally goes through men on meetville like KIeenex. She will schedule multiple dates in a single day. This IS NOT me - please don't let it be you, either!!!! I am not looking to date a bunch of people. I will not be a part of a line-up myself.These are a few of the things I keep coming across on meetville that are a definite TURN-OFF:1. Do not message me and say something like "Hey baby, want to meet me?" The answer is NO. Invest a little of yourself, please.2. Do NOT be desperate. You haven't even met me. If I give you my phone number, please don't whine when I don't want to spend hours on the phone in the evenings. I work with the public. I get tired. I have things I have to do. Please understand.3. Do NOT want to have a relationship based entirely on texting and never meeting. Creepy.4. This may come as a shock to the general male population, but I don't think too many women are interested in your motorcycles, your boats and your other assorted toys. Maybe other women do and I'm just weird - I personally could care less. I have a dog, but I am not going to post pictures of him here on meetville. 5. Post your real age and your real occupation. If you're honest, it doesn't really matter anyway.6. Please, please, please take off your baseball caps in your pictures. 7. And this is a weird thing I've actually experienced more than once here: I am looking to EVENTUALLY find a real, pleasant adult relationship. I am not looking to jump into the next one blind and profess undying love and get married right away. SLOW DOWN!!8. I have read "Fifty Shades of Gray". I am NOT that girl. Please don't think you are THAT guy.9. If you are angry about a lot of stuff, please pass me by. I don't DO anger anymore. I don't want yours.These are a few of the things I'd like to find:1. A guy available for a real, adult relationship. This means normal date-like stuff in the beginning. This DOES NOT have to be the most expensive thing you can think of to impress me. Please don't try to impress me!!2. A guy I am reasonably attracted to. I like a lot of different things when it comes to physical attractiveness and I am open-minded, however, I don't lie to myself. If you're not attracted to me, I get it. Expect the same from me - I don't know too many people who can fake it.3. I'm juggling a lot of changes. You're going to have to be patient with my schedule working retail, legal stuff and logistical issues with young-adult children.4. Someone who likes to take walks and talk. Someone who likes to laugh and hang out. Someone you can see sitting across the home dinner table from and just enjoying shooting the breeze about the day. I'd like to hike the Appalachian Trail someday. I'm not a big beach girl. I like trees and mountains and lakes.5. Someone who cares whether I make it home from work okay, cares if I slam my finger in the car door or wakes up the next morning. No obsession, just concern and interest in what's going on in each other's lives and minds.6. A guy who wants to be a partner and a helpmate. I'm no one's Mommy anymore.Please understand, this profiling yourself on a public website is awkward and I hate the whole thing. I have a serious case of dating cold feet.Not trying to be mean or anything else, just a little more specific. I wish the best for everyone out there! A first date should be something simple, coffee or meal. A chance to talk and work out the nervousness.
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ShawnOffline
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
Looking for a fun, hot, attractive man who can support himself, not been to jail (unless you are the guard) yet still has enough "bad boy" to make our relationship exciting. That's my dream guy--now for reality--If you can be that plus go to church with me, do family things, eat popcorn and hold my hand in the movies, then you are what I need! Here's what you need--a fun, hot, attractive woman who can support herself, not been to jail (and no I'm not the guard, I just have the handcuffs) yet still has enough "bad girl" to make our relationship exciting. I'm your dream girl--now for reality--oh yeah, that is my reality. Do you want it to be yours?Update: Please!!! Could somebody explain to me why all you guys say you'd like to go for a walk? In all my years of dating, the only time a guy has EVER asked me to go for a walk was to get my ass up and walk to the kitchen to get him a beer!!Latest update: OK, for those of you who ask me why I say I want a "bad boy" but someone that's never been to jail, I said "bad" not "stupid"! There are plenty of bad boys out there (and you know who you are) who are smart enough and responsible enough to know how to stay out of trouble with the law!!! Let me sum it up--I need someone who can attend a classy, social event with me one night and can have wild, crazy fun with me the next night (or the same night, who knows?!) and be comfortable doing both! Hey, I'm a Gemini, remember?!Something else I must add: There's one thing in my life I have never, ever done and will never, ever do and that is--date a married man!! And guys, if you're separated, you're married!! It's that black-and-white to me. Meet for a drink to get acquainted and see if we have chemistry. Chemistry is a must for me!
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KilieOffline
Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
I find myself back in the dating scene after a 20 year relationship. I am really nervous and never thought I would have to do this again but thanks to his cheating heart here I am. I am looking for an african american male to spend time with and get to know and then who knows what can happen. I have 4 children, 3 over the age of 18 and 1 lil girl who is 15. I am also nana to 3 beautiful babies. I value honesty and truthfulness above all else and love good conversation. I also believe in God, put him first and go to praise and worship. Not looking to change you just keping it real.I love R & B and hip hop/ soul music and am up for dancing and having a good time. I also enjoy some newer artist like Usher, Neyo and jut about anyone with a smooth rythmic voice. As far as rap, think Notorious BIG was the most talented artist who died (RIP Biggie) way before his time. Also like LL Cool J (what lady doen't) Luda, and Nellie. I also love watching football (NY Jets) I know, I know, and basketball got Nets. I love to cook all types of food but soul food is my favorite, ya know greens, mac and cheese, rice and beans, fried chicken, cajun catfish, corn bread, grits etc... Nothing makes me happier than seeing my man enjoy my cooking. I describe myelf as being a senible free spirit who has made some mistakes in life but will always keep it real and loves to cook, read, dance and have a good time. I love spending time with my family. I also am looking for soeone who might like to take quiet walks or have some time alone together just pleasing each other. I live in MI by way of NY where I was born, raised ad lived up until 2 years ago. People here in MI love my NY accent, although I don't hear it. I am not your typical "white girl", or so I have been told, once you talk to me you will get it, so hit me up you may be pleasantly surprised... Up for anything as long as its just us not a group setting with other friends where we won't have time to talk and get to know one another.